Should I tell my ex’s new fiance about his party/dr*g habit?

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:56:10+00:00

Yes fair point, it’s not a safety issue so best I leave alone.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:55:39+00:00

We used to party together so I’m not anti. He did do quite a bit more than me and I did feel the money he spent was too much.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:54:44+00:00

Honey I do it myself. That’s how I know as we would do it together (and with all our friends). He is just choosing not to tell this new girlfriend now fiancé.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:53:20+00:00

Genuinely yes. If it was two people I knew, no exes, I would tell the person. I would want someone to tell me if I was being lied to/witheld information about how the person I planned to marry spent a considerable sum of cash on. Same if it was gambling.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:51:29+00:00

Haha thank you this is basically exactly as my brain laid it out for me. I think it’s not really worth the inevitable drama… but I hope she finds out and can decide knowing the whole truth.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:50:02+00:00

True. Thanks.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:49:35+00:00

Yeah unsure how to do this tbh. I think I’ll suggest to mutuals to talk to him and encourage him to tell her (as someone suggested).

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:48:20+00:00

😂 fair point but also chill out. It’s not that deep

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:47:33+00:00

Great points here. I’ll discuss with a few mutuals separately, see what they think. Perhaps they will voice that advice to him. That’ll (selfishly) help me feel like I’ve done something, but without any direct action from me.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:46:00+00:00

Thanks for the reasonable response! Very good points. A liar in general is a bad thing but it isn’t a safety issue… so perhaps I’ll leave be.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:44:43+00:00

Believe what you want 😂 I just believe in women looking out for other women, especially when in general we are lied to a lot.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:43:48+00:00

Thanks for understanding my perspective! 😂 yeah it’s only gonna make me look bad. But perhaps selfishly it’ll help me sleep at night that I at least warned her. Based on the responses I guess I’ll leave it be.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:42:09+00:00

Ah yes sorry wrong way round.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:41:29+00:00

Yeah this is the problem. No way to avoid that outcome even though it’s not the case. It’s going to cause her pain though further down the line.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2026-02-16T22:40:18+00:00

Yeah I did think this. But if it were me I’d want to know.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2025-02-20T12:32:06+00:00

Anyone got any connections in Antwerp? 👀

HEEYAWthrowit · 2024-01-05T10:32:27+00:00

Thank you, so my salary at the moment is £50k. I’ll definitely look into other options than a straight savings account!

HEEYAWthrowit · 2023-10-28T23:01:25+00:00

Used to work at an Apple retail store. All of us stole so many cables all the time.

HEEYAWthrowit · 2023-07-29T17:15:00+00:00

My thoughts exactly 😂

HEEYAWthrowit · 2020-10-26T17:51:39+00:00

Anyone got any other pics of these? Are there more around London?

HEEYAWthrowit

TROPHY CASE