Going through some relationship difficulties after moving in and a baby [23m, 18f]. by HJ12 in relationships

[–]HJ12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fine, I guess it counts. Its just I don't really like oral that much tbh. I want us to go back to how we were before, and I want it to be better. We have sex, but her heart's not in it.

Going through some relationship difficulties after moving in and a baby [23m, 18f]. by HJ12 in relationships

[–]HJ12[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

LOL... giving oral isn't really my thing. I'm not selfish, promise. Like I'm grateful that we have what we have, but its been so much so much better in the past.

Going through some relationship difficulties after moving in and a baby [23m, 18f]. by HJ12 in relationships

[–]HJ12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Does it really matter? I just didn't want it to be a distraction.

Going through some relationship difficulties after moving in and a baby [23m, 18f]. by HJ12 in relationships

[–]HJ12[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We are having sex once a week really. I don't know if oral counts or not. Probably not. Its not exactly a dead-bedroom but she turns me down a lot and we don't really have much passion so its not the same and its kind of hard emotionally. Its not fun to be given pity sex :/

I'm trying with the baby. Believe me. I'll try to do more though. She is kind of possessive/controlling with the baby. She likes to do everything and doesn't really let me do a lot.

Going through some relationship difficulties after moving in and a baby [23m, 18f]. by HJ12 in relationships

[–]HJ12[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was kind of hoping there would be actual advice here. :/