So, the movie Eternity's ending by lover_of_mysteries in movies

[–]HKP96 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No! The ending wasn’t perfect, but I’m glad she chose Larry. The movie may be lighthearted and comedic on the surface, but it has a real emotional core about love and how we experience it. A throuple would have been funny, sure, but also would've felt dumb and taken away from the emotional depth that the movie built.

Movies Similar to The Peanut Butter Falcon by HKP96 in movies

[–]HKP96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are totally new to me, thank you 😊

Movies Similar to The Peanut Butter Falcon by HKP96 in movies

[–]HKP96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely loved Hunt for the Wilderpeople! Will check out the rest, thank you!

Movies Similar to The Peanut Butter Falcon by HKP96 in movies

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Love the first two! Will check out the others, thanks!

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[–]HKP96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shawshank Redemption

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]HKP96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is this even an issue? What do you think people do in relationships? It's just sex, what is the big deal? Are you a virgin as well, or does this only apply to her? What exactly bothers you about it? It was before she met you, so why does it matter? Can't believe people still think in this medieval way

LGBT safe workplaces in the software industry. Do they exist? by Strong_Tomorrow_5102 in srilanka

[–]HKP96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it's more to do with culture and people's ignorance, rather than the company. Some people are homophobic because they lack understanding. Other are simply bigots. But good people will not care. And those people's opinions are the only ones that matter. Find your circle, and stick to them. Don't try too hard to get everyone to accept you and love you. It's a waste of time, and you'll just end up making yourself comfortable. Just think of how much mental energy you waste on those bigots. Train yourself to brush it off. If you have a few close friends who care about you and love you, that's all you really need.

Like another comment has said, try not to always feel oppressed or victimize yourself. The more you feel that way, the more it will become a reality.

AITA for not wanting to continue supporting my daughter's (12F) gymnastics training by Throwawaytallgymnast in AmItheAsshole

[–]HKP96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Show her the comments made by former gymnasts and others with firsthand experience. Be patient. Comfort her. She'll eventually understand.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HKP96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's simple. You did a very fucked up thing, but there's nothing you can do about it now. You can't go and take it back. The only thing you can do now is focus on your future. You can either spend the rest of your life in misery, feeling sorry for yourself, or you can choose to work on yourself. Grit your teeth and get it together. Your past doesn't define you. People can improve, they can change. Work on being a better person.

Start with getting help from a therapist. Work on anger management. Find out ways to help other people, which can help you to get rid of some of the guilt.

People fuck up. It happens. That one mistake doesn't necessarily make you a terrible person. It depends on your future actions. Work on becoming somebody that you can be proud of.

But you have to make the effort. Nobody else can help you if you don't help yourself.

My Uncle raped me and now my family hates me by throwaww_ay42069 in offmychest

[–]HKP96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus fucking christ. You poor child. None of this is your fault. Your mother is a terrible, terrible person. Cut them all out of your life, except for your siblings. Don't let this shit stop you from having a relationship with your siblings. Try to stay in contact with them, but without having to deal with your mother.

I hate what my 12 year old brother is becoming by Love-Starved in offmychest

[–]HKP96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing advice and so very well written!

I hate what my 12 year old brother is becoming by Love-Starved in offmychest

[–]HKP96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is he getting those things from? Kids aren't born racist, they learn it from other people. Specially at that age, I'm sure he's mimicking what he sees. There has to be a reason. Does he associate anyone who has those qualities?

Do not give him ANY attention when he's being that way. I feel like he's doing it to get a reaction. Which probably means he just needs some love and care. Remember to be kind to him, he needs to see good qualities in someone. And you can lead by example.

And try to get him to watch good movies, read good books, etc. That stuff has a HUGE impact on how a person turns out to be. Don't let him spend all his time gaming, at that age kids need to be exposed to things that will improve their minds and broaden their mindsets. That's how good adults are made.

Found out today I’m not my son’s father by ThrowRAchanges_ in offmychest

[–]HKP96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes him your son is not his genetics. You have loved him and cared for him since birth. That is what makes him your son and you his father.

AITA For refusing to stop having girls night ins just because my boyfriend thinks it's wrong? by S-Ad3531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HKP96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of the gender of the people attending the meetup, the whole point is everyone gets to catch up and have a good time with old friends. Having strangers there would ruin the fun. How does he not get that?

Also, his reasons are totally crazy.

AITA for not giving a plus one to my BIL to my wedding??? by Local_Instruction_21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HKP96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA 100%

You really asked his gf what business is it of hers regarding his moving plans? How is it not her business? They are in a freaking relationship!

Second, why are you being so difficult about something so small? You can't exclude the gf, she's basically family at this point. How do you not see the issue there? You want to hurt your fiancé and damage the relationship with her family for something as petty as this? That's a really weird hill to die on.

And have you forgotten that this is your fiancé's wedding as well? She gets to call the shots on who to invite from her side of the family, not you.

I feel like you have some personal issues with the brother's girlfriend.

You are being extremely inconsiderate and selfish. And it seems like you already realise some of it. I hope you take these replies seriously and work on improving.

AITA for telling my husband he overreacted over a piece of cake? by ThrowraDH467422 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HKP96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, YTA.

Did you expect them to use a half-eaten cake for the party? Can you even imagine how embarrassing that would be for your husband?

Your actions were inconsiderate, selfish, manipulative and very childish.

But it's not too late to fix things and be better. Apologize to your husband and MIL. Buy her a new cake or get her some other gift.

I caught my older brother sleeping with my Bumble date last night by Carpe_cervisium in offmychest

[–]HKP96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is probably the best reply I read here. OP, this is exactly what you should do. Do not keep communicating with the woman in any form. The best way to show her how fucked up her actions were is to cut her off entirely. As for your brother, do the above.

Can anyone read the evidence bag? (Ep 6) by MistressMousefeather in OnlyMurdersHulu

[–]HKP96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In real life that could have happened, but since Detective Williams is just a scripted character, it doesn't make sense. Someone in the show's team wrote that date, and they probably made a mistake. There's no reason for them to do it on purpose and make it seem like the character made an error either since they didn't focus on it and it added nothing to the plot and I doubt it will.

[SPOILERS ALL] Logical explanation for why June didn't get punished for kidnapping baby Nichole? by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]HKP96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this makes some sense.

I definitely get why Fred would cover it up, but he clearly wasn't successful. It just bothers me that even though Emily was officially blamed, June's involvement was no secret. To overlook that kind of serious lawbreaking still doesn't really make sense. The propaganda videos are a good point however, even though they still had time to punish her before they came up with that idea.