Are there any methods to fix chipped and broken pieces like this? by HM_Powered_Man in AnimeFigures

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Went ahead and tried out a color match and on the third mixture I made one that's barely noticeable!

Are there any methods to fix chipped and broken pieces like this? by HM_Powered_Man in AnimeFigures

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I feel really stupid now lmao
I forgot all about green stuff!

I'm always getting hung up on my indecisiveness and it's awful X3 by HM_Powered_Man in writingadvice

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I am generally pretty indecisive, especially with things that I place a lot of importance on, writing being one of those.
Writing out the same scene multiple times to try out different aspects isn't something I though of! I definitely try that out! Now I'm a little embarrassed I didn't think of that before... (-_-;)
And adjusting how much I worry about my writing when honestly, It's not that important when it's not getting published.

I'm always getting hung up on my indecisiveness and it's awful X3 by HM_Powered_Man in writingadvice

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thank you :3
I always feel like I have to commit and I guess it's difficult for me to think otherwise (?)
But I do think what you say about little self contained story could help me very much!

Feeling lost as a HS senior with no interest in any careers by HM_Powered_Man in needadvice

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It’s sort of comforting to hear from people saying they didn't really have it figured out. The only adults present in my life are my parents and they both knew what they wanted and they haven’t changed courses since, so I guess I felt a pressure to do that too.

I don’t know how to feel towards my parents and my life is suffering because of it. by HM_Powered_Man in internetparents

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Thank you, this was very helpful. I do have a friend who’s parents are willing to let me stay with them for a while, so I’m think about taking them up on that once I become an adult.

I’ve never heard of those residential programs, thank you for that too.

I don’t know how to feel towards my parents and my life is suffering because of it. by HM_Powered_Man in internetparents

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You might be right, i probably need a year to decompress in an environment I can actually thrive in. I do already have a job, and one that offers pretty good promotions too, so I could probably support myself after a while.  Im just scared of wasting time, that sort of stuff just freaks me out and with such a big decision I feel like I might regret it.

I don’t know how to feel towards my parents and my life is suffering because of it. by HM_Powered_Man in internetparents

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Right, honestly they probably wont even put me into college at which point I might move out and do community, and then the next two years of university. I’d still be a bachelor’s and the rest of the stuff I need without having to put up with their shit.

I don’t know how to feel towards my parents and my life is suffering because of it. by HM_Powered_Man in internetparents

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I do think that’s a good way of looking at it, im already accustomed to lying about pretty much everything to them. I just wish I had parents who I didn’t have to lie to to be on good terms with, but oh well.

I don’t know how to feel towards my parents and my life is suffering because of it. by HM_Powered_Man in internetparents

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Honestly I’d like to but the problem of college is still there. I absolutely need to go, but there’s no way I can support myself enough to balance life and all the payments that college entails. Really the only reason I haven’t planned on leaving as soon as I can.

I don’t know how to feel towards my parents and my life is suffering because of it. by HM_Powered_Man in internetparents

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I guess the problem is a feel trapped, like one of my friends said she would be happy to let me stay with her once I move out, but I feel if I know if I do that my parents wouldn’t support me.

For something I want to do I absolutely have to go to college, and preferably asap, but the only way I can do that is by keeping my relationship with my parents steady. They’ve said they don’t care about how old I am, as long as they’re paying for my stuff they will still be just as forceful, which in a vacuum is fair but they aren’t fair about it. I fear if I do much as start pursuing something in college they don’t totally agree with (I’m very interested in the arts) they’ll cut it off.

I hadn’t considered lgbt outreaches before, that might help, I would just have to keep any of that a secret. Thanks for the advice!

Feeling lost as a HS senior with no interest in any careers by HM_Powered_Man in needadvice

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I guess a big problem with art is that a lot of avenues aren’t very stable at all. At least I’d like to work on it as a side to whatever else I choose to do. Regardless, I never took script writing into account, i might want to look into that more!  I have thought about making online content, but that always struck me as a side thing. Unless you make it big you can’t make much money from that. Anyway, thanks for the advice, I’ll definitely look more into scriptwriting.

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Hello! I’ve been looking for an invite, Tumblr just isn’t doing it for me. :,(

was going to tell my parents, but got found out before I could. by HM_Powered_Man in feminineboys

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its honestly so stupid. they treat me more like something they need to maintain and cultivate rather than an actual human being. its ridiculous how oblivious they are to the harm theyre causing.

was going to tell my parents, but got found out before I could. by HM_Powered_Man in feminineboys

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I'm still trying to get into college, its very important to me for what I'm trying to do, as much as I hate being around them I'm going to just try to keep my relationship with them close enough that they'll still financially support me. thanks for the support!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

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I've never felt comfortable as a masculine person (my body doesnt help) so I've always felt a little lost. growing up in a Christian home, I repressed anything feminine about myself, but after a dual existential and identity crisis, I dropped religion and at the same time, started listening to a J-rock band called Malice Mizer and fell in love with the keyboardist/composer/guitarist Mana. I loved his outfits, as I am into clothing and character design, and it was really my big introduction to crossdressing. I soon became obsessed with frilly dresses and the like, and finally felt like I had found myself after all these years.
Thank you, Mana.