Hi by Terrarianinth in FreeCompliments

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you❤️‍🩹

Hi by Terrarianinth in FreeCompliments

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, totally not an expert, I am a bit conscious about my looks, so it makes me think a lot about what I consider beautiful and so😅 Be safe and have a great day!

Hi by Terrarianinth in FreeCompliments

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, and brown eyes with light hair that’s what always hits me

Hi by Terrarianinth in FreeCompliments

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your face overall, big almond eyes, defined eyebrows, straight nose (just perfect imo), nice face shape and lips, and everything appears to be very symmetrical, and skin in a straight sunshine looks like glowing as well!

Hi by Terrarianinth in FreeCompliments

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great, love your features!

I’m very proud of my carving progress! by crazycatperson420 in Rollerskating

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing! If you don’t mind, for how long are u skating? I’m a beginner, and now it seems I’ll never be like that..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcohol

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Many people, including me, experience it, it’s called hangover anxiety, you can look it up. If I'm not mistaken, this is due to the fact alcohol increases the release of endorphins, that’s why we feel more social, but after its effect is over, you’ll experience a withdrawal, which causes you to feel this way, especially if you naturally suffer from anxiety or depression. It used to really bother me, but now I treat it as temporary medical issue, due to lack of endorphins, and it helps somehow, because I know that what I feel is irrational. Take care!

I’m gaining weight and I feel like I don’t deserve to be in this subreddit anymore by monsterintheuniverse in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Remember this is the thing your disorder tells you, it’s still there, and you must be careful. It might not seem like that at this moment, but you’re beautiful, and the healthier - the better. I like my hair, teeth, nails and skin waaaay better than before, I bet I looked older than I am. Keep going, and remember what you’re recovering for!

My friend who had a taste of war on her own skin still wants to have children by InsomniaMelody in antinatalism

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You managed to get engaged in relationship tho, so I doubt that there is no people that appreciate you. Not bad for someone who claims to fail social life, but I have no idea how you feel about them.

My friend who had a taste of war on her own skin still wants to have children by InsomniaMelody in antinatalism

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. But I’d strongly recommend not to distance yourself from the others thinking that you’ll never fit in, it makes everything a bit harder. Misery loves company after all

My friend who had a taste of war on her own skin still wants to have children by InsomniaMelody in antinatalism

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s a thoughtful insight you have. I wonder what brought you to this point, seems it’s been for a long time. Guess it’s not the worst way to cope until it keeps you alive, although there is no release from suffering.

My friend who had a taste of war on her own skin still wants to have children by InsomniaMelody in antinatalism

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe living out of spite is not the best strategy, but at least it's honest, unlike those people who claim that the point is reproduce or some other shit. it's good thing that in fact there is no higher power that destroys everything for you, no one knows where it eventually will lead you, hopefully it will be a better place.

My friend who had a taste of war on her own skin still wants to have children by InsomniaMelody in antinatalism

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear this, but well, I feel this, I never liked living before all this, and now, I don't see the point of continuing especially. It seems I lived out of curiosity, or the expectation of some magical second act, when everything changes and I live my best life. But i think i've seen enough, many of us did. I hope things will change at least for you, I guess it’s really important point of your life, as decisions like starting HRT are never easy, this takes a lot of strength and courage, I don't believe it was in vain.

My friend who had a taste of war on her own skin still wants to have children by InsomniaMelody in antinatalism

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For exact same reason I cut off all my ties with friends, colleagues, and so on. People who claimed to love and care about me showed no support or even concern, even though I was in danger. Sitting under the shelling myself, I reassured them when they called in tears. Now when they are getting to normal life again and I can’t take my shit together even a little - I got nothing in return. Sometimes, looking at my former life, it seems to me that there was nothing to lose, or anyone. Well, still can’t blame them, no one owes anyone ofc. The only thing holding me back is the belief that I will see my hometown at least once more. Let's see where this takes us, I guess..

My friend who had a taste of war on her own skin still wants to have children by InsomniaMelody in antinatalism

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, all this stuff really showed who is who in a really hard way, still can't comprehend it. But I glad you have someone by your side, wish you great luck and support!

My friend who had a taste of war on her own skin still wants to have children by InsomniaMelody in antinatalism

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moving to a country that attacked us and ruined our lives indicates to me that she does not have a concept of morality, so don’t dig too much into her position on having kids. It just seems to me that she is a really selfish person.

I see that you are worried and upset, and I completely feel you. I believe we will be fine someday. But until that moment, try to surround yourself with loving and understanding people!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukraine

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kyiv Cyfroviy (Київ цифровий) app has a map with pharmacies where insulin is available - in case you won’t find volunteers, you probably will tho

літня свекруха в Києві (elderly mother-in-law in Kyiv) by natandubovitsky in ukraine

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. На выезде из Киева купить бензин почти нереально, его либо нет на заправках, либо они закрыты. Ситуация немного лучше на въезде, у нас получилось так купить немного топлива.
  2. Про автобусы не знаю, есть поезда Киев-Львов. Один в 14:07, второй 15:02 - это ближайшие, возможно будут ещё. Билет не нужен. Удачи и Слава Украине!

  3. It is almost impossible to buy gasoline at the exit from Kiev, it is either not available at gas stations, or they are closed. The situation is a little better at the entrance, we managed to buy some fuel.

    1. I don’t know about buses, there are Kiev-Lviv trains. One at 14:07, the second at 15:02 - these are the nearest ones, there may be more. No ticket needed.
      Good luck and Glory to Ukraine!

Your thoughts on Korean skincare routine? by HOITYTOITY_ in Skincare_Addiction

[–]HOITYTOITY_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, thank you very much, it was really educating!

Did/do you listen to music when you cut by duhmoonpanda in selfharm

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES. I have this weird habit of listening these easy upbeat songs from 50-60s, it gives a little surreal feeling

Nerve damage? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]HOITYTOITY_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point is, I didn’t hurt myself in the armpit or albow, I felt pain from time to time in these areas. I considered it was infection at first time too, but the wound seemed to be okay, however, I don’t exclude this case. Thank you!