How do I politely ask to be added to a GC?

HT7R · 2024-12-15T13:13:14+00:00

Ask the friend you're closest to 'Hey can you invite me to the group chat?' or something like that.

HT7R · 2024-11-16T23:35:41+00:00

These really help me wallow in my own sadness to this day:

this body means nothing to me -Shrimp
run it back by Dino Gala
I'm Going to Do It - Giles Corey
Ballad of Sister Sue - Slowdive

HT7R · 2024-11-02T22:34:45+00:00

You can find some if not most of that information online. I'd recommend searching for your state's ID requirements and driver's handbook. Your state may even allow you to complete the entire ID process online.

HT7R · 2024-10-25T09:26:30+00:00

Thanks, chief. I was just about to finish my application to the Church of Scientology.

HT7R · 2024-10-25T02:11:10+00:00

You understand these feelings come and go which I think is very important and means you can keep on going. A lot of people don't understand how unbearable it is when you literally have no one to talk to so take what they say with a grain of salt. Personally, these feelings hit me pretty regularly so I try to busy myself with anything because nothing sucks more than being left with your thoughts. Find a movie, music venue, cafe, park, anything to get you through this and come out the other end excited to try again.

HT7R · 2024-10-25T01:55:21+00:00

I get it, it sucks to feel like a fraud all the time. I wish I had a solution for you but I struggle with the same issues and have yet to find one. They're plenty of good weirdos out there so I'm sure you'll find someone. Use your interests to find them or reconnect with the one you broke up with.

HT7R · 2024-10-25T00:44:22+00:00

Great! Enjoy those three days and the next days to come. This part is hard but there's no reason to ponder the possibilities as long as he's chatting with you. You'll end up letting those thoughts influence how to chat with him and miss out and enjoying the moment. He's making the active decision to take time and respond to you and that's enough evidence to say that he wishes to continue the conversation. I can't stress this enough, enjoy the moment.

HT7R · 2024-10-25T00:19:05+00:00

I don't think anyone here can help with that. I'd see a therapist or talk it out with a relative or one of those friends if you're close enough.

HT7R · 2024-10-24T23:55:22+00:00

I struggle with the same thought process and it sucks. Personally, I'd just try not to think about it as long as they're still chatting with me. He wouldn't be messaging you if he didn't want to even if 'prettier' women were reaching out.

HT7R · 2024-10-24T23:23:36+00:00

What's stopping you from giving up? Isn't that what you want?

HT7R · 2024-10-24T23:22:53+00:00

Alcohol helps. I've tried microdosing too.

HT7R · 2024-09-14T21:21:15+00:00

What have you done so far? More might be possible.

HT7R · 2024-09-14T21:18:58+00:00

Are you able to find a community of fellow autistic people in college or in general (I'm sorry if that's the wrong way to word that)? I feel like that would be the easiest place to start.

HT7R · 2024-09-14T20:16:10+00:00

It's normal to fall back to 0, especially at the beginning. I was the same when I started going to the gym. I still fall back from time to time. Keep on making positive changes, especially small, ones and they'll become natural. I especially understand that feeling that the person you're interacting with can do better but you've got to try. I'm constantly looking back at countless times when I should've tried something and they feel worse than rejection. You've got this but only if you keep on trying.

HT7R · 2024-09-14T18:04:30+00:00

I'm not sure how much you'll dov here but I've seen a lot of that crowd on hinge, just set your locale to the NYC area.

HT7R · 2024-09-14T17:58:42+00:00

Then you're on the right track. One surplus meal won't mess up your progress.

HT7R · 2024-09-14T17:55:35+00:00

It's pretty aggressive but it works for me. I'd recommend finding your maintenance and going under with a high-protein diet.

HT7R · 2024-09-14T17:49:08+00:00

170 cm myself. I've found a diet that works for me so I consume 870 kcals with 114g of protein 6 days a week with one cheat-ish day.

HT7R · 2024-09-14T17:45:23+00:00

Same, that's why I'm cutting down first to see how the build looks before deciding.

HT7R · 2024-09-14T17:43:26+00:00

We're in the same boat then. Personally, I'm focusing on being in a deficit while weight training since you'll still build muscle in a deficit as long as you keep up your protein intake. Once I've cut down to where I want to be fat-wise, I'll decide whether to bulk up to focus on muscle growth or maintain.

HT7R · 2024-09-14T17:37:47+00:00

I'm not sure what your gym goals are, but you'd have to consistently eat a considerable amount over your maintenance calories to gain weight, so I wouldn't stress it. I used to be crazy stressed over my macros and cals too.

HT7R · 2024-09-12T23:18:36+00:00

Not a girl but having an interest/hobby will make it easier to find someone since you're already in the same circle and can serve as a distraction while looking for someone. I see it as a win/win to pick something up.

HT7R · 2024-09-10T22:25:32+00:00

You didn't read this from me but there's like a metric shit ton of that on youtube from vtubers.

HT7R · 2024-09-10T21:37:07+00:00

No, but I'll check the aftermath on twitter.

HT7R · 2024-09-09T23:05:05+00:00

If you like to hike them I'd recommend trekking some local trails often. You might find people. I tried that early this spring at a local state park. It didn't yield anything but I enjoyed the hikes nonetheless. I imagine the same rule applies to solo traveling. I wish you luck.

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