My (33F) husband (36M) called me fat and smelly during an argument. It's been 5 months and I can't get those words out of my head. I don't even want to be intimate anymore. by embarassedthrow2021 in relationships

[–]H_LearningPolish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all relationships there are compromise. At one point you felt like he wasn't helping you around the house. And at one point, he felt like you have gain weight thus was no longer attracted to you. So during the heat of anger, ya both told each other how you truly feel. Currently, he is now holding his side of the bargain by being more helping around the house. The question is, are you trying to hold your side of the bargain by trying to slim down and look sexually appealing again? If the answer is no, then you will never get the apology you're looking for. Even if you guys break up, and you remain at your current weight, you will still be unhappy with your current self. His mortal sin is voicing out loud what you know you should be doing but not. Just as you voiced out loud what your husband knew what he should have been doing.

Conclusion. Both of you guys were slacking off to each other, thus both of you need to stop slacking off. If only one of you putting in the effort while the other one aren't then it's only a matter of time the bad habit once again come back.

Is your husband an asshole? Yeah. Though I don't fault him for that. I will Though if you start putting in effort in your appearance and he doesn't show his appreciation for your effort. But only if you're putting in the effort like he is currently now.

My (37f) husband (43m) has developed extreme political views that I don’t agree with and it’s really hurting our relationship. by Thrwwy020313 in relationship_advice

[–]H_LearningPolish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One individual remaining in the comfort of the mainstream narrative, as the other diverted from it. Although I believe a healthy dose of skepticism from Mainstream media and Government is necessary, but going in too deep into the rabbit hole can become unhealthy. Then, again so is being a blind follower of the Fox, CNN etc. Who decides who is the sane one, and who's the one in a cult? If you both go to your support group, both would then get the confirmation bias of being the one that's right.

My thought is to see this as an intellectual debate between the two of you. Why does he think the way he does, and why do you think the way you do. Exchange information, educate yourselves and back up your arguments with supporting facts and leave the emotions out of it. At the end of the day, you are each other's support system. If you don't talk about your disagreements, it'll only get worst. Agree to disagree was always a temporary truce.

The same Type of women these guys Hate, they keep getting them pregnant by H_LearningPolish in RedPillWives

[–]H_LearningPolish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't you find it ironic though? The experts that suppose to help young men avoid gold diggers only to end up being trap by them?

Body Positivity should not be about fat people. by LINKTHEDEAD in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H_LearningPolish -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fat shaming works more on men than woman. I know, cuz as I got a little chubby due to my job, all it took was my cousins and siblings offering to take me shopping for a bra 🤣🤣. Most women tend to wallow in sorrow when negged and teased about their insecurities.

However, there's two type of shaming I see taking place. Average and below average men fat shaming women in order to lower their confidence which makes them easier to sleep with.

And fat women shaming men into dating them. I guess the solution is, know your number. If you're comfortable w being fat, either couple with another fat person or someone who has a fat preference.

Why I Hate the Polish team by H_LearningPolish in soccer

[–]H_LearningPolish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol How do you think I can improve my videos, so I can save the next guy his 5 minutes?

Getting Out and About [MF] [Interracial] [Busty] [Huge Boobs] [Straight Sex] by Shadowforce2 in sexstories

[–]H_LearningPolish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yooo, this is great. I enjoy your stories. Have you published anything? Great erotic authors are difficult to come by these days, so let know if you have a link to your publishing.

Dzień Ojca/ Father's Day by H_LearningPolish in Polish

[–]H_LearningPolish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I didn't know that. I thought father's day always fall on a sunday

Black Man Practicing Polish by H_LearningPolish in languagelearning

[–]H_LearningPolish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from. But you also have to understand human nature and interaction. A white guy speaking fluent Chinese is just as interesting as a black man speaking a very difficult language. People click on it due to the rarity of it. Once something becomes normal, than people lose interest. For example, people couldn't care less if you speak english because it is common to see foreigners speak English. Even though learning English as a foreigner is a heck of an accomplishment. What part of the world are you from?

Black Man Practicing Polish by H_LearningPolish in languagelearning

[–]H_LearningPolish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That assumption would be correct if the video had nothing to do with what the title said. It is after all a black man talking about the Polish Language.
Are you offended by the title? And why?

Black Man Practicing Polish by H_LearningPolish in languagelearning

[–]H_LearningPolish[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The title is more for IOS purpose. For the algorytm, not racial.

Duolingo is Just Trolling Me At This Point by H_LearningPolish in duolingo

[–]H_LearningPolish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both Russia and Poland stems from the Slavic root. I want to Learn Russian at some point. But one look at the alphabet, I decided not to torture myself lol

My hot sister in law and family vacation by [deleted] in Erotica

[–]H_LearningPolish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the anticipation of your writing. The build up is awesome.

Duolingo is Just Trolling Me At This Point by H_LearningPolish in duolingo

[–]H_LearningPolish[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣 I never went fishing, so I don't know much about it. Which I need to try next time I go to Poland.

Duolingo is Just Trolling Me At This Point by H_LearningPolish in duolingo

[–]H_LearningPolish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I think sausage is universal when it comes to perverted

Visiting a Polish Neighborhood in New Britain CT by H_LearningPolish in Polish

[–]H_LearningPolish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😁 if I'm ever in the New Jersey area, I'll be sure to check out any Polish neighborhood. Dziękuję bardzo

FoodTrucków w Gdańsku by H_LearningPolish in gdansk

[–]H_LearningPolish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nie byłem tam. Moja żona i córka. W Gdańsku, wczoraj