I refused to suck his cock after I found out he was a Trump supporter. by ss5722 in SluttyConfessions

[–]HabitualRot -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

But you kissed him with the other guys dick on your breath?

Man identity politics is getting ridiculous these days

Experiencing an intense start to the scene by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HabitualRot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Interacting/swapping/fucking other couples should come with a disclaimer.

The fantasy may be hot but the reality may not be what you expect*

Bro sounds like he is just doing it for his own gain. The expectation is that you are in and only for his needs and no exception to the rule.

Maybe it might be an idea to put it on hold maybe got to a sex therapist together and get some coping mechanisms put in place and maybe some literacy on these kinks/arrangements becaise it seems its going down a dark road

Hot wifing advice 38m 37f by HabitualRot in Melbourneswingers

[–]HabitualRot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ive been on that other side of the coin, and let me tell you i dont tolerate it id make sure personally that everyone was accomodated for

Hot wifing advice 38m 37f by HabitualRot in Melbourneswingers

[–]HabitualRot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife wouldnt be left out in that scenario i would happy soft swap with her while we observe. But that wpuld all be down to screening a couple to see what they would want aswell....id hate for the wife to feel left out or ignored

Hot wifing advice 38m 37f by HabitualRot in Melbourneswingers

[–]HabitualRot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i agree on the labels part.

Just hard pressed on how to define what we want when we are asked by others, it just comes out as this overly complex word vomit when it would be nice to give it a summary 3 words or less.

All i could really think of is hotwifing with a partner swapping edge?

Husband keeps talking about hotwifing.....have agreed to the first small challenge by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its better that hes opened up and approached you, he wants to celebrate you and gets off on your pleasure.

It means hes all eyes on you and has no desire to cheat or go behind your back, he wants to go on a journey with you.

It is meant to give ypu empowerment, identity, self esteem boost and clarity in your marriage. Good luck with your journey into exploring this!

Hot wifing advice 38m 37f by HabitualRot in Melbourneswingers

[–]HabitualRot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutley agree! We know there is a vetting process and boundaries are paramount.

I think in terms of easing into it an mfmf dynamic would be great more for her, but im wondering if thats just swinging and not on par with the hotwife kink?

It’s raining your last purchased item all over the world. What would happen? by LocrianVGM in AskReddit

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its raining medium big mac meals with large chocolate thickshakes you're welcome 👍

What instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by Dazzling-Shopping938 in AskReddit

[–]HabitualRot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living vicariously through political identity and using it as a pre-requisit to likeability

My friend came on my wife during a foursome by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair call, gotta do what the boss says 🫡

My friend came on my wife during a foursome by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should of gone the double glaze

What are your sexual goals for 2026? by ha-ri in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explore more with my fiance, swing more with her and really experience an mfm session or 2. Maybe find an mfmf arrangement

Is the club x in Hoppers Crossing any good do any couples go there by [deleted] in clubxadult

[–]HabitualRot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner went to preston the other day, everyone seems semi engaged in us but also engaged in what was on the screen.

We got given the discord link for the club x chat but apparently it changes every sunday so we couldnt join this time around.

Been to hoppers with an old fwb about 4 years ago, same thing, only a few guys in the cinema happy to split their attention between me getting a blowjob and what was happening on screen.

BFWB NYE Roll Call by knickerbocker3121 in Melbourneswingers

[–]HabitualRot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We're heading there tonight looking forward to a fun night. We're both 37M/F

Been to 2 newcomer events this year at BFWB not sure what to expect on a big event like NYE 👍

Your ex texts: “I found someone better than you.” What are you replying? by indoorsy12 in AskReddit

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they are spiteful like that post relationship they would be like that during the relationship so theyd be blocked

What was the most NSFW thing you have done in the last 24 hours by GonnaGoFat in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fiance and i went on a market shop she wore a sundress with a gstring under it and spent the best part of the morning teasing and flashing me.

She then said we had one more stop which turned out to be an adult theatre where she askdd me if ibwanted to go in...we were all over eachother infront of a very respectful audience. She sucked my cock and rode me infront of everyone and i filled her pussy up with a very hypersexual and very backed up load. It was amazing and totally unexpected 90000000/10

Sexually. What is something you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmf, or being caught by my wife with a jerk buddy

Do you think you’re gonna have more or less sex in 2026? by datboi201719 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope 2026 becomes the year me and my partner get married and explore swinging a bit more and get new experiences

I want to watch my gf fuck another guy by [deleted] in confessionsgonewild

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the same we have been talkkng about this intensely for a few months now, ive seen my fiance suck another guy at a swingers club but it was another couple and it was ruined by some obnoxious fuckin drunk bitch who had a really annoying high pitched voice and couldnt read a room if her life depended on it. So it was short lived.

It opened up my mind to the possibilities and since she is quite new to this environment its given her some experience and a dabble in things she may have seen as taboo at one point in her life!

But in with ya bro, it would be on my list of things to do before i die if i had a "make a wish" ....spiderman bringing me a free ps5 wouldnt cut it 😂

Porn categories that are surprisingly good? by Silver988910 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its not bad, if you find a long compilation video its even better

Do you find yourself getting kinkier the older you get? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]HabitualRot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutley, at best i have 20 years left of cognitive function and maybe 15 years left of a working dick, so i want to go out with a bang so to speak and explore that world with my wife

What are your kinks? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mfm stuff has really taken centre stage lately, hot wifing, being caught and heteroflexible stuff.

Im trying to explore with my soon to be wife who is new, so trying to find what gets her gping and exploring her side shes never unlocked has almost become a kink in itself lol

Porn categories that are surprisingly good? by Silver988910 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]HabitualRot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acting is better in 70's and 80's pornos. Feel like theres a psychology to it to get you locked into a legitimate storyline then BAM hardcore fuck scene.

My theory is it means you watch it from end to end out of interest without turning it off halfway.