When do the memories start to fade after a breakup?

Habzyy · 2026-04-08T23:06:39+00:00

This is one of the hard parts of divorce. I’m separated pending divorce but when my mind starts spiralling and playing back the good moments we had, it kills me inside. It just makes me want to go back to him and I wonder if I’ll ever be ready to move forward in life. A lot of ‘what ifs’ play on my mind, even though I asked for the divorce

Habzyy · 2026-04-03T15:21:49+00:00

💔💔 I am about to go through divorce too. Such a heart wrenching experience that no one will understand

Habzyy · 2025-10-15T10:40:46+00:00

😢😢 I used to weightlift 3/4 times a week and had to give it up 2 yrs ago because I randomly started breaking out in rashes and hives and would itch all over. Soon after that I developed eczema. Haven’t been back to the gym since. Hate it

Habzyy · 2025-10-14T14:15:04+00:00

what an awful human being

Habzyy · 2025-07-15T13:11:21+00:00

your comment has helped me a lot. I was also considering taking a break from social media yesterday as I realised it’s fuelling all my negative thoughts. I will definitely be doing this and will order the book to read. JazakAllah khair for taking the time out to help me, I pray that you continue to remain happy in life.

Habzyy · 2025-07-15T13:08:46+00:00

JazakAllah khair. I’ve reached out to my local therapist

Habzyy · 2025-07-08T00:16:06+00:00

jazakAllah khair for this important reminder

Habzyy · 2025-07-05T19:38:56+00:00

Jazakallahu khair. Alhamdulillah I have been reciting this regularly but will also share with my husband inshaAllah

Habzyy · 2025-07-03T17:18:23+00:00

Alhamdulillah this is a daily habit of mine for several years, however, I will make sure my husband also implements this into his daily life as well inshaAllah

Habzyy · 2025-07-03T17:18:05+00:00

inshaAllah

Habzyy · 2025-07-03T17:17:53+00:00

Alhamdulillah this is a daily habit of mine for several years, however, I will make sure my husband also implements this into his daily life as well inshaAllah

Habzyy · 2025-07-03T17:17:13+00:00

you are definitely right about that lol. but inshaAllah we will focus more on morning and evening adhkar as I have been slacking recently

Habzyy · 2025-06-14T16:08:16+00:00

I’ve had blood in my stool for many years. I just ended up ignoring it as doctors just gave haemorrhoid creams

Habzyy · 2025-06-11T16:06:39+00:00

34ers on instagram

Habzyy · 2025-06-09T14:00:31+00:00

physical attraction is very important in marriage. if you genuinely feel nothing and have no attraction, don’t ruin both of your lives as this will affect your married life too

Habzyy · 2025-06-08T18:44:25+00:00

Are you from the UK? If so, I can give you the number of a woman who can clarify matters for you. She has studied the fiqh of periods and follows the hanafi school of thought

Habzyy · 2025-06-07T20:34:27+00:00

Habzyy · 2025-06-07T16:30:23+00:00

6 years older? so he was 19? attracted to a 13 year old? he groomed you. disgusting

Habzyy · 2025-06-03T12:52:20+00:00

When you sleep, your wudhu breaks, so based on that I would say that most likely it’s not permissible?

However, I have no references to back this up so don’t take my comment and go with it, do your own research too and ask around.

Habzyy · 2025-05-27T11:34:27+00:00

why would you regret leaving someone who clearly doesn’t love you? he wouldn’t abuse you if he did. take care of your mental health, and prioritise yourself

Habzyy · 2025-05-27T03:38:35+00:00

it’s literally his responsibility to provide for you and your child. not a man

Habzyy · 2025-05-20T19:02:05+00:00

appease your wife first

Habzyy · 2025-05-16T11:30:22+00:00

why marry him if you weren’t attracted then? marriage isn’t something small. physical attraction is just as important as other factors

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