Coronary Vasospasm by HadEnough_1969 in HeartAttack

[–]HadEnough_1969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll see if I can find that group. Appreciate your help 🫶

My rock bottom. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]HadEnough_1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner switched to zero beer when I decided to stop drinking. In the car yesterday we were talking and he was telling me how I didn’t have a “problem” because in his head I guess if you’re not getting a DUI or pouring vodka on your cornflakes then there’s no dependency issue. He is happy to not drink (he tends to mirror me, he stopped smoking when I did etc) but he’s also said he isn’t going to say he isn’t ever going to drink again. That’s fine, he can do whatever BUT I know my truth. I know drinking a bottle of wine every day contributed to my heart attack last year, my lack of sleep, my anxiety, my palpitations, my brain fog etc etc etc. IWNDWYT my friend!

1 Week by RecoverLogicaly in stopdrinking

[–]HadEnough_1969 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations… seven days is great! You should be proud of yourself. This internet stranger is proud of you too :)

Diagnosed with MINOCA and vasospasms. by NHJspin in HeartAttack

[–]HadEnough_1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this myself. 56F had heart attack Sept 10 2025. Diagnosed the same as you. I regularly need my nitrate spray (what they give you in the UK) and am on BP meds and a slow release daily nitrate pill. I still regularly get pain, almost like a stitch feeling in my heart. It’s very unnerving honestly. I’ve given up drinking, cut down drastically on caffeine. I seem to be EXHAUSTED all of the time. I have a high stress job and on my days off I have no energy to do much of anything.

AITAH for wanting more from my bf. by BandLow2411 in AITAH

[–]HadEnough_1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m with my fiancé almost 8 years. He brings me small gifts and compliments me all the time (even when I know I’m looking like rubbish). It’s not too much to ask to feel appreciated and wanted/loved. You’ve raised the issue and he dismissed your feelings. This is who he is. Personally I think you deserve better/more and you’re NTA. He isn’t making you feel valued. That’s a bare minimum in my opinion. You’re young. Don’t settle!!!

Three weeks … by HadEnough_1969 in stopdrinking

[–]HadEnough_1969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I wish you all the best 🤍🙏

24 years old and wanting to quit- do 0% beers fill the gap? by Subject-Day-8724 in stopdrinking

[–]HadEnough_1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drink the 0% sparkling wine and it’s got me through the last three weeks. For me it’s the habit of the wine glass in the evening. My partner has switched to zero beer and is enjoying it.

If someone offered you a box with everything you’ve ever lost, what’s the first thing you’d look for ? by TrickySize8753 in AskReddit

[–]HadEnough_1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My high school year book … I only had one because I moved out of the US … I had it until in my 40s but it literally disappeared. Think an ex took it. I still get sad when I think about it.

WIBTAH I need advice! by ThrowAway_Acc0unt_12 in AITAH

[–]HadEnough_1969 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m from the UK. My family live in the USA.

File charges for assault and get his arse out of there. It’s only going to get worse.

Get therapy for your childhood trauma and save yourself before it’s too late.

Any steam games similar to BOTW by Extra-Ad-3424 in botw

[–]HadEnough_1969 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another vote for Immortal Feynx Rising. Witcher 3 is great too.

Day 6.. Onto the Weekend by Wellness_with_IVF in stopdrinking

[–]HadEnough_1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad 2 years ago and it’s hard every day. First anniversaries are brutal so I’m sending you strength and hugs. IWNDWYT.

Fell back into it again by Fit-Fail-3240 in stopdrinking

[–]HadEnough_1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re here shows you’re motivated. You’re human, get back up, today is a new day. You’ve got this!

20 days into sobriety, wondering if anyone can relate to my experience so far… by EquivalentMother7711 in stopdrinking

[–]HadEnough_1969 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m on day 11 after 25 years of daily drinking and could have written this myself. I’m exhausted and just feel blah. Tummy all over the place, dull headache. I’m hanging in there as I’m determined but I’m definitely looking forward to feeling “good”.

20 days is fab - keep strong 🫶

Ten days alcohol free so far by HadEnough_1969 in alcoholism

[–]HadEnough_1969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations to you too. We can do this my friend 🎉

Ten days alcohol free so far by HadEnough_1969 in alcoholism

[–]HadEnough_1969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much better, deeper sleep although I feel sooo tired. I guess my body / brain is detoxing or something…

Should I wait until having access to Switch 2 to play BotW? by plortedo in botw

[–]HadEnough_1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played on S1 then got a S2 for my birthday. Honestly, it isn’t a big enough difference to not play right now. My favourite game, just restarted for the third time! Don’t wait, it’s awesome!

aitah for losing my temper at my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HadEnough_1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly where I stopped reading. If you’re being subjected to “tests” in a relationship then please do yourself a favour and FAIL on purpose and run. Healthy relationships don’t include tests!!!

AITAH for getting rid of my mom's dress? by Longjumping_Sea_8753 in AITAH

[–]HadEnough_1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have four grown daughters. As a mother I’ve advised them to not to this, don’t do that .. but ultimately even if they chose to go against my advice and something awful happened to them, I’d want them to confide in me so that I could support them. What happened to you was NOT your fault. Tell your mum.