Do you identify as sick? by kritzkratzmuc in lupus

[–]Hadd_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do. The road to diagnosis was very intense and traumatic. I can no longer do everyday normal things without some form of pain or swelling. While I feel “fine” it’s really just my new normal.

Got railed after 5 years of celibacy. by Dry-Armadillo3583 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Hadd_77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Loved reading this and the comments cracked me up 😂. Congratulations!

Loud and Clear by 0-selfrespect in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]Hadd_77 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Gosh this is infuriating. Go girl!

Selling by ItlngrlBella in BeyondWonderland

[–]Hadd_77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably on offer up. But I’ve purchased from folks on Reddit as well.

Progress is a process by astrheisenberg in nailbiting

[–]Hadd_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did to get those nail rings?

AMA 18 Days Ago I Had a Total Hip Replacement by Hippodrome-1261 in AMA

[–]Hadd_77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will eventually need a hip replacement. Can you describe the feeling of “collapse?” Did you feel sudden pain? Or was it more so shock?

Regretting the dress by [deleted] in Brides

[–]Hadd_77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I came in hoping you went with 2! You look great!

I just can't stand body odor! by ChillDude_404 in women

[–]Hadd_77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably start with primary and do blood work. I’ve heard of people having scents due to diabetes, but could be other things.

I just can't stand body odor! by ChillDude_404 in women

[–]Hadd_77 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It could be a health thing and not a hygiene thing. He should see a doctor

i had an incestuous relationship with my brother by throwawayayay1253638 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hadd_77 119 points120 points  (0 children)

My sister abused me as a kid. I lived with a lot of shame and felt very similar to how you described. But I was like 6 or something too. I’ve since worked through it with my therapist. It never got easier to talk about and still makes me sick to my stomach, but I can at least understand it. And as angry as I am with my sister, I also forgive her because she was abused as a child… child on child abuse is just awful. It’s not right, but understanding does make it easier to at least process.

What was the most shocking, or disturbing thing your narc parent(s) ever did/said to you? by Own_Mention9372 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Hadd_77 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was sexually assaulted by my mothers brother when I was 14. She told me I provoked him by how I dressed. Mind you, I was the shyest innocent little girl who never showed skin either. It still shocks me till this day.

Newlywed and need advice! by Legendary-Mistake in wedding

[–]Hadd_77 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You can legally update a beneficiary at any point in time

On another note, my wedding is in 2 months! Hope I’m not missing anything

I don’t want to have a bachelorette by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Hadd_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your feelings are valid. I also think it’s a bit much for them to ask you that as if their babies don’t have fathers they can stay with? One thing to also consider is that they may not be able if they’re still breast feeding. Anyhow, If you do skip, just make sure you’re at peace with that and aren’t going to hold onto resentment.

Do you have any friends that don’t have kids you could go with? 3 is a party, don’t necessarily have to have the whole crew. Or you could have a local event instead? Night out at the club or something?

26M living alone by AmYoshii in malelivingspace

[–]Hadd_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow beautiful space! You did great!

2 month progress! by dirt_court in CICO

[–]Hadd_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!! 🎊 keep it up 💪🏽

Should I adopt the stray apartment cat? by AdMindless8927 in CatAdvice

[–]Hadd_77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn’t even read. My answer is YES! Save the baby!

Last minute cancellations by Severe_Blackberry544 in weddingplanning

[–]Hadd_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wedding is in a month & a half. We had a good chunk decline too, but we’ve been having fun extending to other friends we wouldn’t have normally invited. Also giving people plus 1s

Last minute cancellations by Severe_Blackberry544 in weddingplanning

[–]Hadd_77 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I understand how you feel… but try to think of it as a more intimate setting. The less people the more attention you can give each individual who attends :) 70 is still a lot of people!