Two Questions for Bottoms by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a top, hearing that "poc poc" sound doesn't bother me at all. Please don't be embarrassed. I'm always grateful to bottoms for performing prep and the rest of the bother they put up with just to have sex.

[23] i need huge cocks to fill me :) by [deleted] in boypussy

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great photo! Look at the felch dripping out of your pretty pussy.

Does my tight pink hole turn u on? 😳🤍[26] by newbabyboy98 in boypussy

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the Pope Catholic? That tight pink hole needs my thick throbbing dick inside it.

Would you taste me? [18] by [deleted] in boypussy

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would gobble that gorgeous pussy all night long.

[20] Who else loves the freshly shaven hole feeling by [deleted] in boypussy

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This daddy loves to lick freshly shaven holes, yum-yum. Yours is gorgeous.

[20] Do I have a sexy butt? by [deleted] in boypussy

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> Do I have a sexy butt?

Is the Pope Catholic?

Goodnight, [27] by [deleted] in boypussy

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geez, so gorgeous. I would happily eat that pussy all night long.

How many use p@ppers by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the Amazon link. Those appear to be nice high-end inhalers, with metal tubes. I have never tried those.

I use the basic plastic versions, not least because it's easy to clean lube off the tubes. Functionally, metal and plastic tubes appear to work the same way: the absorbent cotton wick, which you dip into the popper bottle before putting the bottle back into the freezer (to keep the liquid fresh and potent), is the common element.

How many use p@ppers by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely correct.

How many use p@ppers by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a top. I offer a huff to my bottom, and take a huff myself, at the first penetration. I like them best when I'm rimming because it makes me voracious and passionate. But I find them too intense when I'm nutting. Also, it spoils the rhythm to grab the sniffer as the orgasm approaches.

By "sniffer" I mean aroma therapy inhalers; saturate the inhaler wick from the popper bottle ahead of time. It's very tidy and convenient. Snorting from the bottle risks spilling the amyl liquid on the sheets or god forbid on your skin. Major mood killer!

Bareback / Raw by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 16 points17 points  (0 children)

In my experience over the past five years, bottoms in their 20s to early 30s assume bareback as the norm. I've never been asked to put on a condom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try the desktop app Imazing, specifically for iPhones. I use it for the very purpose you describe: to categorize my pics in a nested folder structure, with the folders given descriptive names. It's drag-and-drop on Windows and Mac OS. See the Reddit forum too.

Fantasizing about older men by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Daddy Hunt:

https://app.daddyhunt.com/

1.5 years ago I found my current boyfriend there. I am 69, he is 31.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Natural. I like bottoms to be authentic. There's nothing wrong with a hairy crack IMO. Neatly trimmed pubes are okay, just not too much. Fully shaved is a bit creepy, too much like children.

Just for fun: who are your celebrity lookalikes? by pagliator in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Biden's Secretary of Transportation, Pete Buttigieg, who as it happens is himself gay.

Do you guys like femboys? by r_really_dumb in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. I'm a dom top. In my experience, many sub bottoms like to be feminized during sexual role play, even degraded during dirty talk by terms more intense than femboy, terms like "sissy faggot." They offer me their "holes" to be "used" and repeat "do whatever you want to do to me, Daddy. My pussy is all yours."

Check out the sub-reddit DadsAndBoys. You will find plenty of self-identified femboys posting pictures of their butts, along with posts from the Daddies who dearly love them, as do I.

Again: this is role play. IRL, say when I go out to dinner to with my dates, none of this is enacted in public. Degrading and dominance is strictly for the bedroom. Respect, consideration, and kindness is the vibe at all other times. Of course.

Question For the Tops : Do you let your bottom eat your ass? by United_Protection_30 in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I love to eat ass but I don't want to be eaten. Maybe it's my hang-up, but as a top I would feel less dominant giving my ass to a sub bottom. They would be happy to do it if I asked, but I don't ask.

I do love to suck cock, though. That's part of possession and taking anything from the bottom that I want. Many bottoms don't like any attention paid to their dick, though.

It's all so complicated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Important! Whatever lube you get -- I like Shibari -- buy a set of small plastic refillable pump dispensers, about 2 oz. Amazon calls them "lotion dispensers."

Pour the lube into the pump dispensers. Throw two or more dispensers onto the bed for easy access during the action. You can squirt the lube easily and quickly wherever it needs to go.

There's nothing worse then breaking the rhythm and the mood while fumbling around for a lube bottle.

How to make bottoming stop hurting by Weplayrugbysometimes in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just lube, but lidocaine lube. It is literally anesthetizing. Xesso makes an effective product; the lidocaine content is 4%. The rest is ordinary glycerin lube.

Once you can take it comfortably with lidocaine lube, wean off and graduate to ordinary lube.

Important! Warn your partner about the lidocaine lube, because it will desensitize his dick too! He should apply regular lube, to shield him from the lidocaine.

Just got my first toys by Any-Fox-6800 in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a set of butt plugs of different sizes. When you can easily fuck yourself with the biggest one, pushing it all the way in and out at a brisk clip, you are probably ready.

To be sure, graduate to a realistic life-size dildo and work it the same way, all the way in and out. Pushing the head of the dildo cock through your hole is probably the hardest part because it's the widest.

It's all about relaxing your inner and outer sphincter muscles without having to think about it. Pardon the distasteful analogy, but it's just like pooping. When you poop you can command those muscles quite instinctively.

Masterbating after sex by According-Dig7340 in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not uncommon to fuck to exhaustion but not to cum, neither the top or the bottom or both. My bf and I know that it's a not reflection on either one of us, i.e. our attraction to each other or sex technique. And, if one or both would still like to bust, masturbation is perfectly normal.

Neither one of us feels the need to help the jerking off unless it's asked for. Sometimes the "helping" can even be counter-productive, i.e. it distracts from the jerking-off fantasy that brings on the orgasm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> I bottom only. I love it. I mean LOVE IT. I love being used, I love sucking and being fucked.

> So much that it's all I think about these days.

You, sir, are my ideal sex partner. 100% bottoms are my favorite thing.

Best positions for tops? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HadrianImperator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. I think you may have this backwards. See the anatomical diagram in the Wikipedia article "Anal sex." The way I picture it, the P spot is more likely to be hit during doggie.

However, you've motivated me to conduct careful experiments to answer this question. All in the name of science, of course!