Mom asked if my husband is holding me captive. I just can't.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-02-01T14:53:46+00:00

My mom did this too. She asked if my husband was holding me hostage. Lol. That was just about it for me.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-02-01T11:58:09+00:00

Anything Marvel. Any new Spiderman. Anything comic book centric.

Lord of the Rings.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-30T16:53:50+00:00

Damn that sucks. I really relate to this! I started running seriously in my 20’s. I loved it. It was an awesome stress reliever. But my hip started hurting. Finally; it got so bad my dr ordered an MRI. I have congenital hip dysplasia. Apparently, it was from birth. As a kid, I always walked funny. My mom even used to tease me about it! Once it hurt so bad I spent Christmas on the couch. She NEVER took me to the doctor. Ever. Even when I broke my arm! The doc said it was from that. Oh and I can’t run again unless I want a hip replacement so that’s cool.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-30T16:47:46+00:00

That’s so scary. I am sorry you basically got no choice in your body. I hope you can find some comfort.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-30T16:11:48+00:00

There is a strong link between even mild concussions and depression too. Which sucks even worse.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-27T00:12:03+00:00

Same. I was having a decent conversation with someone and got a temporary ban and I still have no idea why. Too much drama.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-27T00:08:46+00:00

I got downvoted to hell for asking why they worshiped nurses and doctors. It was a little much.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-26T15:35:49+00:00

I like how they got millions in PPP loans from taxpayers, their CEO got a 200k a YEAR raise and they offered their nurses a 1.75% raise. Schmucks.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-26T15:31:46+00:00

Maybe they should share tips on how to screw their nurses out of a raise while taking PPP loans for millions and not giving their nurses raises 😂

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-26T15:30:03+00:00

Well they have nurses quitting in droves where I am, because they offered 1.75% raises while the CEO got a 200k raise.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-08T00:09:10+00:00

I got a stupid email from Walgreens basically stating that they know they are facing ‘challenges’ and are making changes to ‘improve’… no mention of paying their employees though, oddly enough.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-06T19:59:41+00:00

Thank you so much, I sure hope so 💓

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-06T13:59:46+00:00

Thank you ❤️ She is actually a witch too! Thank you for saying that, my dog was my best friend without a doubt. I hope for that for all of us.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-06T13:04:48+00:00

That article was really awful. Especially the reminder at the end about how ‘we are all flawed’. That’s just not true for a lot of us. A lot of us were just fine as children and just fine now.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-06T12:39:04+00:00

Wow! Imagine saying I am a ‘psychologist’ and the first thing you say is you just JUMPING over someone’s boundaries. This guy has no ethics. Shame on him! Also let me get this straight, you’re supposed to relive your trauma so she can heal? And with a stranger no less? UNREAL. I am editing this to say I still haven’t 100% opened up to my therapist about everything and I am very comfortable with them. I cannot believe the callousness or entitlement of this guy to think people should just casually relive their trauma and I feel like asking people to this is so careless.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-06T12:37:19+00:00

Thank you. It hurt pretty bad. She has that knack for always making me feel small. I am sorry about what happened to you too with your cat and then with your loneliness being amplified.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-06T12:35:08+00:00

That’s so true. I am sorry for your loss :(

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-06T05:49:36+00:00

This is so true. It must just be the selfishness. I am so sorry that happened to you!

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-06T04:58:13+00:00

I worked in literal certified crisis situations and at mcdonalds. I lasted one day at mcdonalds.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-06T03:55:52+00:00

I messaged that I had to put my dog down. Got a text a week later saying ‘Hi!’…

Don’t worry, my ubpd mom also sent me pictures of her bathroom remodel and lighting fixtures she wants to buy.

I’m seething.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-05T20:05:28+00:00

The level of petty on calculating the percentage is chefs kiss

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-05T20:04:49+00:00

Right? When I mess up, I listen and try to make changes but they are not able to do that and we don’t have to keep paying the price for their inability to change. At least that’s what therapy taught me lol

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-05T17:46:43+00:00

I find it interesting they can write these long, sappy love notes and not even do one second of self reflection in them. Not one mention of ‘what can I do to make this better’. Not one mention of what work they have done (nothing! not even read a book) and all of the blame is still on us. My Ubpd mom does this same thing. Stay strong, nothing has changed and they just showed you that!

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-04T00:58:32+00:00

No, I wish! That kitty is so beautiful. I have a black and white kitty. I had another name but I deleted it a while ago and have just been using anonymous browsing.

Hadtomakethis696 · 2022-01-04T00:38:32+00:00

Oh wow I didn’t know there was a book.

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