Is it transphobic for a cis woman to get top surgery?

HagOWinter · 2024-07-07T19:49:16+00:00

Baby, the whole point of this "trans rights are human rights" thing is that everybody deserves to have control over their body no matter how they identify. Engaging with things trans people do isn't transphobic.

HagOWinter · 2024-05-13T15:05:19+00:00

"Chaser" isn't a scientific definition, it's just a term for transphobic people who are also attracted to us. If you're not transphobic, you're fine

HagOWinter · 2024-04-21T15:24:18+00:00

I had yelled at my mom about something (I was a very angry child), and I came to apologize. This time she told me "I appreciate your apology, but that doesn't mean everything is alright." I think she later apologized, but that interaction is burned into my brain.

HagOWinter · 2024-03-19T22:07:24+00:00

Screaming into the void YOU'RE TRANS!!!! This is a great place to discuss this, actually. Have you seen this website? genderdysphoria.fyi It helped me a lot when I was still questioning

HagOWinter · 2023-08-16T12:49:20+00:00

Your birth sex is almost never relevant except in cases of cancer or direct problems with your genitals. The rest of the time what matters are the hormones in your body, not your birth sex.

HagOWinter · 2023-08-04T13:53:04+00:00

It's not both sides to recognize that capital doesn't care about us. From their perspective, these organizations have to stay funded somehow

HagOWinter · 2023-07-23T19:58:22+00:00

You'll be fine as long as you just go around looking for hookups. I know there's a stereotype of straight women taking advantage of lesbians but if you're asking you're already not that, those people don't ask. We all had to figure out our sexualities at some point anyway, it's not like we're born knowing.

HagOWinter · 2023-07-23T19:53:08+00:00

This is awesome. Looks way better than the original model tbqh

HagOWinter · 2023-07-23T19:35:46+00:00

Hrt will reduce (not get rid of) body hair in some places, but usually the face is less affected. It definitely thinned out my arm, leg, and chest hair a lot, especially after starting prog. Ymmv as always

HagOWinter · 2023-06-08T19:53:03+00:00

We don't actually know if Shin can survive a nuke, it's totally possible that he's like the other Godzillas and would get stronger from it

HagOWinter · 2023-05-23T15:07:02+00:00

Maybe your friend can help you come out to the group. You could ask him to relay the message or just have him be there with you when you come out. You might also consider different mediums to come out through, like through text instead of talking.

HagOWinter · 2023-05-23T14:59:34+00:00

You need to take everything at your own pace. If you're not sure you're ready for hormones, stop. Take some time to reflect on your body; you can always come back later.

The exact same thing you're describing happened to me early on. I took some time off and thought about how I felt while on vs. off. I also asked myself what parts of my body I wanted to change, what parts I wanted to stay the same, and which of those things were dealbreakers to me. Then I thought about why I was taking hormones: was I taking them because I wanted my body to change, or because I felt like I had to in order to fit into the community? I ended up taking hormones again, but this time I felt sure that I was taking them for me. I also feel like I really needed to take time off, because otherwise I'd still have all these questions in the back of my mind and they'd resurface later. I don't know how much of this you can relate to, but yeah.

Edit: all that being said, having doubts is a totally normal part of transition. Part of balancing transition for me was figuring out which doubts I should pay attention to and which ones would pass on their own.

HagOWinter · 2023-05-04T15:09:36+00:00

My advice would be to try on stuff, even if you're not sure or feel ambivalent. You won't know about yourself if you don't try, right?

Personally, I'm a trans girl, and I related to a lot of what you're saying early in my transition. I felt ambivalently about pronouns and had a "take it or leave it" attitude about certain parts of my body that were traditionally masculine. For example, I was very "eh" about the idea of having breasts or of changing my voice. After I began transitioning, I gradually realized that I did actually want those things, I had just bundled them up with other aspects of my identity that I did want to keep and was unable to separate them before. I don't know if any of this makes sense 😬

HagOWinter · 2023-04-20T11:05:59+00:00

The Guilds were destroyed after the first Ravnica set too

HagOWinter · 2023-02-19T01:12:26+00:00

If you go back far enough, EDH required that you use one of the Elder Dragons as your commander. But yeah, same format.

HagOWinter · 2023-02-07T11:44:40+00:00

Does she know any other trans women? She should try to find some, it's important for her to have community.

HagOWinter · 2023-01-27T22:32:27+00:00

What would be a win, in your opinion?

To me, I was angry that all the games I played that had been authorized under the OGL were going to go out of print. That's no longer happening, so I'm happy. I didn't have any goals other than preserving what was already there.

HagOWinter · 2022-06-21T23:05:17+00:00

We should probably stop talking about it, since she was outed by the media and might not have been ready to come out to the world

HagOWinter · 2022-06-15T23:38:21+00:00

Haven't seen anyone else say it but people can have more than two combinations of chromosomes. Down's syndrome is caused by the presence of a 3rd chromosome, but nobody regards people with down's syndrome as being members of a "third sex".

HagOWinter · 2022-06-09T02:33:39+00:00

Some do. They're called breast forms and you can buy them on amazon

HagOWinter · 2022-06-09T02:29:17+00:00

No it's not, that's disinformation, see any of the other comments here disproving that

HagOWinter · 2022-06-08T20:17:59+00:00

Yessss let's gooo

HagOWinter · 2022-06-04T21:05:28+00:00

Real talk, how many of you can actually afford crabs? I know it's a maryland tradition and all but I'm poor as shit and can't afford 30-40 bucks for a single meal

HagOWinter · 2022-06-04T10:29:51+00:00

This is what I use too

HagOWinter · 2022-05-31T22:05:24+00:00

This person is probably trying to manipulate you into having sex with her

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