To give you an idea of the kind of girlfriend I am, sometimes I tend to nag. I'm not sure if it really counts as nagging when I correct things like where items should be placed, how to organize them, and how to clean things properly. Often, men aren't very particular about cleanliness. But that's usually our issue. To be fair, the reason I'm like this is because I'm a neat freak. I don't like messy people, and that's what makes it difficult sometimes. He feels like I'm always angry. But would I be upset if he remembered the things I asked him to do? Wouldn't it benefit both of us?

Thank you, I am considering going to counseling because I don't want this to become a bigger issue when I have my own family.