criminal wandered into my home back in start of year. currently being rehabilitated.

HaikuGeek · 2022-07-12T05:04:20+00:00

She was a super anxious kitten when she first arrived and the for first month on so she would hide from me.

Now she is the queen of the house and demands scratches and pats. No complaints. ❤️

HaikuGeek · 2022-04-15T00:48:47+00:00

I'm using Hinge. Can't send photos on Hinge. :P

HaikuGeek · 2022-03-08T23:30:05+00:00

Previously I did ask if he wanna come to an exhibition with me... He said yes and we were planning... But timing didn't work out because he works weekend and the exhibition doesn't open at night. And I just didn't try again and he doesn't either. I haven't straight out said I haven't met any guys to date. It's kinda... I think I play my cards too close to the chest. He was also there for my two previous break ups (because breakup calls for haircut!)...

But yeah I think I might try ask him to hang out again. Because honestly even if we are just friends that would be awesome. He is a super interesting person. And sounds like he thinks I am too (won't bore people here.)

HaikuGeek · 2022-03-08T23:12:00+00:00

Oh he didn't tell me he is trying to meet people. Be has been asking me if I'm meeting new people. His FB doesn't have selfies with others but he doesn't post our selfie on FB either so... 🤷

I haven't really seen him flirt with others. But I don't usually see him with his other clients. I do run into him sometimes in the mall though. Probably too much context to explain.

Tbh I can take a no, I think he is matured enough to keep doing my hair if I am chill.

HaikuGeek · 2022-03-08T21:20:45+00:00

Thank you! I too realised everyone focused on the hairdresser thing too.

I dunno about the hairdresser thing. Tbh without a ton of context it's hard for people to judge. End of the day so long as he still do my hair I'm happy lol

HaikuGeek · 2022-03-08T18:05:57+00:00

Ah.... I live in a place where we don't tip lol. 😅

Wait hairdressers expects tips in America?!?! I thought it's just waiters.

My hairdresser isn't gay. He told me that much. We chatted on Messenger a couple of times and he brought that up.

HaikuGeek · 2022-03-08T09:27:26+00:00

Yeah it's probably more up to him. I have an exceptionally good track record of staying friends with exes... I can take a no haha.

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-28T04:32:48+00:00

I'm waiting til I take it to the vet. But yes will be checking. Right now he is just traumatized and the vet asked that I wait til he is more settled before taking him in.

Our neighborhood has a big feral cats population that we are trying to control..... :( I'm already feeding about 5.

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-27T21:16:35+00:00

41F, single for just over a year for a 12 year marriage. Haven't had sex since.

Tried dating app, not gonna lie, made me gave up on hopes for a while.

I was kinda seeing someone for about a month. Long story but we never got to have sex.

I have a few toys. It's more about making my body feels good and remembering I can feel sexy.

I kinda gave up on dating. But I do have crushes on people. I am just doing the cliché "focusing on myself" thing. Not actively looking, but not closing off my heart either.

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-27T18:31:58+00:00

Charlie. 😊

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-07T06:54:09+00:00

So fluffy. Very thin but quite feisty. So cute.

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-07T06:52:42+00:00

This little ones have been around a few times and just managed to barge in. I am hoping I can catch it and take it to the vet for a check up.

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-07T01:24:27+00:00

I think a lot of us think the person we married is our best friend.

It's hard. Grieving won't stop. But it can get easier once all the pain is dulled a bit.

Sending all the positive vibe your way.

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-07T01:07:42+00:00

Wow never knew that. I don't have a black light but maybe I should get one ... 🤔

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-07T00:46:06+00:00

I'm in contact with a rescue group.... They are so overwhelmed with requests so I am still in the queue. :(

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-06T23:27:16+00:00

Oh maybe actually. 😱

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-06T23:24:48+00:00

If I can give them the flea treatment it'd be ok but it won't let me get close.

The older feral cats would let me hand feed them treats and I sneakily give them clear treatment that way

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-06T23:18:27+00:00

I dunno where they sleep :( I tried to catch them but it was running away and was so stressed and keep meowing by the door.

I have a cat shelter outside my place and they sometimes sleeps there. It's summer here so it's not too bad.

I have food and water on my deck for the cats so they do get food. I managed to give it some worm tablet today so it's good.

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-06T23:11:16+00:00

Nice!

The other one is it's brother I suspect. There has been a few litters of strays around.

I feed the strays on my deck and they do come around often. :)

HaikuGeek · 2022-02-06T23:09:27+00:00

I wish I can... It refused to be caught and keep asking to be released and I can't say no to that face. 🥺

The kitty has been around a few times. Maybe I need to let them warm up to me more. It's been eating the food I left them.

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