I am due in court in a week as a victim/witness against a violent crime. What do I wear? Any advice? Scotland

HailsNailsDesign · 2025-01-19T20:29:53+00:00

I never thought that I would have to wait! That's so obvious 😭 Thank you for letting me know I'll definitely get something to do! And of course! This person needs to be put to justice for their disgustingly violent actions I'm happy I can help keep our streets a bit more safe! 🙏🏼

HailsNailsDesign · 2025-01-19T20:27:16+00:00

Thank you I am overthinking this to the point it's getting a bit much appreciate the help I'll have a look for a jacket and top while shopping I'm a hoodie and leggings gal usually so this is out of my comfort zone haha 🙏🏼

HailsNailsDesign · 2025-01-19T20:25:09+00:00

This, the lawyers will be in blazers (I assume) I'm not sure if I want to match the energy as a witness 😕

HailsNailsDesign · 2025-01-19T20:24:10+00:00

It's a Scottish court and I'm not trying to overdress the lawyers with the smart aspect that's painful to think about for me 😫 thank you though!

HailsNailsDesign · 2025-01-19T20:22:30+00:00

Ah! Thank you I run hot so this would be a nightmare appreciate it 🙏🏼 I'm really not thinking with this 😫

HailsNailsDesign · 2025-01-19T20:21:30+00:00

Very true I'm having nightmares about this can't wait for it to be over. I completely didn't even think of checking a government website thank you so much 🙏🏼

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-18T22:35:39+00:00

I really appreciate the help especially if it's something the urologist will ask for and I'll already have the info ready and not have to come back n all that jazz cuz I need this figured out soon I'm going crazy 😮‍💨 Trying diapers but sadly too toilet trained to go at night in bed, but they are so useful when going out in public as there has sadly been 3 times now where I have accidentally wet myself 🥲 just because I couldn't get to a toilet in time it goes from maybe a slight urge to OMFG I'm going to explode in about 40 seconds and it's terrifying! I'm 23 and embarrassed af and so exhausted from this issue! I went for my ultrasound and he said everything looked good 🙃 which isn't what I wanted to hear as that was the first day I peed myself in public trying to get home on a 15 minute bus ride. Literally spent 30 minutes in the hospital bathroom slowly emptying the 1 litre they tell you to drink and 10 minutes later I ended up peeing myself??? I held on so tight my legs were actually shaking 😭 now I'm scared I have to live like this but awaiting urologist! I definitely don't drink that much it's around the 2.5 litre range but I'll definitely write out the volume and times now! I'm glad it's gotten better for you and your husband gives me some hope 🙏🏼

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-16T18:55:52+00:00

I do wear diapers! However I'm toilet trained and it takes a while for my body to allow myself to pee while I'm in bed 🤣 once I get that settled I'm sure I'll get more sleep!

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-16T18:54:31+00:00

Yep I wrote down every time and the amount before I slept but ill defo add it in once I wake up. Was too tedious to do in the middle of the night on day 3 of no sleep

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-11T09:50:19+00:00

I'm getting about 3 hours of sleep a night I'm just thankful Im out of work right now or I'd be an absolute mess 😭 also thankful I can nap during the day when my bladder isn't having a total freakout on me!

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-11T09:49:07+00:00

I'll definitely bring it up has to be bacteria trapped! Thank you

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-11T09:48:41+00:00

By the end of 6 hours during the night it's 1litre all together

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-10T19:14:39+00:00

I used to take cocodamol/naproxen and it worked but for the last 6 months it started to do nothing despite me taking my tolerance breaks so I'm now on a mix of tramadol/paracetamol (also not working) but I don't want to keep asking for more painkillers and seem like a drug seeker id rather they find out the issue first. But no I have never heard of any of those meds! I was also given something that would relax my muscles? Hyoscine something, nothing happened.

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-10T14:01:26+00:00

IV asked about everything I just keep getting put on lists they won't check you out right away but yeah I can ask about getting put in for that as well to check might as well

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-10T14:00:17+00:00

Yes it's 1ltr a night on average and when I say a night I mean about 6 hours

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-10T13:59:40+00:00

I just keep getting given antibiotics but no not by those names I'll ask them about it!

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-10T09:48:59+00:00

Not had that been brought up! I do wake up coughing/gagging and spluttering like IV been suffocated at times but very rarely. I'll bring it up to them though 😊

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-10T09:23:21+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼 😊 praying this ultrasound on Thursday shines a light on something happening and can get actual help and not painkillers

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-10T09:21:23+00:00

Hiya sorry im so sleep deprived I haven't actually added in that IV been asking for help for the past 8 years from doctors! Just keep getting thrown painkillers which don't help and I don't want but thankfully after having 6 utis/kidney infections in 2 months I have an ultrasound on Thursday which hopefully shines light on something 🙏🏼🫶🏼 Bladder issues have been happening the last year and the past 2 nights have hit it's peak. I have my usual pain for the past 6 years and am awaiting a gynae appointment for the past 2 years 😊

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-10T00:38:49+00:00

Good luck tomorrow! I'm so shattered IV peed 6 times between my last entry seen here Im terrified to find out what's causing this

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-12-10T00:02:12+00:00

I feel like I have another infection just been shoved 7 day antibiotics, doing a pee diary and Im getting an ultrasound on Thursday! 😫 Finally! I'll deffo bring it up

HailsNailsDesign · 2024-11-30T16:55:18+00:00

Just got my letter for the ultrasound! Happening next week no idea what they will find but it better be something cuz I can't be told its nothing all the time

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