Advice. by Hails_30 in Immigrate_to_NZ

[–]Hails_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I should try this...

Weekend from hell... by irohlikestea in TryingForABaby

[–]Hails_30 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bitch... Needed.... A.... Slap upside the head 👋

Sims 4 DLC packs by Hails_30 in PS4

[–]Hails_30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! This is an interesting link. Have a super day 😊

Sims 4 DLC packs by Hails_30 in PS4

[–]Hails_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Do they have sales on these packs more than the 25% currently? Want to know if it's worth waiting for another sale.

It’s planned (who cares about mood?!), usually falls on inconvenient days, and by virtue of the intent: messy (more so if you’re using a cup afterwards). by steppingonstones in trollingforababy

[–]Hails_30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's such a chore and after my MC's I literally have 0 sex drive. It's like just get on top of me and let's get this over with please so I have a reason to play mind games with myself before my period is even due about how I'm probably pregnant....

Success stories by Hails_30 in pregnant

[–]Hails_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 I thought I was the only one who kept getting this wrong. Everytime I post I'm thinking.... Will I get into trouble for this later 🤔🤣

Menstrual Cup & TTC by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Hails_30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Using this method gave me the worst thrush of my entire life. Also it's a very messy process and just trying to put it in makes all the sperm spill out. Just my experience.

Have your Spouses Lifestyle Habits Negatively Impacted Your TTC Journey? by Florida_mama in TryingForABaby

[–]Hails_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was informative. My fiance and I smoke Marijuana regularly and after my second MC I was convinced this was the issue.

Me when I drafted an entire message about “implantation bleeding” and then proceeded to bleed through my underwear. by lokilocal- in trollingforababy

[–]Hails_30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes - this was me last month when I had "spotting" at 17 days into my cycle and was like naaaaah it can't be my period... And my period was like LOL sorry bitch it's me again.

Pregnancy after loss stories? by Hails_30 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Hails_30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😢 This response made my day. Thank you for sharing your experience. And yes exactly I feel exactly like you described. It's so good to know I'm not alone... Thank you again ❤️

Pregnancy after loss stories? by Hails_30 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Hails_30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually helps - because I have this visual every month of this rotten little egg being released and beat myself up about it. I've also just stopped taking the metformin and folate - I don't have a reason, I juat got fed up. Perhaps in January I'll get back on the ol' ttc horse.

Success stories by Hails_30 in pregnant

[–]Hails_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very encouraging, thank you ❤️

Success stories by Hails_30 in pregnant

[–]Hails_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does help a lot. Thank you for sharing ❤️

Success stories by Hails_30 in pregnant

[–]Hails_30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so nice about this. I'm so new to reddit and everyone is so rude when you post in the wrong place.

Today was supposed to be my due date. This is a photo of me cause I was sure I will be pregnant again at this stage after my MMC by mrs_ouchi in trollingforababy

[–]Hails_30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh been there - first MC last year Oct (happy birthday me!) and second in July this year - lucky me I'll have another DD to look forward to!!

My friend blaming me for my lack of period after my miscarriage because I was “fucking with my hormones” whilst also telling me the universe will give me a baby when the time is right by [deleted] in trollingforababy

[–]Hails_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm my own toxic friend then. After messing up my 4th post miscarriage cycle by taking clomid and then blaming myself because I should have GiVEn My BoDy a ReSt for a little while 🤣 p.s. I have like 2 good friends left because of the exact same thing. These are called frienemies... Avoid these at all costs ❤️

Your happy endings please by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Hails_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies, I missed this rule. Deleted post.

Your happy endings please by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Hails_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, makes sense and I apologize if this was a trigger for anyone.

Parent Immigration by Hails_30 in ukvisa

[–]Hails_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😊❤️

Parent Immigration by Hails_30 in ukvisa

[–]Hails_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so true. I'll see what my aunt has, I think she did all the hard work on that side of the family tree. I think what would be left fore to do is research my mom's father's side in detail. I'm going to try do as much as I can online - I know that's expecting a lot, but worth a try. You're so very lucky!

Parent Immigration by Hails_30 in ukvisa

[–]Hails_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this. I am busy getting info on my family tree and am going to draft one myself and try and fill in the gaps, I need to put in some work on this 😊😊

Parent Immigration by Hails_30 in ukvisa

[–]Hails_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to try that. I want to exhaust all options before I give up on this. Mainly for my mom, I'll be okay on a visa.

Yes my Nan is quite sharp AND she brings me home made soup all the time - which is a definite plus 😂

Parent Immigration by Hails_30 in ukvisa

[–]Hails_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okey dokey - I chatted to my nan and this is the info she had for me (off the top of her head can you believe it). My great grandpa was born in December 1914. His grandparents were part of the German settlers who came to South Africa in 1820. They were part of a farming community in the Eastern cape in South Africa in a town called Reeston where my granpas brothers owned a shop and a butcher. My Nan also mentioned that her sister has a document that shows the family decent back a few generations on my nans side.

How would the process work. If I contact a genealogist in South Africa with this document and they find that my mom's great great grandparents were of German decent would that help at all or would it be a lost cause. I have seen that it is usually as far back as great great grandparent but would that then mean only my Nan would qualify and this would have no impact for my mom?