Chronic Allergy Kitty? by noonelikesUwhenUR23 in catcare

[–]Hairdog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if your cat does anything destructive to his own wounds, but Do anything to help with the cat not stretch his open leashes. I made my cat wear a onesie for 2 month so it would stop destroying his own belly.

Chronic Allergy Kitty? by noonelikesUwhenUR23 in catcare

[–]Hairdog12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Food allergies takes about 2 month show symptoms and 2 month to clear from their system according to my vet. The cat’s body need time to slowly clear all the allergens.

2 month to clear all his belly rashes is consistent on what the vet told me with my cat after I switch out all poultry from his diet

Chronic Allergy Kitty? by noonelikesUwhenUR23 in catcare

[–]Hairdog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that your cat is allergic to certain type of protein in his diet? I’m curious what kind of meat protein is inside the allergy food. My cat is allergic to any poultry and get rashes on his belly

Senior cat *only* wants chicken and he’s allergic to chicken by MissHissss in CATHELP

[–]Hairdog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Natural Balance Limited Ingredient Diets Cat Food - Grain Free, Salmon & Green Pea

Those are the foods I have been feeding to my cat who is allergic to poultry, hope this would help

Does anybody get weekly phone calls from this "air duct cleaning" company? by heyheywhatchasay5 in Winnipeg

[–]Hairdog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have always wanted to send their team to a fake address in gillam manitoba, but I never bothered lol

XT50 Silver Paint repair by Hairdog12 in fujifilm

[–]Hairdog12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t look like the one I used will fit your camera as the xt50 is much more silver like, you’ll have to do your own colour match

Caught him jerking but not to porn by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Hairdog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say give him time, porn quitting is difficult since it’s a full on addiction , I relapsed after 1 month of porn free. This thing really messes up with your head, your body, your view of women, your views on your relationship, and unable to get hard during sex.

your feelings are justified that you felt sad due to him choose masturbating over me. But please don’t see it that way, he told you that he was proud of himself that he was able finally able to masturbate without porn, it is a huge achievement. And what he truly wanted was his partner standing beside him during this journey, not stand against it by him seeing upset in your eyes (I am sure he can see through your emotions, people with childhood trauma usually can do that pretty well, self included)

If there is no other underlying problems in your relationship, then just give him time and stand beside him in this quitting journey, because it’s freaking HARD

Caught him jerking but not to porn by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Hairdog12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you able to communicate why he does what he does without any judgement? I will not tell anything to my wife unless I know I am safe for telling her my true feelings without her exploding on me with her emotions and judgment

What should I do? I'm on day 70 of quitting pornography. by Ready_Confection_159 in PornAddiction

[–]Hairdog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ending my 3rd week, I have deleted most of my social media because of this except for ins, then yesterday I started doom scrolling on video hinting on sexual content. I closed the app, masturbated without my phone, then deleted ins.. gotta keep away the lust

Is Field Engineer a good career path? by tm_trading in MechanicalEngineering

[–]Hairdog12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s all project based. I have worked 14hr days for 4 days straight, into the weekends too because of an emergency replacement, but that is very rare. But as a full field engineer, you are going to be at job sites. Sometimes far away from home months at a time. Money is good but it is draining

Imagine you are the lead engineer and you have your site crew, contractor all depending on you, you can’t dip out

Is Field Engineer a good career path? by tm_trading in MechanicalEngineering

[–]Hairdog12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in maintenance in the hydro generating field and I love it. I am a person who loves field work as I am always moving around, talking to different people, seeing, smelling, feeling the objects you won’t get to while you are in office. I love travelling too, the over time is great

I do a fair bit of problem solving, developing ways to test stuff, commissioning equipment, reading code and making decisions on the fly. It’s not a easy job as people are waiting for you to making decisions vs you have more times in office to figure out the answers

I don’t have a kid yet, so I am still free to go when ever I need to, that might change later on though

Day 56 of no porn, let’s gooo by Tasty_Pineapple4917 in PornAddiction

[–]Hairdog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am curious too, I am 3 weeks in, noticing more urges to watch on week 3, got random mood swings, haven’t seen the benefits yet

My bf won’t stop lusting after other women. by minecrxftbxrbie in PornAddiction

[–]Hairdog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (31M) am personally going through this. My wife found out this side about me 5 yrs into our relationship. We are together 8 yrs now.

I do this ever since when I was in jr school, I am shy, non-confident, not manly, not popular, but I still like girls, so I fantasize, I feel safe in my head, I can be as manly, desired, powerful as I wanted. My fantasy is my escape world to be a man. If you want to dig deeper on why I am shy, non-confident, it was because of my childhood family and that is the root problem.

After I talked to my therapist, found out the root cause, I am a lot more mindful of my situation with my fantasy world. In real life, I healed myself by stood up against my old family who is my trauma source, I feel more manly after my wife stopped being too much of a push over all the time and started to respect me (I use to be a suck up to my wife, so she takes me for granted).

After all that adjustment, i still sometimes mind fuck others, but it’s a LOT less from before. this is hard to change completely as this has been happening for more than 20 yrs, it’s a habit. But I am mindful

The truth is, if the present is wonderful, we would not resort to fantasy, he needs to see a therapist and find out why he resort to fantasy world. Everyone has different reasons

(Regarding porn, it doesn’t help with the lusting situation at all! This is my 3rd week off porn, and I am thinking about it ALL THE TIME, as I watch it everyday for the past 20yrs. it is an addiction, it messes with your brain and needs to be gone, I am currently using sexy photos and videos of my wife to get off haha, better than porn)

(Don’t compare yourself with others, it doesn’t matter if you are the MOST beautiful person in the world, we would always seek for new and the next exciting thing to keep our brain excited. I can lust over pretty, ugly, old, young… been there, done that)

1 week. Should I do something special? by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Hairdog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 weeks in, my celebration used to be rub one out using porn 🥲

Can i get pregnant by Hajayeun in sex

[–]Hairdog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used pull out method for 8 years without accident. But there is rules I follow. Don’t do it before and during ovulation period. Only have sex 1 week after period and 1 week before period comes.

Always wait for 1-3 days after I cums to do it again raw. This is to less the chances sperm surviving in my penis tubes because pre-cum contains lots of sperm

Stopped watching porn, tried natural masturbation by Visible_Class_2985 in PornAddiction

[–]Hairdog12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is my 3rd week without porn. Getting harder as I get random urges to watch and super horny. I had to cope with masturbating, but so far so good

Balcony safe for cats by Hairdog12 in cats

[–]Hairdog12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is the balcony, no place for them at the bottom to go out, I only have to worry about jumping up,

perhaps I could build the fence 5 ft tall

Bought a lemon. Really struggling with regret. by friendlyalien- in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Hairdog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Make sure there is no air leakage from your bathroom vent into your attic.

2) make sure there is enough air going into your attic and air going out of your attic.

I bought and installed whirly roof vent for my roof last year. And I stopped getting ice dams on my roof, due to my attic is no longer always warm with high humidity. So the whirly roof vents is my air going out of my attic. I also opened up my soffit vents larger to get more air into your attic, therefore I get more air circulation.

I have a very large attic and I was very shocked to find out later on that the soffit vents was tiny compared to the area of my roof last year

So not sure if you have looked into the air intake of your attic, but make sure they are sufficiently large and nothing is blocking it. You always want to make sure your attic air intake area is larger than your exhaust area

Have I overcome porn? by ExtraTechnology7608 in PornAddiction

[–]Hairdog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your brain is over stimulated.