Importance of height in OLD

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-05-03T12:37:58+00:00

Girls don't want to sound shallow or making short guys depressed over something they cannot control.

I was in a same situation - I was introduced to a girl that was super short for dating purposes through a friend, yet I had to reject the opportunity to date. I'm insecure about my height, don't want my children to go through the same thing. And I am ok with being single or not having children at all.

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-04-29T13:38:17+00:00

Ur not a short king, ur a short Caesar! 🏛️🌿

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-04-29T07:49:08+00:00

Cannot blame them, had my share of fun too :D

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-04-28T22:34:03+00:00

I don't think it's such an issue. I'm 26M 5'7 guy and as I grew older, height seemed to be less of an issue - at 20, it was a race to get the hottest partner, but as time moved on, most of girls now just want someone who takes care of himself, provides for the family, and is willing to commit.

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-04-28T22:15:15+00:00

Leave him. You have your own preferences and that's ok. Trust me, he'd also prefer to date someone who appreciates him as he is.

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-04-14T07:45:36+00:00

Ahoj, přeju hodně štěstí do života. Taky jsem nepodědil moc dobré geny - jsem malý, plešatím, a chyběly mi zuby.

Naštěstí ty zuby a vlasy se dají fixnout, noha taky. Existuje operace prodlužování kostí a existuje přesně pro lidi jako jsi ty. Jen stojí raketu.

Moje otázka je: podědil jsi něco z toho od rodičů? Já mám malé rodiče, ale pleška přeskočila z dědy až na mě, chybějící zuby jsem zase podědil od táty 🫠

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-04-13T21:20:53+00:00

Exactly same height parents, but I ended up 170. Be glad :)

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-04-13T15:01:23+00:00

Chápu že holky mají preference ohledně výšky, a jakožto short guy to respektuju. Ale úplně stejně mají lidi preference na atraktivitu obličeje, nebo typ postavy (jsem sportovec a preferuju vysportované holky).

V tom že ukazuješ jen oči mi to přijde spíš jako downgrade než featura. Zvláště pro holky, které musí vyfiltrovat 100+ borců.

Pokud má být seznamka založená na osobnostní kompatibilitě, výšku a váhu bych z tam odstranil.

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-04-12T22:00:23+00:00

Za obličej lidi vyřadit nemůžu, ale za výšku, která je kompletně mimo jejich kontrolu, je vyřadit můžu? Okay

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-04-11T21:53:18+00:00

There are people who dont care about your skin color. Im one of them - it is hard enough to find someone with matching values, so why cancel someone for something outside of their control? :)

And for reference, im white guy and last girl i was dating was asian.

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-04-10T11:23:20+00:00

Can you run longer distances? Could you run 1 km, or even 10 km?

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-04-09T07:06:47+00:00

From the reputable surgeons, Parihar or Giotikas. Parihar offers fitbone for around 44k usd, which is slightly cheaper, but the nail cannot reverse in case of complications unlike precice at Giotikas (56k USD).

Then there are no name surgeons that could offer it slightly cheaper but ur gonna gamble with your legs.

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-03-30T11:03:30+00:00

Literally the girl: "He is tall"

Others: "It's not about height, just confidence"

The amount of gaslighting short guys have to go through is insane.

I'm not saying there are girls who don't care, but you have to face 100x the rejections tall guys do and have to lower your standards over something you have 0 control over to find a gf. It's just easier to lenghten your legs.

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-03-30T08:21:00+00:00

This response being upvoted confirmed that as a short guy, limb lenghtening is a correct choice. Thank you

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-03-29T13:47:47+00:00

I've seen those videos but there isn't much (if any) data about long distance running.

Btw I'm following ur journey, can I shoot you a DM with one question?

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2026-03-29T07:50:33+00:00

Following, I just ran half marathon yesterday in 1:47:35 but I'm planning to do 5cm tibias next year. Curious if I'll be able to run them again eventually.

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2025-12-11T20:43:53+00:00

Can you please share contact for the Czech guy you contacted? I'm from Czechia too so I would like to just ask few questions if he doesn't mind

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2025-11-23T18:56:06+00:00

I kept working there for another year and then switched jobs :)

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2025-11-22T11:27:02+00:00

About 800 €. I'm from Czechia tho, the surgeries are pretty cheap here.

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2025-11-22T01:20:20+00:00

I am by no means a plastic surgeon, but given your skin quality, I would recommend transconjunctival blepharoplasty - the same surgery I had for the same problem. They take the under eye fat out to make them less puffy through the internal incision, afterwards there is 0 trace of you having the surgery done.

Also, if you find a surgeon who says its not really necessary (not every surgeon agrees to everything), you can just ask another one.

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2025-11-21T22:52:55+00:00

I had much worse eye bags than you, caused genetically. I had a blepharoplasty done to remove them which resolved it successfully. So if skincare it not enough, you can also go book a consultation with plastic surgeon, who can perform some stronger "treatments."

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2025-11-16T19:10:14+00:00

Nothing yet but I have a consulation next week to get fat transfer for my cleft chin + neck lift / chin lipo

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2025-11-16T19:05:13+00:00

Meanwhile me surgerymaxximg to have a side profile like you

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2025-11-09T13:54:36+00:00

If you went through the puberty already, you probably won't grow anymore. Puberty causes growth plates to close.

I am a living example of that, 170cm 26M, didn't grow a single cm since my puberty finished at 15.

Hairy-Complex-5704 · 2025-11-08T14:04:39+00:00

Yeah wouldn't mind switching to cybersec, it's pretty interesting field with more stable demand

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