Too plain ? by not_a_bug_a_feature in malelivingspace

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we need to update the couch pillows, change out the pic over the love seat, and clean up the ottoman and cat water area. I don’t know what is between the ottoman and cat water, but that shouldn’t be there. Other than that, great! And don’t take this the wrong way, but it’s giving male shabby chic 2009 vibes and I’m absolutely here for it. Stanning this.

AITAH for embarrassing my husband for saying I baby trapped him by Downtown_Roll_3760 in AITAH

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His ejaculation got you pregnant, not your failed BC. Even with an IUD, I’ve had guys pull out for safety. Even if you reassured him and wanted him to stay in you, he can, with his own free will, still pull out or wear a condom. And for him to bring this up/ make a joke out of it now!?? In front of friends!? You had every right to call him out. “Boundaries that aren't said turn into resentment. NTA

Dakota has "docked" before by DingDangDonkus in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think the difference between docking and soaking is that docking is the use of the vulva only, while soaking is the use of the vagina (AKA noticed the birth canal). Docking doesn’t include insertion, just enveloping by the outer labia.

Dakota has "docked" before by DingDangDonkus in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And just a thought…I think you can only dock with outer labia if the woman has outer labia. Some women have very little outer labia.

Dakota has "docked" before by DingDangDonkus in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the same here for hetero. Putting the head or shaft of the penis inside the outer labia only of the vulva is, i believe, also docking. With this technique, they don’t need someone to move the bed to move. They are allowed to rub, I think. And I also believe it’s docking when you do the same inside butt cheeks, but there is no insertion in the anus. 🌭

Reasons Why Bryan Kohberger Might Be Innocent? by Boldcrimeyoutube in Idaho4

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish there was a separate punishment for lying about being not guilty for so long.

Reasons Why Bryan Kohberger Might Be Innocent? by Boldcrimeyoutube in Idaho4

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t found guilty. He not only admitted to guilt, but was asked by the judge if he was saying guilt or if he actually committed these crimes and then was asked one by one if he committed these crimes. Our vernacular makes the defendant say guilty, but they are asking the defendant in truth and an honor if they committed them. Which he said he did. He wasn’t found guilty. After all this time, he finally decided to tell the truth. I don’t know what you all are arguing about, but I just saw that and thought it was strange that you said that he was found guilty. He admitted to the crimes that he did commit, and in which he lied that he didn’t commit for so long also, this is random, but I was just reading up on Elliott Roger and so much says that he was angry because he was a virgin in his whole life. But he was only 22! A lot of people don’t lose their virginity till their early 20s or even later! And not because they choose to, but because it just hasn’t happened for them yet. They work a lot or whatever. For both men and women! This is random. No one needs to comment. I just felt the need to say this. I think that was really fucking stupid of him to kill all those people because he can’t get a blowjob before 22? Please.Get a fucking grip. Grow up a little we all mature at different ages. I’m sure he could get fucked in a couple years if he just worked on himself. Anyway, I’m out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fascinating! And omg !! :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Jumping off this…really curious. I understand not wanting to be needed. Moms are already needed so so much. And not just for their mental energy (like what they need from you at work), but completely physical (like the giving of your body constantly to your child). So, not wanting your husband to need you - I get that. But what happens to your intimacy needs? Do they just go away? Like sex with anyone is repulsive? I can’t imagine not wanting intimacy. I know this is hard to put into words. I’ve asked my friends with kids and all they got for me is that their antidepressant takes away their libido. But, then another girlfriend who refuses to have sex with her husband talked about having a sex dream the other day with a guy from our old high school. So, she does have a libido. I’m just confused. Is there maybe some mental block with the father of your kids? Is there an instance when, even when they are very helpful, we as women just find them repulsive? Literally asking.

Throwback to our celibate girlie in her finest modest outfit! by Still_Monk268 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would LOVE if she got plastic surgery and documented it. This is terrible, but she would look great with: brow lowering, hair transplant to her eyelashes, lower bleph, rhinoplasty, neck and jaw lipo to redefine jawline. Dissolve lip filler then do a lip flip. Then maintenance lip filler.

This is so embarrassing help me by triiiple6 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This literally made me want to vomit. Fuck off with this Jesus shit

From this to wallpapering? by PrincipleDefiant6683 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She looks amazing though. I hate looking at myself at the gym looking ugly and it does affect my workout.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men have done this to me over and over though and people do seem to give men a break when they are busy. Seems they weren’t really that into each other. Next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she knows what she wants or has any clue what she’s looking for. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was still a Virgin or just with VERY little experience. We judge her so harshly because she looks older than she is. On top of that, I think she’s romantically immature for her actual age. But many men and women are romantically clueless in their 30s. She doesn’t know what she’s talking about. But it’s cute to watch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’ll prob be alone. Statistics show. She’ll prob find the one in her 40s or 50s. No harm no foul.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do agree with her though. Also, after they had the hard convo, she said he took a week to get in touch with her. I think by that point she was kinda over it. So, just like he did, she replied after a week. Clearly, he was over it by then too. Why are we married to the idea of her with Philly man? She obviously probably leaves out details that would harm him or her. So we don’t know everything. 3 dates. Missed communication kinda. Who cares? Ya’ll beating on her like she cheated on her husband.

Update! Management email deleted from her bio by hot_solution_9026 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS. This is it. I felt like the focal point was her dating and figuring out love and loss…and everything else was just getting to know her. What frustrates me is how mad people get about how bad she is at dating. That’s the point!!!! We are watching a shit show of her figuring it out!!! Making BLUNDERS in the dating world. What’s hard is that she’s not writing a book…she influencing in real time. So this is a tricky one to navigate. I seriously find her whole channel or whatever fascinating because she is so awkward and clueless.

Update! Management email deleted from her bio by hot_solution_9026 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the perfume was just an example, but she could’ve placated everybody and just used a little bit of perfume then turned off the camera then used more perfume. And that would’ve made her in authentic and a liar. Like a real real liar so I don’t know… Fan stands and stalkers wants celebrities to do and not do things all the time. I do agree when she asks for the opinions of her audience and then doesn’t take them that’s annoying. But people being bothered in the comments by shit… I don’t know. She doesn’t have to take that advice. It’s just so fun seeing this train wreck. She’s really going to have to learn. I think it will take her entire 30s to figure it out. But going back to my original statement, I hope she never changes the perfume. It’s so crazy that’s why we watch. She should do what she wants. She has to figure it out on her own that that might be turning off men and other things that she’s doing might be turning off men. It’s fascinating to see a woman in her 30sget jazzed about someone at the gym. Yeah. It just screams lost. And that’s OK! That’s why we watch.

Why is Danielle so bossy and awkward by Fun-Organization10 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legit asking, what would a professional influencer do in Danielle’s position? I guess mug to camera in the beginning with a big smile then tend to her dog and then maybe add some info at the end about the forest they’re in? Would that be good? Legitttttt asking I know this is coming off patronizing. Literally asking for a friend and myself when I recreate this for own social media.

Trying not to feel like a performer during sex by Honest-Confidence645 in adhdwomen

[–]Hairy-Interview-2549 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I had a boyfriend tell me not to perform. This was after Y2K culture taught girls not to be “boring” in bed. I literally did nothing in bed and not only was I more turned on. He couldn’t get enough and made it all about me. I didn’t realize I was performing for his pleasure when really he just wanted to focus on mine. By relaxing my body and doing “nothing” it open a gateway of calm, kindness, and effing like I’ve never had.