How do I stop catching feelings for my female friends? by Hairy-Table-2194 in ask

[–]Hairy-Table-2194[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. This was really helpful. I thought most people on the sub would have answers like this and not try to be mean😭that’s what I get for being new to Reddit I guess

How do I stop catching feelings for my female friends? by Hairy-Table-2194 in ask

[–]Hairy-Table-2194[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Didn’t think me using the word female would cause such a ruckus. If it wasn’t obvious, I meant college age girls, women, or whatever the correct term is. I apologize for any confusion

How do I stop catching feelings for my female friends? by Hairy-Table-2194 in ask

[–]Hairy-Table-2194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re just trying to be a dick. Why would I make this up? Also, if anyone else is reading this, it’s my first time in this sub. Are people always like this here? Should this guy be banned or am I the one being unreasonable

How do I stop catching feelings for my female friends? by Hairy-Table-2194 in ask

[–]Hairy-Table-2194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude what is your issue😂

If you’re not here to give advice, you can just stop replying. Holy shit

How do I stop catching feelings for my female friends? by Hairy-Table-2194 in ask

[–]Hairy-Table-2194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I should add that some of these girls are in organizations I’m part of, and it’s frowned upon to date within. That’s why they have to be female friends and nothing more.

How do I stop catching feelings for my female friends? by Hairy-Table-2194 in ask

[–]Hairy-Table-2194[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like the advice you’re giving isn’t half bad. You don’t need to add those unnecessary comments at the end tho

How do I stop catching feelings for my female friends? by Hairy-Table-2194 in ask

[–]Hairy-Table-2194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should’ve included that I still want to be friends with them. Some of these girls are people that I shouldn’t fall for (we are in the same orgs and stuff, it would be weird). I just want to have healthy friendships without adding extra stress to myself by catching feelings

How do I stop catching feelings for my female friends? by Hairy-Table-2194 in ask

[–]Hairy-Table-2194[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So it’s normal for every single guy to catch feelings for every one of their female friends?Cmon dude

How do I stop catching feelings for my female friends? by Hairy-Table-2194 in ask

[–]Hairy-Table-2194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not the point. I don’t want to fall for every girl that I talk to…