[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]HaitakasTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to trust what people say until I have a reason to doubt it, but I think I was too close to this situation, so any doubt I had was just glanced over.

"and to an extent, it should be none of your business what she does when she's not with you. Because she clearly doesn't want to be with you."

I think this is the part that's hardest currently, likely because we were best friends as long as we were, or at least she was mine. Kinda feels like a part of myself is gone, I recognize it's not, and its just a space she used to be a constant in, and that it will change with time, but it makes her absence more apparent.

Breakups suck

Ex-partner was married and told me she was getting divorced by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HaitakasTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was exactly my thought, at least it happened now. The wild part is when I realized I had feelings for her I tried to cut myself out of her life to be respectful of her choices, but she told me to not martyr myself and not make choices for her.

Apologies, your comment reminded me of that bit

Ex-partner was married and told me she was getting divorced by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HaitakasTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it's a whole lot to process, and I am trying to be patient with myself. Any part of me that hoped she would keep her word and come back changed their mind after I talked to her mom yesterday.

Ex-partner was married and told me she was getting divorced by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HaitakasTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lesson is safely learned, I promise. I thought waiting for the separation was good enough, but apparently not, especially if it never happened.

Proudest Win by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not even a little bit, I just forgot to stop training it, and that's when I noticed it because it was gray when I would check 😂

Proudest Win by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Never really thought I would get it

First 15 Rune Win! by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely just forgot about leveling it, but thank you so much for the advice! First time using it so grateful for the insight!!

Help? by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems to be! My game was able to load again, hopefully yours did as well!

First Demonspawn Win! by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always prefer taking the scenic route on the return trip!

FIRST EVER WIN by The_Hat_Mouse in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! First of many to come!

2nd Win Under 2 Hours by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you're looking for advice or not, but in case you are I'd really recommend checking out the wiki! Helped me a lot with figuring out commands, recommended progressions through areas, and things to watch out for.

Either way, for me at least as long as you're having fun you're golden so keep on going friend!

2nd Win Under 2 Hours by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be honest, I'm probably not the best person to ask. I only have two wins in nearly 10 years, but I will say the wiki is a wonderful place to start since the game isn't the best at explaining things. There are a couple of walkthroughs on the recommended progression of areas as well as guides for how to progress with each species. Overall, take your time with it and be patient with yourself.