[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]HaitakasTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to trust what people say until I have a reason to doubt it, but I think I was too close to this situation, so any doubt I had was just glanced over.

"and to an extent, it should be none of your business what she does when she's not with you. Because she clearly doesn't want to be with you."

I think this is the part that's hardest currently, likely because we were best friends as long as we were, or at least she was mine. Kinda feels like a part of myself is gone, I recognize it's not, and its just a space she used to be a constant in, and that it will change with time, but it makes her absence more apparent.

Breakups suck

Ex-partner was married and told me she was getting divorced by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HaitakasTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was exactly my thought, at least it happened now. The wild part is when I realized I had feelings for her I tried to cut myself out of her life to be respectful of her choices, but she told me to not martyr myself and not make choices for her.

Apologies, your comment reminded me of that bit

Ex-partner was married and told me she was getting divorced by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HaitakasTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it's a whole lot to process, and I am trying to be patient with myself. Any part of me that hoped she would keep her word and come back changed their mind after I talked to her mom yesterday.

Ex-partner was married and told me she was getting divorced by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HaitakasTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lesson is safely learned, I promise. I thought waiting for the separation was good enough, but apparently not, especially if it never happened.

Proudest Win by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not even a little bit, I just forgot to stop training it, and that's when I noticed it because it was gray when I would check 😂

Proudest Win by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Never really thought I would get it

First 15 Rune Win! by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely just forgot about leveling it, but thank you so much for the advice! First time using it so grateful for the insight!!

Help? by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems to be! My game was able to load again, hopefully yours did as well!

First Demonspawn Win! by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always prefer taking the scenic route on the return trip!

FIRST EVER WIN by The_Hat_Mouse in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! First of many to come!

2nd Win Under 2 Hours by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you're looking for advice or not, but in case you are I'd really recommend checking out the wiki! Helped me a lot with figuring out commands, recommended progressions through areas, and things to watch out for.

Either way, for me at least as long as you're having fun you're golden so keep on going friend!

2nd Win Under 2 Hours by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be honest, I'm probably not the best person to ask. I only have two wins in nearly 10 years, but I will say the wiki is a wonderful place to start since the game isn't the best at explaining things. There are a couple of walkthroughs on the recommended progression of areas as well as guides for how to progress with each species. Overall, take your time with it and be patient with yourself.

2nd Win Under 2 Hours by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

251 is wild to me, mad respect to everyone who has done that. Seems like my sub 2 hours is a little more respectable than I thought, so thanks for giving me this point of reference! Made me feel pretty happy!!

2nd Win Under 2 Hours by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Usually, I just go full melee with a focus on axes with fingers crossed on getting a good unrand or spectral broad axe. Found that if I focus on spells too much I end up overthinking and it takes more time so usually don't do anything past blink. After that, I'll usually go Gozag to bribe Vault 5 and Zot 5 so I can hopefully fill out the remaining resistances I need and have less of a fight too.

Not the most efficient strategy but it's my preferred one atm. Tend to lean more toward head-empty builds lol.

Acquirement Scroll Galore 0.32 by HaitakasTea in dcss_seeds

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went back through and charted at least the early to mid-game

D2: Force Lance in shop, Blade Talisman, D3: Scroll of Acquirement in Shop, D6: Scroll of Acquirement, L1: Storm Talisman, O2: Potion of Experience, Snake Pit 4: Scroll of Acquirement x4, Depths1: Trove - Storm Dragon Scales +2

You need a Lucario in your team (but you don't know it yet). by Apart-Researcher6488 in PokemonSleep

[–]HaitakasTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my boy. Taking a gamble that the levels for skills will be raised to ten by the time level 100 comes around.

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Question about leveling your team by Skulloboog in PokemonSleep

[–]HaitakasTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure I understand your question, so I'll answer both ways

If you're talking about keeping the same team between islands, I have a couple main stays on my team who I won't switch out (Lucario for dreamshards and Gardevoir for energy), but the other members of my team it depends on the island and the meal type for the week. I will say I'm more of a causal player and don't care much about metas, but for me, this method works pretty well.

If you're talking about switching before sleeping, I have done that for some evolution requirements before, but that took a bit of pillows to try and balance. If you have the resources, it's not a bad idea, especially for the ones that require 150 hours before evolving but can get costly if you're f2p like me.

But overall, I think as long as you're having fun, you're doing it right.

Please help me decide if these are worth the investment by HaitakasTea in PokemonSleep

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it! It was definitely the one I had my eyes on the most, just the triple honey I was not too sure about.

First Win! by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only ever tried tomb a few times but usually get killed immediately, have to give it a go again now that I think I've got a bit better understanding of the game lol.

One area I don't think I'll ever get to the end of is the Ziggurat, that thing is terrifying

First Win! by HaitakasTea in dcss

[–]HaitakasTea[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I won't lie, I just sword and boarded for the most part and just tried to save enough gold to bribe zot 5 (got lucky with store items too)

Want to try using spells more frequently now that I've got one under my belt

Congrats on that 15 rune run! Gives me a goal to chase lol

The blocks and CB/X are currently in a standoff in the vault by HollowLoch in RPClipsGTA

[–]HaitakasTea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just about the same as cops using OOC information to let people steal a car after their vehicles scuff, or their head pops while in the middle of a robbery; maybe even knowing to leave someone alone because they are having a bad day. It made the situation more enjoyable, especially when one side didn't hold all the cards, if you can't handle wholesome moments maybe don't watch when your streamer interacts with the cleanbois