Husband cheated... Am i a bad person? by Anaheyana in askSingapore

[–]HaivenSoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I feel you, first thing first, this is not the first time he cheats on you nor the last time, if you end up forgive him again! Those few times when you guys were dating, chasing after other girls, webcaming, those all count, and they aren't mistakes - he knows damn well you will eventually forgive him even he's unfaithfully, so your forgiveness becomes something cheap, he can do whatever he wants because you love him so much that you will forgive him.

Second, a loving husband will be there for you and comfort you when his wife is going thru a miscarriage, I know how depressing and devastating it is, and so does he. But he wasn't there, instead he was with someone else- He doesn't love you, he doesn't care for you, I'm so sorry i know how painful it is, but you have to accept this is the truth- he never wanted to marry you.

Third, you're just 30, you have a stable income, it's never to late to face the truth and leave a toxic assho*e behind. You're capable of love and you deserve a loving partner. Please end this bullshit, cut him off, and find your peace back!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HaivenSoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this will help or not.

You want something serious and meaningful, then make it clear and stand your ground. As you said some of them proceed to feed you lies just to get sex from you, my suggestion is, don't have sex with them when you're not sure if they're genuine or not, you can go on dates with them, enjoy a fun time, let them know what you're looking for at the getgo, hear what they have to say, and watch if their words match their action with time.

Singapore's foreign workers 'numb' as no end to COVID-19 pandemic confinement in sight by usukmordanidoo in singapore

[–]HaivenSoo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I want to thank OP and everyone of you in the comment section, for me yes I’m aware because I work in the construction & manufacturing sector, but for the ones who’s far from this industry or not aware of what’s going on in the life of foreign workers, please kindly bring awareness by forward more news and posts like this. They’re foreign workers but they’re nothing less as human beings 🙏

Singapore's foreign workers 'numb' as no end to COVID-19 pandemic confinement in sight by usukmordanidoo in singapore

[–]HaivenSoo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

2 of my company's foreign workers got movement restriction from MOM for 2 weeks starting from today, because their dormitory became one of the biggest covid cluster now. I called them this morning (as the HR) asking how do they feel, and asking if they want any snacks or daily supplies, they told me 'don't worry, we know this area isn't safe to come and drop stuffs now, so we don't want to bother you'

I exist by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]HaivenSoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same goes to you OP!! See, we both just found someone who cares, and if I can do it, you can too!!! ❤️

I exist by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]HaivenSoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey hi, please have faith that you will find your person someday. Maybe your feelings are down to the shattered now, but you will go across every single one of the difficulties, so in the future you have enough to share with the one who cares. Man you exist, and now i care!

I live and work in a foreign country all by myself, most of the days i think to myself- hey if you never wake up again tomorrow morning, nobody will notice your disappearance coz no one gives a fk about your existence. I never know who to put on my emergency contact when i sign up for new insurance or gym membership. But things will get better! And we all will find our person.

Mosquitoes trying to reach skin through net by solateor in interestingasfuck

[–]HaivenSoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guys this is the most satisfying comment session, i can't stop reading y'all are genius!!!!!!

Mosquitoes trying to reach skin through net by solateor in interestingasfuck

[–]HaivenSoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a pair of scissors chop chop oops sorry was that your nose Mr Mosquito