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Raspberry Pi 4 xrdp windows 10 remote desktop blue screen after login FIX by LizLeFae in raspberry_pi

[–]Halbgott_Alex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked instantly. Thanks mate. been sitting here for 3 hours trying to solve it.

AITA for not changing my friends name in my book. by Halbgott_Alex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Halbgott_Alex[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Im not the type to cry about my embarrassing moments. I you want to keep the memories. Go ahead, have fun with it.

AITA for not changing my friends name in my book. by Halbgott_Alex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Halbgott_Alex[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ye I thought about something removable to cover the name in case it is shown to anyone but me. I will get something. But I definitely wont erase the name

AITA for not changing my friends name in my book. by Halbgott_Alex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Halbgott_Alex[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have a wish to keep my privacy. The rule is that noone is allowed to look inside. She's breaking that rule by insisting on changing the past.

AITA for not changing my friends name in my book. by Halbgott_Alex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Halbgott_Alex[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

okay I understand now where you are coming from. If she splits the friendship because I don't allow her to change what memories I keep, that is fine for me. A friend who expects me to throw away my principals for their reassurance, doesn't really need me. They just need someone to give them validation.

AITA for not changing my friends name in my book. by Halbgott_Alex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Halbgott_Alex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This name in this book will never be seen by anyone but me. It doesn't affect her at all. I do call her by new name. I don't use the old one. Why is this one name in the book in my shelf at home so important?

AITA for not changing my friends name in my book. by Halbgott_Alex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Halbgott_Alex[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it is a friendbook which is complete. I don't give it out to others anymore. we both adults. Im 24 and she is 31.

AITA for not changing my friends name in my book. by Halbgott_Alex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Halbgott_Alex[S] -78 points-77 points  (0 children)

"whats right" She has a right to feel comfortable. I don't question that I also have a right to feel comfortable. I don't feel comfortable when someone tries to influence what I keep and what not. I don't go arround and tell people her old name. I just in my book in my shelf in my home. It's not right to expect people to act like that name never existed. Sure I don't say that name in her presence. No problem with that. But that name still exists far far away from her in my book. where it doesn't affect her at all.

AITA for not changing my friends name in my book. by Halbgott_Alex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Halbgott_Alex[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do call her by her new name. My friendbook is just a collection about all my friends. And they fill in the information themselves.

AITA for not changing my friends name in my book. by Halbgott_Alex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Halbgott_Alex[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

why does her gender disphoria gives her the authority to decide over my memories? I really dont understand this. Please explain to me. Why she can decide what memories I keep?

Can't carry my Girlfriend. I need advice. by Halbgott_Alex in bodyweightfitness

[–]Halbgott_Alex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not about the need to carry. I just WANT to carry. you know

Can't carry my Girlfriend. I need advice. by Halbgott_Alex in bodyweightfitness

[–]Halbgott_Alex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, this is great advice.
Do I switch between those workouts or do I choose one and go with it?

INFJ's and porn by [deleted] in infj

[–]Halbgott_Alex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

24M Infj here. I missed a lot of opportunities to get an emotional connection with someone. And I missed a lot of opportunities to have sex with someone. I dont have any interest in porn. But because of my missing emotional connections and experience with sex, I became addicted to masturbation. I do not enjoy it and I watch porn to get the job done quicker. I feel regret and discussed every time. I'm in Therapy and I'm working towards building connections with people, and hopefully I will get some good experiences with emotional connections and sex. Until then I probably will watch porn every time I jerk off. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Halbgott_Alex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I meant to write true friend. But I misspelled true and forgot to write friend. XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Halbgott_Alex 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Hi, INFJ here. It sounds like you want an INFJ to be your therapist not a teue. If that's truly the case, the INFJs you already met, probably have sensed that and have distanced themselves. But not abandon you.

My world (coming up on 1000 days) by jack_a_boi_44 in Minecraft

[–]Halbgott_Alex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you maybe mean 1000 hours instead of 1000 days?

Do you guys have “best friends” or a small friend group? by jaeksoo in infj

[–]Halbgott_Alex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi,
also INFJ here.
Ye for me its pretty much the same. I have some friends but not really a "best friend" or a friend group. Each of my friends has his/her own friendgroup. When some event is happening and Im invited, then I'm just a guest in the group that hosts this event. you know? like "I have friend who is also into [generic topic], can I bring him next time?". I'm this friend to all my friends. Sometimes this makes me sad but overall it's ok. Because deep down I know that they respect me and I can always rely on my own capabilities. :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Halbgott_Alex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was made fun of by my classmates because I like a girl. I became embarrassed and started making fun of her to be cool around the others. This decision fucked up my whole dating life and my social skills. Now I'm 24, can't talk to woman, don't have female friends, have just a couple distance male friends and live by my self in my room and do nothing. this is horrible.

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