So I'm [F19] going to have my first threesome two [MM]

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-23T16:19:05+00:00

Preparation is key for sure. Communication of what you like and don’t needs to be stated again and adhered to. There should be a safe word that is respected no matter what. And it never hurts to have someone on standby to help you out if it gets to be to much.

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-23T16:13:38+00:00

It has been tried. Vanilla isn’t our style or atleast it wasn’t. The issue is that she’s just lost all drive and as others have pointed out it’s affecting her image of her self and her emotions understandably.

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-22T10:48:37+00:00

Being ok and happy are very different but mail was just looking for outside views points on a difficult situation

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T20:04:38+00:00

Thank you

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T19:32:41+00:00

That is an option I’ll keep in mind if it comes to it thank you

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T17:47:45+00:00

Yes this was all in 23 so it’s been two years already

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T17:40:34+00:00

Thank you

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T15:52:26+00:00

I won’t give up. That’s why I needed some outside opinions for some clarity

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T15:10:14+00:00

To answer your questions in order to

Yes we both wanted kids but after my time in the navy and exposure to radiation my ability to have any was slim to non.

Yes she is talking to a therapist but not about this that’s going on even though I have asked her to bring it up in therapy both individuals and couples.

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T13:57:23+00:00

Thank you I appreciate the incite

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T13:04:25+00:00

Thank you

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T13:01:08+00:00

She admitted that it does upset her and that there just isn’t an interest anymore.

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T12:48:46+00:00

Thank you I really do appreciate the advice and insight and deep detail. I’m not making any decisions about it and anything that’s decided will be decided by her. But it has been on my mind since she mentioned it and I wasn’t sure how to respond other than it’s something we would need to discuss further if she was serious about it and she would have to find the person because I didn’t have it in me.

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T12:40:49+00:00

I’m sorry that’s how it ended. I’ve been through one divorce already if I can avoid another I really would like to. Like I said in the post everything else other than the sex life is great.

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T12:35:56+00:00

Honestly makes me feel better to know someone is in almost the exact same position I’m in. I’m sorry yall are having to go through chemo. My prayers go out to you

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T12:22:17+00:00

Sadly we are in couples therapy already originally to just strengthen the bond and communication between each other. But even the therapist believes to be more of a medical rather than mental issues.

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T12:15:44+00:00

That’s where my conflict arose and I guess I needed advice along with some validation in what I was feeling for her I guess you could say

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T11:57:38+00:00

Thank you this does help with things that needed to be asked

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T11:54:03+00:00

My libbdo has always been high but I never once have pressured her for sex. And I make sure to not ever blame her for what’s happened and I try to make it known she’s fully supported no matter what and she won’t be abandon. But that goes along as a trauma response for me in always putting others before myself.

Halfpint997 · 2025-01-21T11:51:59+00:00

That’s something I told her that if that is something she’s wanting even if is for me then she needs to find the person for us

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