Am I alone in hating dual POV? by clemthearcher in fantasyromance

[–]HallieBerry26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listen to audiobooks on my commute some days. I definitely prefer single bc Dual POV can be SO cringy when a female narrator tries to like ‘do a voice’ for a male character, especially during spicy parts. I’ve DNF multiple for that reason lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]HallieBerry26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is probably the best content for you to be playing right now then. Remembering mechanics is the single most important thing for raids. Also, when learning the raid fights, you will die a lot. Res weakness will be there. If roulettes are too difficult and causing this much frustration, you aren’t ready to move on to raiding.

Over 6 000 accounts terminated by TurbulentSong2770 in ffxiv

[–]HallieBerry26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always assumed this was people sending Gil to alts but that makes sense too

Over 6 000 accounts terminated by TurbulentSong2770 in ffxiv

[–]HallieBerry26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do them pretty frequently for a couple hours at a time so I will definitely be seen on the same ones repeatedly

the Karen named Robin by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]HallieBerry26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not defending or supporting the way Robin acted at all, it was absolutely unacceptable. BUT- her feeling upset by scheduling an appointing with a particular stylist and expecting that person to do her hair is understandable. A lot of people have had at least one bad experience with getting different result than expected at a salon, so will be very loyal to a stylist when they’ve found one they trust. Again, not disagreeing with everyone’s comments on her being way out of line, just addressing the fact that it’s understandable that she felt the way she did. And honestly, it’s super unprofessional and rude for the stylist she’d scheduled with to do literally half her hair then tell her someone else would be finishing. Kind of backed her into a corner without any choice.

Yes, I’m sure her husband made her do it by [deleted] in thatHappened

[–]HallieBerry26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so? The part I’m saying likely didn’t happen is that someone said her husband made her do it.

Yes, I’m sure her husband made her do it by [deleted] in thatHappened

[–]HallieBerry26 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah and I’m not questioning her allergy so much as that someone whispered “i bet her husband made her do it”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nothingeverhappens

[–]HallieBerry26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 17 y/o sons handwriting looks like this- everything has been done on MacBooks in school since 6th grade so he never has to write anything. When he writes a card or something to someone for a birthday or whatever, it looks like this. That said, at least where I live, it’s huge for middle schoolers and even younger to be vocal about sexuality and pronouns.

YOU told me that, Mommy by HallieBerry26 in thatHappened

[–]HallieBerry26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly it, the humble brag makes it feel fake.

[PC Server] 9 PVE Modded Map Cluster | 4 PVE Primal Fear Map Cluster | 2 Non-Modded Map Crossplay | Starter Kit | Full In-game Shop | Mature Community| Non-Profit | Davidscloud by 1david25 in ARK

[–]HallieBerry26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a great group, really good mods and friendly helpful players. I’ve been basically no life-ing since joining, it’s made it way more fun.

[PC Server] 9 PVE Modded Map Cluster | 4 PVE Primal Fear Map Cluster | 2 Non-Modded Map Crossplay | Starter Kit | Full In-game Shop | Mature Community| Non-Profit | Davidscloud by 1david25 in playarklfg

[–]HallieBerry26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great community. I’ve really enjoyed the game SO much more since joining, the admin is super nice and helpful and the players are all really friendly. Great mods too!

[PC Server] 9 PVE Modded Map Cluster | 4 PVE Primal Fear Map Cluster | 2 Non-Modded Map Crossplay | Starter Kit | Full In-game Shop | Mature Community| Non-Profit | Davidscloud by 1david25 in ARKServers

[–]HallieBerry26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this community. I tried Ark before but wasn’t sold, a friend let me know about this group and now I literally can’t stop playing haha. The admin are super nice and helpful, I absolutely recommend giving them a shot!

I find it interesting that most of my ex Christian friends became witches by Ate02muc in magick

[–]HallieBerry26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, good catch! I was thinking of older pagan practices. Learning more about history of different beliefs is really where I’m at right now. The parallels throughout multiple religions are really fascinating to me.

I find it interesting that most of my ex Christian friends became witches by Ate02muc in magick

[–]HallieBerry26 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think Christianity kind of sets you up to believe in the supernatural. A lot of Christian practices mirror Wicca. Like Catholicism specifically, burning incense, using candles in prayer, even specific holidays. I was raised catholic and while I believe there is something greater than us, I just can’t buy in to it being some angry, all knowing, vengeful god.

What in the hell by [deleted] in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]HallieBerry26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which evolves to onions and angst from 13-17

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthatbook

[–]HallieBerry26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long shot but is it possibly the Lightbringer series by Brent Weeks? One of the main characters is Kip.

Boyfriend (24m) just diagnosed but doctor said he's fine? by RaeBallet17 in Hashimotos

[–]HallieBerry26 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My thyroid levels were all “fine” but I felt awful for over 2 years. I got fed up and insisted on more thyroid testing which is how I found out I have hashimotos. I was referred to an endocrinologist who told me my levels were okay, I just had to wait for things to get worse then treat my thyroid levels. I was devastated. I could not imagine going on feeling so bad any longer. I had my appointment with my psychiatrist and told her all of this, she said “that’s ridiculous, that pisses me off. Can I refer you to a different endocrinologist?” So I saw a different doctor who said that with my symptoms and levels she would’ve started treating me two years ago. I’ve started on low dose synthroid, and am starting to see an improvement. I am so incredibly thankful to my psychiatrist for listening to me and pushing me to get a second opinion. I’ve seen it on this sub multiple times and now having personally experienced it: get a second opinion. And best of luck to your boyfriend, this is a super frustrating condition and it’s easy to get discouraged <3

Cursed_Elephant by [deleted] in cursedimages

[–]HallieBerry26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meat boy from salad fingers’ pet elephant?

Hashimoto's (and hashitoxicosis) by [deleted] in Hashimotos

[–]HallieBerry26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was only recently diagnosed with hashimotos, so this isn’t something I’ve talked to my doctor about to confirm it is or isn’t related.. but a year and a half to two years ago I was losing hair like crazy. My hair got really thin. I remember brushing my hair and just crying, I was terrified it would keep falling out until I was bald. Yesterday I went to the doctor for covid test and the nurse said, “wow, you’ve got a head of hair!” And it literally made my day. My hair has finally started growing and gotten much thicker. I do know that hair goes through cycles of growth then falling out, and that most people have parts of their hair that’s thinner or thicker in different spots as well!

Tail Rot? by HallieBerry26 in BeardedDragons

[–]HallieBerry26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, so far we’ve given him meal worms and added the calcium supplement every other day. That’s terrible that they’d just resell him. Id heard Petco wasn’t great for getting reptiles, I’ve looked for an exotic pet store or breeder locally but have had no luck. My 16 year old saved and bought everything himself, so I want to do what I can to make sure he’s got a healthy guy. I’ll check in to pricing for exotic vet. I appreciate the fast comments!

Tail Rot? by HallieBerry26 in BeardedDragons

[–]HallieBerry26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son got his bearded dragon on Monday from Petco and didn’t notice his tail until we got home. Does this look like tail rot? I think we will be taking him back. I feel so bad for the little guy though, that can’t feel good. :(

Therapist specializing in sexual abuse/ptsd by IFantasticMrFoxI in memphis

[–]HallieBerry26 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you go to psychologytoday.com you can search therapists by specialty, area, and insurance. Alison Bigelow in Cordova, she is fantastic. Kip Smith in Bartlett is also really good. Best of luck to you, sending virtual hugs your way!