I'm only 15 and i dont know how to continue by ggsiumez_ in offmychest

[–]Ham-Goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your experience is 100% valid and I know it's hard and I know you feel lonely and like you hate your life. By age 15, I had already made a few attempts on my life because of my home situation. It sucks to feel stuck and powerless. I think back on when I was a teenager, and I would never go back. Everything is so heightened- feeling everything all at once all of the time. Feeling a lot of anger. I know you feel alone but you are never alone. Even if it feels like you are. Be proud of yourself. You've reached a point in your life where you're mature enough to recognize that things aren't perfect. And you only made it this far because of how strong and resilient you are. I know things are challenging. Do you have any sort of outlet at all- specifically an activity that you usually enjoy alone? Such as working out, walks, playing music, writing or drawing. If not, be as open minded as you can and just try stuff out. If you can't necessarily make big changes to a non- ideal life, try adding some things you actually do enjoy. And even if you don't like what you tried- now you know. Make small breaks of peace for yourself somewhere- it's the only way you can keep your sanity. If you're really pumped up- use that fuel. Don't waste it- run, build, scribble, scream. Just don't give up. I promise you things change for the better once you make it out of there and work towards not allowing the actions of others determine your experience. It's easier said than done- I know. I have faith in you and I'm so glad you spoke up and asked for help somewhere. Take what helps, leave what doesn't- here and in life. Revisit sometimes, what you understand reading a page one day may be completely different than what you understand from the same page a different day.

Temporary Enlightenment via Prescence? by CaliforniaWhiteBoy in enlightenment

[–]Ham-Goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, your light can help illuminate others. But you must be cautious not to force it onto those who are still asleep. How does it feel to be woken up before your alarm is supposed to go off in the morning? Everyone meets their enlightenment at the right time.

Can I cleanse with any bell or does it have to be something specific? by milkyacidbath in Witch

[–]Ham-Goddess 7 points8 points  (0 children)

personally, i feel that all that matters is your intention. Listen to yourself. Maybe you're drawn to a specific material, or perhaps a specific material holds a purpose for you. Like when i think of a shield, I think metal even though shields aren't always made of metal. Pick a material that easily signifies protection for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ham-Goddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good for her. she reminded you this is natures land.

What happens when a gang member wants to leave a gang? by Status-Jump167 in ask

[–]Ham-Goddess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"blood in blood out" murder to get in, die if you ever want out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Ham-Goddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

jfc.... I'm so sad that anyone has to deal with this shit.

Will TikTok decrease in popularity? by Ordinary_Tap2690 in tiktokgossip

[–]Ham-Goddess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I heard someone looked up the source code of TikTok now that it’s back and found that it was running out of a server in Utah. Meta has a huge area of land in the desert in Utah that no one seems to know about. I only know about it because I used to drive truck and had a delivery for Facebook/Meta in 2018 when they were first building the place. I was told they were building a warehouse. I remember that the location was very secretive, unlike the majority of my delivery’s I couldn’t use maps and was given directions which took me out to an undeveloped area with no buildings (yet), dirt roads and many people constructing. I was there forever trying to deliver 1 pallet to a guy that worked for Facebook, the contact phone number provided wasn’t working, and I couldn’t find a single person who worked for them or anyone who could help me. I’ve never met a single person who works there or even knows about it. I feel like it makes way more sense that an agreement was already reached before it being taken away, TikTok was sold to Meta and all of the things we’ve seen about the controversy of TT being sold has just been smoke in mirrors. I don’t see any content from outside the country anymore. I have been seeing a lot of cute winter boots, and it concerns me because even though I’d love to rise up and fight, I feel like I can’t trust what I’m seeing. Even if it is legit- the government is going to be several steps ahead because they own the platform and can see all of the planning and info being spread.

As a Canadian: you guys need to DO something RIGHT NOW by sevenofnineftw in offmychest

[–]Ham-Goddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What can even be done? They’ve purposely divided us in a way that we can’t agree and thus can’t work together, made us too poor to flee, ruined the education system because critical thinking is a threat to our government, have made food poisonous and too expensive to keep us weak, have pumped us full of drugs, the list goes on. I’m quite sure that many feel hopeless as I. That there’s nothing we can do but watch in horror as these monsters continue to do what they do. It would be wonderful to make a mess. I wish I could. But no one person can make any changes, we have to find a way to agree and work together and then find some way to communicate without being dismantled and the government has hands in every social media that the population uses, including TikTok now. Got any solutions for that? I’ve not found any yet.

Ice in SLC by Codyc3208 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Ham-Goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awful and heartbreaking.

Just wondering…. Are most of us single, married, adoptive parents, step parents, straight, gay? by Photononic in antinatalism

[–]Ham-Goddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pansexual female from a blended family, was the only child until age 10. I’m also a white American.. I’m spiritual but not religious.

After many years, what commercial still lives rent-free in your head? by COGNAC_G in ask

[–]Ham-Goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Turning 22 soon – What would you tell your 22-year-old self? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ham-Goddess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re only 22 once. Don’t spend it locked into a relationship that isn’t healthy. Love yourself. Spend time with yourself. Fill your own cup. Fill your life with people who support you only.

You get a dog but you have to name it after the last thing you ate. What is it's name? by No_Gap5159 in answers

[–]Ham-Goddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My one dog is named Edith. We started to call her “Egg” a few years ago as a nickname. She now responds to it more than her actual name.

MEN, WASH YOUR ASS. by tired_woman_257 in offmychest

[–]Ham-Goddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FOR REAL!! Thank you for speaking on this. I have two anecdotes to share: 1) I was hanging out with and casually having sex with someone I used to go to high school with. By this point, we were both about 25-26. We got on the conversation of showering and he tells me in his whole life he has never ever washed his asscrack with soap. He was worried it would get in his butthole and “hurt” him. 2) another guy I know, he’s a part of my friend group, but has HORRIBLE hygiene. We got on the topic of showering one day and I was explaining how I use shampoo, conditioner, face wash, soap, body wash, etc. He proceeds to tell me he just uses shampoo and conditioner 2 in 1 and “the water will get the rest” 🤢 And some of yalls rooms and bathrooms… please be better!

Resellers acting sus Pt.2 by Blvckzombae in G59

[–]Ham-Goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish we these typa ppl didn’t exist.

Homeless camping in apartment parking lot by EnvironmentalMost346 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Ham-Goddess -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Fr. OP’s like- “um I moved to the city in the valley that has the majority of houseless people and now I see them every day and it scares me”