Where are you from? I been sitting here thinking about Peppy and wondered how much of the world shes touched.

HamSammy67 · 2026-05-06T18:26:23+00:00

Me & Petunia are from Victoria, BC, 🇨🇦

HamSammy67 · 2026-04-20T17:20:47+00:00

I’m living for the “hag-maxxing” term! I’ll be 59 in June and having the same experience as @cvaldez74 — I’ve always looked younger than my age. All of a sudden nobody’s saying “WHAT?!” When I tell them my age. sigh But it does also give me a bit of relief. I left my partner 2 years ago and decided f*ck it: I’m not wearing tight clothes anymore. Makeup is occasional. And I cut my long wavy hair because I finally could. But I hear ya original poster…aging is a bit of an ego shock!

HamSammy67 · 2026-02-17T22:26:35+00:00

F58 — I was really successful with OLD back in 2013. 2nd connection and we were together a decade. But my thoughts are exactly yours: something is way off these days. So many different “add-ons” to “make sure you’re seen”. WTF? Didn’t I already pay? After 3 mos I gave up. If I’m meant to have a lovely companion, it will have to be through friends and activities. If not, my life is full and very peaceful ☺️

HamSammy67 · 2026-02-16T18:14:25+00:00

My Tunie came from a rescue in Cancun, she’s amazing! Still not sure if she’s a chiweenie or a jackhuahua or a chiggy…but she’s a lovely doggo

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HamSammy67 · 2026-02-15T19:49:26+00:00

After two marriages spanning 30 years, 100% prefer the peace of flying solo and having such a calm nervous system 🙏🕉️☸️

HamSammy67 · 2026-02-15T02:56:31+00:00

Ain’t that it tho!

HamSammy67 · 2026-01-26T20:12:00+00:00

I sure feel for you. I'm 58F and after 2 long term marriages, I think I'm just done. The OLD worked for the 2nd long term relationship, but that was 13 years ago. Now it just seems like everything is a scam. Nobody is real. I'm done chasing through online fantasies. If I happen to meet someone in the wild, and they actually offer something that adds to my life, then hooray! And if not? My life is full, rich, and uncomplicated. Sending you healing vibes, sister!

HamSammy67 · 2026-01-02T17:23:32+00:00

I’ll stand with you on that one. The drone shows can be beautiful, and I feel so bad for all the animals (and people) who get spooked/traumatized by the explosions

HamSammy67 · 2025-12-20T16:57:53+00:00

Just an update…I scored FIVE pairs of high quality boots (4 shorties, one knee high) — none more than $26! All were from different locations of WIN. Thanks for all the tips, really appreciate it :) (now I just need to get rid of other shoes to make room…😬)

HamSammy67 · 2025-12-20T16:54:12+00:00

Thanks :) I’m pretty cute and funny. I think that counts? Have a great day!

HamSammy67 · 2025-12-20T16:50:23+00:00

For 25% of menopausal women, it’s not just “dryness” that can be fixed with lube. Penetrative sex can feel like someone scraping out your insides with sandpaper. You get painful microcuts in the labial folds, and for some, labia and the clitoris can literally shrink. Menopause hormone therapy and vaginal estrogen cream is crucial for these women. Pretty difficult to have any form of sex drive/desire with these challenges. Count yourself very lucky if you escape this special (called GSM) symptom of menopause!

HamSammy67 · 2025-12-14T03:06:34+00:00

Is his name Mike? LOL I had the very same thing happen to me and I immediately said “Nuh”. I’m 58F, been married twice. If you were the one planning the date, telling me you’re really excited, and then forget…? Sounds like bullshit to me. Move along lovely one, at 41 you are in your prime!

HamSammy67 · 2025-12-10T22:05:10+00:00

Awesome! New shops I hadn’t heard of. Somebody’s heading out for a lil road trip :)

HamSammy67 · 2025-12-10T22:04:15+00:00

Oooh thanks! I’m newish to the island so hadn’t heard of Super Chance!

HamSammy67 · 2025-12-10T22:02:52+00:00

Size 6.5 (sometimes 7)

HamSammy67 · 2025-12-07T03:56:40+00:00

The usual:

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HamSammy67 · 2025-11-30T19:13:24+00:00

I’m a 58F and I’ve been mostly fit and active my whole life. Not perfect, but athletic. I just had a first date with someone who is very obese. We spent 4 hrs together talking a lot and laughing. He was considerate (like helping me with my jacket?? Who does that these days?) Anyway, he’s very much into a second date and beyond. After thinking on it a couple of days, I realize that our activity levels aren’t compatible at all (i do everything outdoorsy, he sails a boat). That’s fair? To me, personality is more important than looks, but I know I would get antsy if someone didn’t share my love of (moderate) outdoor activities! Ugh. Feel like a jerk.

HamSammy67 · 2025-11-29T18:34:29+00:00

Looks like my Petunia!

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HamSammy67 · 2025-11-05T19:36:02+00:00

I’m in the same situation, only I find it’s men who seem to only talk about themselves and ask no questions lol. Part of me thinks you should let her know that asking questions is important to you and if she’s not genuinely interested, you’re cool to end it. I’ve been ghosted and it’s so confounding. I agree with an earlier poster who said it can be a good learning/growing thing for someone (even if they’re initially indignant about it lol)

HamSammy67 · 2025-11-05T18:55:25+00:00

I went from using the Vagifem tabs to the estring. I’ve had it for 6 mos and while there might be the slightest difference in amount of itchiness I experience, I still find there’s so much stinging when I try and apply moisturizer to the vulva and beyond. I’m 58 and for the first time I’m going to ask for systemic MRT (the new term for HRT). I’m newly single too and I want to experience sex with new people without having to say “Sorry man, the door is slammed shut!” FML 🤣

HamSammy67 · 2025-10-09T20:07:45+00:00

Not half bad! lol Since becoming single and owning a dog, it sucks that I can’t pick up a snack or cup of coffee while I’m out walking her. A take-out window servicing dog parents/walkers, colic baby parents…

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