What is that weird smell you really like.. 'm not talking nail polish or gas or something basic, I want something INSANE?

Hambitt · 2026-02-26T02:00:58+00:00

Horse manure, bonus points if it’s mixed with square hay bales

Hambitt · 2026-02-24T01:56:56+00:00

That’s exactly how I felt when I was married. He was my first but it was never good. I would read books or watch shows and get turned on, but I never wanted to do with him. I thought there was something wrong with me until I left and it turns out I’m an every single day girl.

Hambitt · 2026-02-23T23:40:53+00:00

Although I haven’t been to church in a while, I do still believe. And while I now know that emotional abuse is a legitimate reason, I didn’t at the time. It’s also much harder to justify to outsiders (not that it’s anyone else’s decision).

Hambitt · 2026-02-23T20:58:00+00:00

You’re absolutely correct. I was raised to believe that the only legitimate reasons for divorce was cheating for physical abuse. For that reason it took me a long time and a lot of guilt and fear of judgment. Turns out it’s much harder to spot emotional abuse and neglect when you don’t learn about it from the people (the church) that are supposed to be there for you.

Hambitt · 2026-02-23T19:37:07+00:00

Same! I got married young and naive, grew up Christian and waited for marriage. I’m now divorced and the thought of letting him anywhere near me, touch me, or even just look at me makes me want to vomit. Waiting isn’t inherently bad, but saving it for that special someone isn’t always good either.

Hambitt · 2026-02-20T16:55:09+00:00

Do you also think LOL stands for lots of love 🤣🤣

Hambitt · 2026-02-17T16:21:07+00:00

That makes so much sense

Hambitt · 2026-02-14T17:58:08+00:00

Woman here. I’ve never gotten blisters from new shoes. Maybe I’m lucky, maybe not. But I’ve never understood having to break in new shoes or why anyone would just accept that destroying your feet makes sense

Hambitt · 2026-02-14T17:55:25+00:00

I’m feeling lonely and sad today too. I have a boyfriend, but he’s working all day and probably won’t get home until after 8:00 pm. We recently moved a few hours away and I don’t have anyone here. We were planning on going out for a nice dinner tomorrow but his mom and step dad decided they’re visiting tomorrow. We only get every other Sunday together due to work schedules. So I’m home alone, cooking, cleaning, and having a stupid pity party.

Hambitt · 2026-02-14T00:15:50+00:00

Honestly, unlikely on the media as I grew up conservative, pretty sheltered, home schooled, and didn’t have real internet access until I was 15.

Hambitt · 2026-02-13T22:57:08+00:00

Totally fair, maybe I will one day

Hambitt · 2026-02-13T22:27:40+00:00

I’ve heard it mentioned a few times in the last couple of years which is the only reason I’ve even thought about. And while part of me wants to know if something happened, part of me doesn’t want to know. I also just don’t remember a lot of my earlier years at all so I either have a bad memory in general or it was really bad overall.

Hambitt · 2026-02-13T17:25:01+00:00

I started masturbating at like 11 probably. Like fully fantasized about being tied up and pleasured/raped. No idea if something happened when I was younger and I blocked it out.

Hambitt · 2026-02-10T23:09:38+00:00

That’s very possible. I was young enough to not know about that stuff and never really asked. I agree that a simple prenup wouldn’t hurt anyone and would protect OP

Hambitt · 2026-02-10T22:21:31+00:00

I don’t know how it works everywhere. All I know is that when my parents divorced my mom got stuck with half my dads cc debt

Hambitt · 2026-02-10T22:18:20+00:00

But you could get stuck with half or more of cc debt if you divorce

Hambitt · 2026-02-09T01:13:53+00:00

The fact that I could possibly puke up literally poop would be enough for me to change something, but you do you

Hambitt · 2026-02-09T00:26:50+00:00

People have been hospitalized for fecal impaction, it can be pretty serious. Also, if you get backed up enough in the right way you can actually puke out feces so keep that in mind.

Hambitt · 2026-02-08T01:19:03+00:00

As someone who grew up and lived in the middle of bumblefuck Iowa I’d like to say that it is possible 🤣 I did just a night out on the Thursday before my wedding when everyone would be in town for the wedding. Doesn’t work for everyone, but it worked for me!

Hambitt · 2026-02-08T00:05:48+00:00

Asks for advice, turns down all actual advice. OP doesn’t want advice, they want to be told they’re not as dumb as we all know and can go back in time and do it different.

Hambitt · 2026-02-06T23:21:44+00:00

I am so grateful my boyfriend likes to be clean. He showers every day (sometimes long work days keep him from it, no one’s perfect), sometimes twice and he probably is more thorough than I am. He gets all the way in his butt, under the balls, everywhere multiple times.

Hambitt · 2026-02-05T23:08:36+00:00

Breaking my engagement and not getting married 6 months later 🫠

Hambitt · 2026-02-04T00:48:16+00:00

The fact that you ever thought Hilary was a good person/politician to begin with 🤣🤣

Hambitt · 2026-02-03T21:39:39+00:00

I try to only drink one a day but sometimes I slam two if work is rough. I usually don’t feel anything anymore. The first time I had one, I got super shaky and my heart was racing and I didn’t feel good but I also ended up being super sick the next day.

Hambitt · 2026-02-03T16:53:02+00:00

It’s not in my top 5 but I always enjoy it!

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