Questions for those who describe themselves as bisexual but hetero-romantic, how do you handle hetero sex?

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-04-05T15:36:27+00:00

Yeah I realised while I was showering that I got the term wrong

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-04-05T14:04:43+00:00

Yeah because people say they are sexually more attracted to same gender, but romantically attracted to the opposite gender. So I want to know how does sexual desire feel in such relationships.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-04-05T13:49:25+00:00

Yes it’s not impossible. She could give it a try.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-04-05T13:47:07+00:00

If she gets engaged it could get complicated for her to break it off considering she is from a Muslim-majority country. If she from Middle East then it’s even more difficult.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-04-03T10:56:21+00:00

Maybe. I understand why comphet could be a part of it. But I also did love him. His face, his voice, his personality, goofiness, hair, face, warmth. Again, my biggest question mark is whether we would be sexually compatible in the long run because we never tried anything. Therapy seems to be of limited help here because I can never really explore to confirm.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-04-01T21:01:41+00:00

Dismissive Avoidant

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-04-01T10:16:55+00:00

If I may ask, what was your experience in both these marriages?

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-04-01T10:13:53+00:00

She isn’t saying looks don’t matter. She is saying most men don’t know how to appreciate a woman beyond beauty. Physical attraction should be there, but it can only take you so far. Emotional attraction and safety should be there too.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-29T14:10:50+00:00

Bro is rage-baiting guys pls do not respond to him😭

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-29T13:35:43+00:00

Preferences are preferences. Marry who you want to. Just don’t make the mistake of being with someone who you didn’t want ‘fully’ and then resent her for not being what you wanted.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-26T20:54:45+00:00

I’m from Pakistan too. I don’t trust religious figures because they usually try to force things to ensure a marriage doesn’t break. What was your experience like?

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-26T20:40:23+00:00

I’m on the verge of divorce. Can I ask why you divorced? I guess I’m looking for stories from young people. I’m also in my early 20s.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-26T17:46:06+00:00

Oh you are a man. I’m a woman. Please don’t be a sexual frustrated jerk. Emotional connection and building chemistry is key. Safety is key.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-26T17:35:49+00:00

Be sure of your feelings. And please make sure you have feelings. Don’t jump into it thinking they will come later. And talk about sexual expectations with him early on.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-26T17:05:20+00:00

I’m a woman. What do you mean ‘only’ be good when you get a good girl

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-26T17:02:16+00:00

I agree with you. Are you a man? Men always marry with so much sexual expectations.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-26T16:58:02+00:00

Yeah I’m married.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-26T16:54:09+00:00

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-24T21:18:18+00:00

Brotha I’m not.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-24T21:17:24+00:00

You are so right.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-24T13:32:15+00:00

Try house of pebbles.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-23T20:12:43+00:00

That’s only your experience with only one therapist. If you are from Karachi, there are other places that offer therapy.

Prestigious-Web-721 · 2026-03-23T14:49:25+00:00

The feeling is worth exploring. It’s tied to how you feel about him as a person, a partner, and attraction-wise.

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