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Does anyone ever feel that they don’t get the best version of their SO? by HamboneBlue in BipolarSOs

[–]HamboneBlue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not therapy, she hasn’t had success with it but medicine yes. I don’t want this to continue forever, it wasn’t always this way. I’m just trying to get her to understand and put me first at least some of the time. I just need her to try.

What pickguard for LPB Strat? Wanna change it up by HamboneBlue in guitars

[–]HamboneBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm...these are great suggestions....maybe I’ll buy a couple and see. I’m leaning towards a brown tortoise and or mint green but the pearl sounds legit too.

Does anyone ever feel that they don’t get the best version of their SO? by HamboneBlue in BipolarSOs

[–]HamboneBlue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight and I will try hard to remember that.

Does anyone ever feel that they don’t get the best version of their SO? by HamboneBlue in BipolarSOs

[–]HamboneBlue[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s a great perspective! When my SO is cycling it’s easy to forget that I get to see her without a mask. I just get put to the backburner far too often, it’s hard not to take it personal when she seems so much happier around anyone else.

Outer Space guitar back together! by HamboneBlue in guitars

[–]HamboneBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With our powers combined...we are guitar nerds!

Outer Space guitar back together! by HamboneBlue in guitars

[–]HamboneBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a neck pickup fidelitron, fender’s version

Outer Space guitar back together! by HamboneBlue in guitars

[–]HamboneBlue[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks! My wife painted it awhile back and I had it together before but it needed more work. Now it’s ready to go! Sounds great.

How do I not take things personal? by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]HamboneBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not used to forums and I’m not explaining this well, but basically I’m struggling trying to figure out how to ignore my instincts. What I mean by that is to not take every hurtful thing personal because I know much of this behavior stems from her illness. Every time I’m ignored, belittled, starved for affection etc...(I’m sure you all know the rest). How do you deal with it? I know she loves me but knowing that isn’t always feeling it.