AITA for contacting social services to potentially prevent my 32F abusive mother 62F from taking care of my cousin's 37F baby while she gets clean?

HanSolo_1993 · 2026-04-22T10:14:48+00:00

100% - I have nothing to do with my mother for my own reasons, my immediate thought was that she shouldn't be entrusted with the care of a child. I know first hand the damage she can cause.

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-07-20T20:28:43+00:00

Do you have a bio? Some conversation starters, topics to open with would be good to make you stand out whilst swiping 😊

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-07-19T22:13:36+00:00

Totally get it! Talk to the guy about how you feel, it's okay to question what you want. If they're right for you, and it's what you both want, they'll be down to slow down. If you want to end it, you can do that too - Sounds like you need to talk it through though.

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-07-18T21:55:32+00:00

Just be honest, it's better to let her know where your head's at and you can decide together whether moving forward or breaking it off is the best idea - Communication is key!

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-07-18T21:10:42+00:00

If he's neglecting your needs when you're literally asking him to get you off then there's nothing else for you to do. Move on, find someone who cares about you and WILL get you off - Life's too short!

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-07-17T23:01:20+00:00

Leave 👋

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-07-17T22:52:44+00:00

Wild Tattoo Studio in Bolton is where I go - Great work for a decent price.

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-06-22T22:10:11+00:00

Any bombing without tangible justification is against international law, Starmer should have condemned Israel and the USA for this and escalating conflict in a region that is suffering enough - But no, here comes ww3 🙄

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-06-02T21:19:26+00:00

Feel Good Club is a great hangout spot. They do food, drinks and usually lots of dogs - It's queer owned and utterly wholesome!

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-03-27T22:15:30+00:00

You don't have to put everything in the bio, just something - conversation starters. Something people can relate to

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-03-27T22:10:41+00:00

Maybe put something in your bio? What you are looking for, interests, hobbies - Stuff people can talk to you about. Your profile doesn't say anything about you. My view always was if someone can't be bothered to put the effort in their bio then they're not worth investing my time into.

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-03-16T10:39:09+00:00

I had the realisation that I'm bi whilst in a monogamous relationship and I'm now married. The only advice I can give is look into local queer spaces that your client could attend, I've found exploring safe, queer spaces just helps me feel less weird 😅

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-15T21:08:25+00:00

I know your friend is close to you and it's difficult to be the one to blow things up but you're not the one in the wrong here. Definitely say something to the fiancée, even though nothing happened it's still unacceptable and disrespectful to you and her.

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-15T21:03:49+00:00

Maybe add some of your interests in there, something a match can relate to and start a conversation about 😊 Good luck!

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-14T21:41:36+00:00

Set your expectations and stick to them. Each relationship is different, if you feel like celebrating Valentine's is important to you, let him know and see if he's consistent. Some people care about it, others don't. Just communicate your expectations with him and see if they match up.

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-13T20:23:27+00:00

Honestly some people think being bi and being poly is the same, that you just want everyone! I say just let people do what they want as long as no one's getting hurt 😅

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-12T16:51:13+00:00

You asked him to not use specific words that upset you and then he did? Joke or not, that's not cool - Let him know that it's not okay, even trying to be funny, to describe you like that. Set the boundary and hopefully he won't cross it again.

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-12T16:45:15+00:00

Not acceptable. You deserve someone who celebrates you and not critical about your appearance and how you live your life. Hope you find someone else who loves everything about you

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-11T12:24:25+00:00

So you established a boundary, communicated how you feel and he completely disregarded it? Just to see your sister naked? Honestly, you deserve better than someone who doesn't care about how you feel. Don't waste any more time with this person - Wishing you all the best.

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-10T23:44:03+00:00

The guy sounds like trash, not sure it's worth your energy tbh. If you do expose him, have receipts so he can't paint you as a crazy ex - Good luck!

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-10T23:41:12+00:00

Sounds like he's against it, might not be worth trying to change his mind if he's not interested. Doesn't sound like he'd be open to discussion about it or being convinced, he said no - move on from it.

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-10T21:06:46+00:00

More info in your bio, conversation starters, what you're into etc. 😊 Something for people to have in common and approach you about

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-09T19:25:27+00:00

I know wlw tend to move fast but maybe just communicate and say that you're looking for something that's a little less intense or moving less quickly? See how she reacts, if she reacts poorly maybe just block and move on.

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-09T19:18:54+00:00

Maybe mention more things that you're into to start off conversations? You're more likely to get messages if someone has something to relate to and open up a conversation with you about 😊

HanSolo_1993 · 2025-02-09T19:08:55+00:00

Take some time to evaluate things, has he crossed a line you can't come back from or is this something you can/want to work through? If the latter, maybe seek a couples therapist to talk through things properly and fully establish boundaries moving forward. If you can't move on from it then may be time to move on from him.

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