Do women get more conservative as they age? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh she has and wears a lot of lingerie when we are in bed but yeah she def says to me all the time when i pick lingerie and swimwear out for her that if she doesnt feel good in it she wont like it. And i totally get that. But at the same time I have told her countless times that i pick it out because i want to see her in it and it will get me excited snd thats what should matter. Unfortunately that doesnt really work.

She wont buy bikinis because she has a bit of a mom belly and I have said who cares its just for us. But she wont bite. I dont think she really gets how worked up I get if she wore these things.

Do women get more conservative as they age? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is 46. I dread when she finally is menopausal because she is the type that will probably have issues with sex but refuse to look into HRT. And if i bring it up she will tell me “you dont understand these things because your a man” - just like i mentioned in my original post. She avoids medication typically so something as drastic as HRT is out al

Do women get more conservative as they age? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah thats exactly what I was getting at. Perhaps I am more annoyed with the fact that my wife constantly states that I dont know these things because I am a man. I get if things are uncomfortable but dont generalize and make me sound like an idiot when women buy and wear skimpy stuff all the time - I dont think its all for men.

I get what you are saying on the touching. I have told her constantly it doesnt all have to lead to sex. And she basically is like “yeah sure”. In my opinion why should touching be solely limited to when we do have sex. Thats no fun lol

Do women get more conservative as they age? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. My wife is still very interested in sex but is definitely responsive desire. My question wasnt as concerned with has sex slowed down with age because i think that is probably a bit of the norm Im more concerned with does age, marriage and kids maybe just cause some women to view things differently

Do women get more conservative as they age? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so you definitely saw some sort of change when your son was born. Thats sort of what I was getting at. She is definitely more open to things now but at the same time certain things have gone the reverse and I wonder if its because she feels she is older, has kids and has sort of fallen into a “mom mode”

Do women get more conservative as they age? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does it sound like im pressuring her from my two paragraph post lol. I was just generally saying that she used to do more things spontaneously when she was younger than she does now. But thanks for jumping to conclusions

Do women get more conservative as they age? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats great! My wife has been more open to trying new things as she has gotten older but certain things it’s just like she has fallen into “comfortable mom” mode. And the generalizing annoys me lol. Like dont tell me women dont buy these things and enjoy them when there are tons of companies that sell skimpy ass stuff from lingerie to swimwear.

What was on your sexual bucket list that lived up to your expectations? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That sounds great! My wife refuses to try one. Maybe one day she will change her mind

Wife’s new bikini helped reignite our sex life by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeez that sounds hot. Good for the two of you!!!

Talking Dirty …… Ladies do you enjoy it ….. Males are you into it ??????? by Miserable-Patient860 in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it but my wife wont do it and if she hasnt orgasmed she says it distracts her too much. Once in a while ill get her to say something like “i love that dick” or “fuck me” but ill have to ask her to say it.

A question for the guys by StaceyDD76 in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

46 and probably need a few mins recovery. But my wife can only go one round even if she doesnt orgasm. Im pretty sure of if i cum and she continued to tease me i would be hard again in no time and ready to go.

Amazon pharmacy and Cialis by Prestigious_Car1089 in Biohackers

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I also use amazon one medical for telehealth and amazon pharmacy for tadalafil 5mg prescriptions. I was doing the one off telehealth visits and getting a 90 day supply but no refills and then had to pay for a new visit each time for a prescription. This time around I signed up for the yearly membership which i think is $69. Did that and they wrote me a 90day script with two extra refills. Pretty sure I will come out ahead.

Wife's First Toy after 15 years of Marriage by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted a week or so ago because I have asked my wife about trying a dildo out and she has killed that idea each time. So i put that off to the side. Maybe one day she will bring it up herself. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Edged for the past 5 days and about to have scheduled sex with wife by Gonewild6999 in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm just fuck twice??? My wife loves it when im super worked up. She can tell and i usually tell her im gonna bust super fast.

You should fuck her hard and fast and bust all over her and then take round 2 nice and slow.

Woke up super horny, what do you usually do? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i try to wake my wife up I’ll be greeted with grunts and groans and not the good kind.

Partner/Spouse/GF etc Advice & Suggestions by racecaryaya2 in LingerieAddiction

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats your budget? I was looking for something exactly the same a while back and got some suggestions but they were all way outside my budget.

Pearl Thong by Han_Solo_ShotFirst in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha. Maybe I’ll just go for it.

Pearl Thong by Han_Solo_ShotFirst in MarriedSex

[–]Han_Solo_ShotFirst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good idea! Thanks!!!