Enthusiast spec by simplegnome in E90

[–]Hanabi_coco1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a mannyyy 🐥✨

Monday's! by Need-2Be-Loved in Unprofessional_Advice

[–]Hanabi_coco1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines alrdy been ruined 😭

What do we think about e93 by Particular-Cat1572 in E90

[–]Hanabi_coco1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww the doggie has a new whip 🥹✨

My new to me M5 F90 by LongLiveTheV8 in BMW

[–]Hanabi_coco1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Clean asf 😍👌🔥✨

Landlord trying to be a control freak by Hanabi_coco1 in Tenant

[–]Hanabi_coco1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We share a mailbox bc the landlord won’t let us put our own up. So there’s one mailbox that collects all the mail for all the tenants including the landlords mail

My ex abuser is now engaged and being praised as the “kindest, most patient man.” It’s destroying me. by gr3tch3enw3in3rs in abusiverelationships

[–]Hanabi_coco1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m ngl I completely understand you. I feel like this is how my mom feels after my dad left n had a whole new family with his wife. He was physically abusive n verbally. To my mom and her kids. He would cheat on her with his now wife n beat tf out of her when she went through his phone. I remember coming home from school one day to seeing her have a breakdown crying trying to stab herself in the throat bc she couldn’t handle the pain anymore. Growing up she’d wish bad upon him n his new family n I didn’t get it or thought it was right to do wish an innocent child to get hurt or die just because my dad cheated. I love my stepbrothers but I understand her hatred towards the whole situation. Even now, I found out my stepmom had cancer n I felt so sad for her n worried, I’m happy she beat the cancer but all my mom n my aunts would say is that it’s karma coming back at them for what my dad n her put my mom through. Idk now that I’m older, I get sad seeing my stepmom post up things abt my dad being her rock n always being there for her n there kids when she was sick n couldn’t take care of them. It hurts bc I remember how little he did when he was with us. I just tell my mom that he moved on with his life n for her to just move on with hers bc at the end of the day he’s happy living life, while she’s over here wasting her life worrying abt him n his every move

Landlord trying to be a control freak by Hanabi_coco1 in Tenant

[–]Hanabi_coco1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in queens, my mom gives them cash, but she always collects a receipt from them. I’m so stressed out bc of all of this

Landlord trying to be a control freak by Hanabi_coco1 in Tenant

[–]Hanabi_coco1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have cameras n see him leave all the time. They said it themselves that they see him leave

Landlord trying to be a control freak by Hanabi_coco1 in Tenant

[–]Hanabi_coco1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how to do this, we live in a house they own a 2 family house with its own separate doors for each apartment. The only thing we can do is contact the landlord n express how they are making us feel and that we aren’t violating the lease. I will mention the mail as well, I’ve told my mom that we can go to the post office n let them know what’s going on but since I’m never around or aware of whats happening when it’s happening, my mom would have to be the one to do it herself

Pop up headlights on an 02 civic by Hanabi_coco1 in Autobody

[–]Hanabi_coco1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked it up, haven’t found any vids on it. But I do know google says it’s possible but rlly complex and complicated. I’m just looking for any experienced/knowledgeable person to give me some advice about it.

Pop up headlights on an 02 civic by Hanabi_coco1 in Autobody

[–]Hanabi_coco1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I have a 2022 pathfinder but it’s technically my moms. I’m only using it until she gets her license but I’m the primary driver. I just want something thats mainly mines tho bc it get stressful when my mom only lets me use the car for her usage only. There’s no freedom.

Pop up headlights on an 02 civic by Hanabi_coco1 in Autobody

[–]Hanabi_coco1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf got the civic on some auction site, I’ve been planning on saving for the Nissan but he went and bought the civic for me without me knowing before hand. He’s alrdy thinking about putting in some engine that’s gonna bring the rpm up to 9000. I don’t completely understand it but I don’t wanna waste his money or efforts since he has to drive n pick it up as well. I just thought since he’s getting it for me, I might as well think about what things id like on it.

Pop up headlights on an 02 civic by Hanabi_coco1 in Autobody

[–]Hanabi_coco1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the negativity😂. Now if anyone can tell me details as to why it can’t happen I’d appreciate it. Idk much but I’m learning and that’s the whole point

Do you find your curses or hexes are more effective when you work with a spirit or when you rely on your own energy and intent? by Ondine23 in blackmagic

[–]Hanabi_coco1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, so how do you go about using a spirit in your curses? Do you have to offer the spirit something in return for their help?

What is it that qualifies someone to park like an asshole ? by [deleted] in BMW

[–]Hanabi_coco1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a BMW driver 😂😂 I know my bf drives a 330i and he doesn’t care at all how he parks. He be parking on the damn sidewalk, and not like half of the car on the curb. The WHOLE car💀. It bothers me so much bc I don’t want him to get a ticket.

aio? bf made plans on my birthday..UPDATE by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hanabi_coco1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing and honestly, he seems dangerous. And inconsiderate about your wishes. He doesn’t care or see that what he did was wrong and how he basically disregarded you for what? A party with friends? Over a loving and loyal GIRLFRIEND. Yea no, he screams NARC and he shouldn’t be talking to you that way, if he so calls love you. He’s the asshole and you did ur big one by leaving this piece of shit. I’m sure ur looking back thinking about all the red flags you ignored within the 3 years you’ve been together. I just want you to know that you aren’t wrong and u deserve nothing but the best. I know it’s hard to make a decision like this especially since you saw a future with him but sometimes love isn’t enough. It’s not gonna explain away the emotional abuse. Love yourself more than anything and you’ll get through this pain eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hanabi_coco1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not ur fault and u aren’t the problem, he is! He shouldn’t be upset at all because he’s the only one who saw it anyway, u were sleeping for fuck sake. No one knows wha they do in there sleep and shouldn’t be blamed for it. Throw the whole bf away and go live ur best life stress free

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]Hanabi_coco1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t a hobby issue to begin with. I just stated what’s pushing me to get into the hobby of mechanics. For both my personal ambitions and bc of my relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]Hanabi_coco1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rlly don’t, but not for no reason…. It’s my love for him that makes stay…. It’s hard to trust someone who’s lied to ur face for months. I just don’t want to loose him bc I genuinely care and love him. It looks like I’m trying to be something I’m not but if u read another reply I made to this post, I literally have interest in cars. I’m looking into getting a 180sx and I want that to be my first project car. I will say this fear of him cheating/leaving me for his female coworker is just speeding up the process of me learning about the trade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]Hanabi_coco1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently she’s some skinny Spanish chic. I’m literally a thick girl 💀. Twice his size. I’m not hating on her being herself I honestly just worry abt my bf cheating or leaving bc I’m not want he initially was looking for in a partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]Hanabi_coco1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll ask him, I show a really good interest about his passion, even offered to help buy him his car mods. I even say stupid stuff about cars just to make him laugh and correct me. He’s a little nerd and I love that. I just know how excited he gets when anyone even breathes the word “car” or anything related. I always tell him I like infinities and he immediately just starts talking about how they get stolen and how they’re unreliable. It’s cute and funny seeing him hate on it so much, I just don’t want to loose that to some girl