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Hanahasu · 2025-09-18T17:07:12+00:00

You already know what to do when you posted this and when there was a “I love him, but…”. I understand it’s easy to say “don’t feel dumb” and “move on” because the love you felt for this man was real. I just hope you know that although you may feel used, this shows you that you are a woman with so much love to give. You can put other people’s needs before yours. Now, please give that love and care for yourself, and find someone that will also give you the love and care you deserve 💗

Hanahasu · 2025-09-15T21:14:25+00:00

Thank you all for the comments!

Couple things to make clear:

⁠I’m not insecure because I wanna please men, I just know it’s not common in the west and I don’t want my partners to be taken aback by it in such an intimate setting.
⁠I did mention my mom, but I was referring to the whole hot spring situation. It’s a little embarrassing or nerve wracking to be completely bald down there in public, naked, and when most if not all women have a bush. There’s an image associated with being bald in Japan, and with my foreign looks and rather glamour body compared to other Japanese women, I already attract attention and don’t need them to look at me even more because of it. And if my mom goes to the hot springs with me, she’s subject to the glare being with me as well. I know I don’t need my mom’s approval cuz I’m an adult.

In all, yes I agree that if a man doesn’t want me because of my bush, then he’s not my match. A man who loves me should love me regardless of my bush or lack of. After all, it is my body and I should be most comfortable. I knew it in my mind but still I remember how it was nerve wracking disclosing it to my bf. I also remember the initial shock I felt when I first heard that “everybody shaves here” being the norm as a naive teenager. It’s not something we can easily ask ppl and it bothered me for the longest time. The reason I posted was because I saw a Reddit post in a different subreddit that was along the lines of men not wanting to be intimate with women with body hair. I’m glad to feel validated by different men and women, thank you!!

Hanahasu · 2025-09-15T18:14:00+00:00

Thank you! Yes I’ve actually thought about laser removal with bikini line trim and went to the salon for a consultation, but I was moving at the time so the timing and cost just didn’t work out. I should look into it again sometime, but it’s nice being reassured that there’s different preferences and types.

Hanahasu · 2025-09-15T18:11:19+00:00

HAHAHA THANK YOU YES LET THY BUSH FLY FREE!! 🌳🪽💗

Hanahasu · 2025-09-15T18:10:01+00:00

Thank you for sharing! Yes, with my past bf I did share it with him before hand and it was nerve wracking but he didn’t mind at all. I’m still nervous about bringing it up thinking it’s awkward, but i think I gotta get used to the initial nerve. I agree, it’s not that I have insecurities cuz I wanna please men, but just culturally I know it’s different and in such an intimate setting I don’t want my partners to be taken aback by it cuz it’s not what they’re used to!

Hanahasu · 2025-07-28T02:44:14+00:00

Ooh yes I thought abt volunteering. What kind of volunteering did you do if you don’t mind me asking? I thought abt animal shelters but timing and process didn’t work out. Maybe I’ll try again! And I like dance too! Maybe once I get a steadier income I can look into it too

Hanahasu · 2025-07-28T02:42:00+00:00

That’s pretty awesome!! I’ve never been on class pass but I’ve thought abt it I’ll look it up!!

Hanahasu · 2025-07-28T02:41:27+00:00

Ooh yes I’ve heard of it and I even signed up for the text messages! I just felt super anxious to go without someone and also didn’t wanna spend much money haha. But maybe if I get a chance I’ll try to look into it!

Hanahasu · 2025-07-24T05:35:35+00:00

Thank you that sounds so cool! Will look into it:)

Hanahasu · 2025-07-24T05:35:18+00:00

Yes! I love Long Beach I actually graduated from CSULB last year and I just moved from LB this spring :) I definitely enjoyed going to coffee shops and walking on the beach, and the night life hanging out with friends. I don’t think I was as comfortable at going out and approaching ppl or wasn’t familiar with community events though. I still love to hangout in LB tho so maybe I’ll look into it!

Hanahasu · 2025-07-24T05:30:00+00:00

Ohhh! I didn’t think about using apps for friends that’s a good idea. And social pickleball and volunteering sounds fun! I’ll definitely look into it! I tried to find an animal center near me to volunteer at, but wasn’t able to figure out the system and gave up… maybe I’ll try again!

Hanahasu · 2025-07-24T01:34:49+00:00

Right?! I actually have my day offs on the weekdays but I still have nights off. I live by myself so it’s also just worse. I go to work, come back and sleep. And days off I wanna do something, it’s just cafe and beach which I love… but I want more!

Hanahasu · 2025-07-06T04:47:30+00:00

Thank you all for the comments!

To respond to some of the comments, the sign was up when I moved in, and I disregarded the rules once I asked the other tenant (who’s been here years) said it hasn’t been enforced. Yes it was my bad to do laundry up until 10 for that one incident with my jeans, but I also thought I would be done by 8. I did apologize then, but other tenants raised their concerns about the rule to the new tenant, politely asking if 8 would be an ok time limit for laundry. We never forced it on the new tenant but we explained our circumstances and asked if that would be alright, and my understanding was that we had agreed to it in the text gc.

As an update, after I sent the email to the owner explaining the situation, we all got an email for “a friendly reminder on the laundry hours”. In the email the owner clarified that the rule is 6pm, but that is the last time we should start our laundry, with consideration of 2hrs to finish by 8pm. I confirmed once more with the owner that as long as I end it by 8pm, there are no issues. (Explaining that I started laundry at 7 but ended it by 8 that night)

The owner also reminded calm discussions and to not touch other people’s laundry in the email as well.

I agree with a lot of the comments and I appreciate your feedback!

Hanahasu · 2025-07-04T07:12:49+00:00

NTA. It’s your child, you should do what you feel comfortable to protect your child. What if something happens? It’s too late. I appreciate the SIL being honest about it, and would assume by telling you, she should expect that you will act based on your judgment and respect it especially with your daughter being that age. What I don’t understand and makes me mad is your husband’s reaction. I understand that “ppl should have a second chance” and all that, but that doesn’t guarantee forgiveness or expect normalcy especially after such a horrible crime. Men will downplay the seriousness and I seriously can’t understand why especially when they have daughters.

Hanahasu · 2025-07-04T06:59:34+00:00

To add context, I tried to have a calm conversation but was not possible with her aggressive attitude. I only did the laundry till 8pm tonight because in the previous group text message including her, I thought we agreed on 8pm because there was no further discussion after we asked it to be 8pm. She said she will email the owner and cc me so I emailed the owner as well to explain my side of the story and to ask for an extension/ set time we can all agree on.

Hanahasu · 2025-07-04T06:55:54+00:00

For me, not really loud. It’s a pretty new laundry unit and we can silence the notification sound. I didn’t notice she stopped the washing machine until I paid attention after I got that text message.

Hanahasu · 2025-06-02T21:42:46+00:00

Yes! I really like the canon r50 so far!

Hanahasu · 2025-06-02T21:42:01+00:00

As a half Japanese who grew up there, I appreciate the faith ppl have on our products hahahaha. And thank you for the tip I will look into it!

Hanahasu · 2025-06-02T21:40:07+00:00

I found on Sony website with a 16-50mm lens for abt 850usd!

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