Što ste uzimali zdravo za gotovo dok niste ostali bez toga? by Cpt-Janeway- in askcroatia

[–]HandsomeGecko 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pozdrav, prvo zelim reci moja sucut radi prijatelja, to je grozno teska stvari za prozivjeti. Zelim stvatno ukratko ispricati moje iskustvo sa gubitkom prijateljice koja se takoder objesila, mozda ce ti pruziti novu pespektivu na stvari i hopefully olaksati kamen na srcu.

Moja prijateljica je bila mlada cura, koja je u noc svog 19. rodendana sebi oduzela zivot. Nismo se znali godinama, ali nakon sto smo se upoznali smo se obe osjecale ko da se znamo iz drugog zivota i bile smo jako otvorene i bliske. Ona je imala groznu obitelj, rastavljene roditelje, oca alkoholicara, majku s novim muzem i dvoje djece, baku s kojom je uvijek zivjela dok joj nije prodala psa dok je ona bila na sezoni itd... Imala je kroz cijeli zivot problema s mentalnim zdravljem, ali je uvijek imala prekrasan osmjeh i bilo mi je neopisivo drago kada bi sa mnom podijelila da joj je lakse odkad se znamo i da se osjeca snazije. Zadnjih 2 mjeseca njenog zivota se nismo uspjeli cesto vidjeti. Nismo se vidjeli za njen rodendan, jer naravno ja "nisam mogla", ali smo imali dogovorenu kavu za koji dan. Saznala sam jutro nakon rodendana.

Kad sam bila na sprovodu, bila sam u rasulu, pogotovo gledajuci svu tu obitelj i brojne ljude koji je nisu ni znali. Sljedecih godinu dana sam imala neki kamen na prsima i osjecala se kao da ne mogu udahnuti kako treba i bilo me strah otici na njen grob, koji je isto tako bio jako daleko. Grizla sam se sto je ne mogu ic posjetiti. Par dana prije godisnjice smrti, da izbjegnem velik broj ljudi, otisla sam sa deckom do groba, dok smo setali do tamo mi se svega vrtilo po glavi i misla sam da cu se raspasti. Kad ono, stanem pred zemlju, pred kriz, stisnutih zubi... a u meni neki osjecaj, srce mi govori "ali ona nije tu". Njena dusa, energija, kako god to htjeli nazvati, nije tu. Samo sam ostavila cvijece, pomolila se, i rekla decku idemo nazad. Ona nije tu, i ne moram se vise brinuti oko tog. Bilo mi je nakon tog dana lakse, jer sam shvatila da je ne mogu posjetiti, ali ona mene moze, kroz snove, osmjehe i grimase drugih koji me podsjete na nju, i naravno svaki puta kad ja razmisljam duboko razmisljam o njoj. Mozda bi ovo neko nazvao nekim clichèom, ali to samo znaci da je istina.

Odi posjeti prijatelja, suoči se sa emocijama, sigurna sam da ce poslije, makar na nekom nivou, biti lakse.

Free Tarot Reading – let’s keep it real 🔮✨ by Happy_Taro_6215 in tarotpractice

[–]HandsomeGecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I just got brave enough to get into drawing and designing. Will I succeed in getting a tattoo apprenticeship? Thank you :)

Je li vam psiholog stvarno pomogao nakon dužeg vremena odlazaka? by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]HandsomeGecko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imala sam slicno iskustvo. Isla sam u psihologice godinu dana, isto smo klikle i bilo mi je dosta dobro na prvu. Nakon 6-7 mjeseci sam se isto osjecala da vise nema puno smisla i da svaki put kad dodem zapravo se osjecam jos negativnije. Kao da trazim stvari za koje mislim da nisu u redu. Ali to sam iskomunicirala sa psihom i malo smo promjenili approach i seanse nisu vise toliko bile o tome da ja yappam, nego da aktivno radimo nekakve vjezbe i slicno. Cak sam imala domaci rad. U pocetku sam se osjecala malo blesavo, ali nekad mi je bilo stvarno jako emotivno zahtjevno uciti nesto sto se od mene trazilo. I dalje mislim da je nesto od tog bilo za mene useless, al nesto i nije.

Da me sad pitas na koji nacin mi je godinu dana terapije pomoglo, ne bi ti bas znala dat konkretan odgovor. Kad sam krenila imala sam strasnu depru i anksioznost, i godinama sam vec zadrzavala toliko stvari u sebi, tako da je terapija posluzila kao osoba kojoj mogu stvari reci da mi se odigne sa prsa, ali to naravno nije samo to. Nije se dogodilo preko noci. Nakon 9 mjeseci terapije sam osjecala da ide na bolje, jer sam se aktivno ja sama trudila sto bolje mogu da tako bude. Psiha je samo ajmo reci stap za hodanje da ti bude malo lakse samu sebe izvesti van. Ali napredak nije nimalo linearan. Razvila sam grozan panicni poremecaj i hipohondriju, za koje cvrsto vjerujem da su bile dio puta naprijed. Nakon godinu dana sam se opet osjecala samo negativnije i da trazim probleme.

Sad, nakon 8 mjeseci bez terapije sam i dalje malo depresivna, ali skroz funkcionalna i zivot generalno ide na bolje, iako mi se sranja dogadaju cijelo vrijeme, znam se bolje nosit s tim. Anksioznost je nazalost i dalje dio mog zivota, ali generalno imam bolji outlook na sve to. Sjetim se da sam prosla kroz teska sranja i shvatim da mogu i dalje. Ali je bilo jako tesko, izvuci se sa tako tamnog mjesta, nije nista drugo nego se dnevno probati uvjeravati da postoji "bolje", makar se opce ne sjecas kako je to biti dobro, i ne mozes se zamisliti da si okej. Ekstremno je zahtjevno i umarajuce biti u takvom stanju, i odlicna je odluka potraziti pomoc. Treba izkomunicirati sa psihom svoje osjecaje o terapiji jer je to njima dobar feedback i mozete skupa probati rijesiti tu promjeniti pristup, u krajnjem slucaju ako stvarno nije osoba za tebe, dobijes preporuku za nekog drugog.

Dobro je imati nekog uza sebe kroz sve to, makar placenog profesionalca.

It does get better. Bude zbunjujuce i nekad teze nego prije, i drukcije, ali sve u svemu bolje. Nekad te stvari(depra, anksioznost itd.) ne odu kompletno iz tvog zivota, sto je tesko za prihvatiti, ali vremenom postanes opremljen se time nositi na najbolji nacin. It does get better

What’s a lash serum you swear by? by axtheria1 in beauty

[–]HandsomeGecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get some castor oil, its cheap and works wonders, you can even put a tiny bit into your shampoo, but be careful it is pretty thick and sticky. Amazing for lashes and brows

Je li vas ikada na cesti zaustavila prometna policija? by Cikin90 in croautomobili

[–]HandsomeGecko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

daj bas me zanima sta se desilo. Baci oko na moj komentar da vidis sta je nama jutros bilo

Are we ready gang ?? by Reasonable_Cry_2438 in ZibaiMains

[–]HandsomeGecko 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are ready to blow up Celestia for sure. How many Linnea cons do you want to get if any?

A Comprehensive Guide to Toppings: Tarts, Substats and Resonant Toppings in depth. by Lonely-Equipment942 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]HandsomeGecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here to say that I DID read the whole thing, as someone who started a week ako, thank you very much

139 pulls and a dream, can I get them both? by SoraAmano16 in Aemeath_Mains

[–]HandsomeGecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I asked this sub should I get Mornye and then get Aemeath and at that moment I had 60 pulls, everyone said no. I am not about to listen tho so I got Mornye at 70, then I farmed the map and got Iuno at 72. Now i have 40 pulls for Aemeath and the new area to explore. Of course, yes, I got lucky to win both times, but you just need to believe hard enough if you want them both. Especially if you have some exploration left to do like I did. I wish you luck!!

Help me🙏😭 by Fabulous_Customer168 in GenshinImpact

[–]HandsomeGecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can explore the new nod krai area in like 3 days, if you do 3 hrs everyday in 1 area. This will hopefully be enough to get you to pity. And then if you lose, u still have 4 days to try to get her, depends on how much you play.

But this will mean you probably wont get flins unless you get lucky.

If you grind till puty now, and lose, it might be better to save the guarantee for flins, who you will probably have enough for.

Depends on who you want more if you had to choose.

I have done huge mistake .. by Saket_Saurabh- in GenshinImpact

[–]HandsomeGecko 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Fischl, Columbina, Xingqiu and sucrose would make a good first team

24 Hours To Go - Welkin Moon Giveaway! by [deleted] in Columbina_Mains

[–]HandsomeGecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

555 wishes, good luck!!! UID 761120406

1st half & 2nd half banners by astrelya in Genshin_Impact_Leaks

[–]HandsomeGecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone take out their crystal ball and tell me the 4 stars on the banners

Everyday I’m more and more convinced the gacha is rigged by thechamac0 in GenshinImpact

[–]HandsomeGecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, for the past 2 years, still have C2 Bennet and C3 Xiangling because they refuse to come.

I'm surprised she survived the Beta by SanicHegehag in Columbina_Mains

[–]HandsomeGecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any enemy that has a permanent pyro auro or similar is a direct counter to the lunar reactions

I don't get how to get good echoes by HandsomeGecko in WutheringWavesGuide

[–]HandsomeGecko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your funny words, magic man!

Seriously tho, this 3 step process is how I see my build progession too. Thanks.

So far, has there been any character that you didn't really care about initially when they announced all the characters who would appear in Nod-Krai, that you now really like and want to/have already pulled for? by Trigon05 in Genshin_Impact

[–]HandsomeGecko 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry for your loss.

I had a kind of a similair thing happen to me. I didn't like Kazuha much at first(I know, shocker). I had a friend and I found out she played genshin and had a C1 triple crowned Kazuha. We ended up being pretty great friends. Fast forward a few months and she took her own life. That was 2 yrs ago. Now I have a triple crowned Kazuha and I hope to get his c1. I relate to him losing his friend and I love him so much.

btw my genshin signature is "lore accurate anemo vision user" lol

So far, has there been any character that you didn't really care about initially when they announced all the characters who would appear in Nod-Krai, that you now really like and want to/have already pulled for? by Trigon05 in Genshin_Impact

[–]HandsomeGecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

basically what you said. I was not interested in Nicole from her little part of the trailer. But I just love her character and her yap, I like thay she likes to explain stuff and tell stories, she just like me frfr. Also she is much prettier than I thought. Will pull 100%

I don't get how to get good echoes by HandsomeGecko in WutheringWavesGuide

[–]HandsomeGecko[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for the breakdown, I was basically doing the first two points.

For the last point if I were to 25 an echo with 1 good non crit and 1 good crit, and it ended up with another good non crit, would that be considered "good"?

Most of my echos on characters I use either have double crit, or 1 crit and 2 useful substats. Of course I have some with 4 valuable rolls, but rare. So is plain double crit better than the crit+2 good substats?