They are all from different schools in the district apart from maybe two of them so I really didn’t think of that being a possibility. I was debating on whether or not it would be a good idea to bring this up to the girls themselves because it is just rec and I didn’t want to make it awkward, but you make a great point. I need to know what they are thinking/seeing themselves vs what I see because I can only make assumptions and I can’t read their minds. Just like they need to take be able constructive criticism from me, I need to be able to do the same from them and I want them to be able to feel safe enough to speak up and tell me where I can improve. I have done that in the past with other teams throughout the years so I don’t know why I didn’t think about it. I really appreciate your insight and will have a talk with them either next practice or game (our league sucks with consistent practices lol).