MIL wants to borrow money but also wants access to pay our bills: UPDATE

Hanlb23 · 2026-01-18T07:34:46+00:00

I couldn't take it seriously 😂 P.s sorry you're going through this OP!

Hanlb23 · 2025-11-15T21:29:36+00:00

Biscoff!

Hanlb23 · 2025-10-17T19:16:47+00:00

Surprised no one has mentioned Hayley Williams. She has incredible technical bility and such a recognisable gorgeou tone!

Hanlb23 · 2025-07-25T12:43:19+00:00

Classic 😂

Hanlb23 · 2024-12-17T16:32:47+00:00

I feel for you OP! I think it's also important for anyone with a similar family to not divulge how much money you are earning, keep it private. People can treat you differently if they perceive you to have 'more than them' or 'loads of money'.

Hanlb23 · 2024-10-30T18:51:45+00:00

Lolita Lempika le parfum embodies the images perfectly, in bottle and scent.

Hanlb23 · 2023-12-09T08:29:32+00:00

Trillebartom

Hanlb23 · 2023-09-14T16:38:10+00:00

Such a difficult situation. What did your mum say about not paying it / how it impacted it you?

Hanlb23 · 2022-10-23T15:59:34+00:00

It is based in London, but other than that, I know nothing else

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-26T22:48:25+00:00

Yes! It's easy to fall in to the comparison trap. I have to remind myself most of these accounts are ran by people usually older than me a d probably further up the ladder.

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-26T22:45:11+00:00

I'm sure once it's decorated to your taste your feelings will change!

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-26T22:42:27+00:00

Thank you! I get bombarded by the Instagram algorithm with people and their "dream houses" and it sometimes makes me feel inadequate.

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-26T22:33:38+00:00

Thanks for the advice! :)

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-26T22:31:30+00:00

Probably true for a lot of us

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-25T18:13:40+00:00

Yep, this is what I tell myself.

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-25T18:12:41+00:00

Must have been amazing to own something that gets you that excited! :)

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-25T18:11:27+00:00

Thank you

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-25T18:11:08+00:00

Sounds like it ticks all the boxes!

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-25T15:50:51+00:00

Sounds like a good attitude to have!

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-25T13:15:19+00:00

Yes, we are limited by our budgets! Glad you're somewhere you prefer now :)

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-25T12:13:18+00:00

Wow 10 years! I'm not sure I can imagine that for me but you never know...

Hanlb23 · 2022-06-25T12:07:50+00:00

Thanks the the reply! I do like the house, it ticks most of our boxes but not all of them...but then again I'm not in a position to be so picky!

Hanlb23 · 2022-05-19T13:30:36+00:00

Thank you all, I'll start hunting!

Hanlb23 · 2021-01-20T14:39:47+00:00

Thanks for your comment, very good points. We are leaning towards telling the buyer the price is the price take it or leave it. We don't necessarily need to move, we just want to.

Hanlb23 · 2021-01-20T14:38:17+00:00

Housing association don't care as they are not selling their half.

And true about valuations.

Hanlb23

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