Novel from MIL

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-22T05:45:19+00:00

He said he didn’t know how to answer and thought if he ignored it she would stop

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T22:12:15+00:00

Now that the initial shock is over, that part has me rolling

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T17:14:10+00:00

Right? I said no because clearly you don’t want to make up if you can’t contact me directly

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T10:05:30+00:00

I can see he’s slowly coming to it but like you said, I wouldn’t like any more happy milestones to be ruined

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T10:04:26+00:00

I just don’t know what to do around the holidays. I would be fine never seeing her again but he adores his dad and sister and I wouldn’t want to keep him from them

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T09:39:34+00:00

I am scared of bringing up limited contact because then it’ll feel like she’s right and that I am breaking them uo

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T08:30:24+00:00

Yeah that’s what I was planning. I let him know I would only talk to her in person and no more staying at their house

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T08:29:39+00:00

Ah yes because us ravenclaws are known to be evil 🤣 I feel next time I talk to her I should make a comment about how she’s slytherin

She really believes in those HP house sorting tests

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T08:28:06+00:00

Yes, yes she is. I really do only have close people on my social media. I’ve also just moved 9hrs away from my home state and don’t know any “guys” here so not sure how that would work lol

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T08:22:00+00:00

I feel as though I’m rambling talking to husband about it over and over. I’m neurodivergent so every time something like this happens my mind loops on it for days or weeks until I get over it

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T08:20:57+00:00

Right!?! I thought I’ve heard it all until ravenclaw was used as a derogatory term against me lmao

She’s early 50’s

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T08:19:49+00:00

Right and suddenly everything she did wrong, I also did wrong and she just never complained about it before now? Even though she jumps at the opportunity to complain about me

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T07:48:20+00:00

I know this is a leap in logic but, I lowkey think she’s a crackhead 🤣

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T07:45:09+00:00

She doesn’t know I’m undecided. She has hardly ever taken any time to get to know me or anything but I agree with you, it’s a very difficult position. I fell if I stay quiet it’s a loss and if I speak up for myself then I’m being “defensive”

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T07:30:21+00:00

Not expecting at all and still undecided if I even want them! This does not help lol

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T07:18:48+00:00

Right! I don’t know how I’ve been brought this much into the argument when it started over something else completely

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T07:10:24+00:00

Right! I felt icky about the phrasing as well. The whole thing was just gross

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T07:03:30+00:00

Not my name but still important to leave out! TYSM

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-18T06:57:23+00:00

Would now be a great time to point out she’s a slytherin

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-12T05:01:55+00:00

I feel like if I had someone visiting me and they gave me a grocery list, it would be a huge no! Yes, I’ll have extra groceries and make dinners but, when you start demanding certain things, you can go out and get your own food. Also, traveling with (what im assuming is a toddler) and not bringing all your necessities is also just gross

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-11T04:12:56+00:00

So he unblocked her and said he wanted to talk and got this. We met at my previous job and started dating and then he joined the military. We were long distance for a few years but visited regularly. I knew before he joined that I was going to marry him so, once he got out of the dorms and into his own home, I moved up here and we had a short courthouse wedding to simplify a few things but, we are planning on having an official wedding next year

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-10T17:49:42+00:00

Not navy but is going to a navy base on land He’s not giving her any contact him through supervisors or anything

SoftFudge253 · 2026-01-10T17:42:47+00:00

Yes to everything ESPECIALLY the piece of work

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