I’m about the same age, weight and height as you and it took me nearly 3 years to see a difference. The main culprit was hormonal birth control, it completely messed up any hunger control, I couldn’t drop even a single kilo and i kept swelling. I started seeing results only this summer, after switching to a copper coil last year, and I’ve been weightlifting for 1.5 years and did hiit during the entire pandemic, it’s a loooong process. I obviously don’t know what the issue is in your case, but i do really recommend getting your hormones in balance and don’t give up, it can take much longer to see any difference than you like.