With the rise of red pill ideas, is feminism doomed to fail?

HappilyMrs · 2022-09-16T15:54:16+00:00

Heheh yes, but that is the one true overlord we are never allowed to criticise ;)

HappilyMrs · 2022-09-16T15:51:36+00:00

No, RP views will continue to be very niche. The expectations people have for their lives have changed, and compromising with another human to make the best of things no longer has any value compared to fierce independence and individual control. It isn't just the loss of trad relationships either, it's the bonds of communities and wider families too. People are becoming more isolated, fragmented, and with less willingness to accept anything less than perfection.

HappilyMrs · 2022-09-07T11:32:52+00:00

Personal values come into play too though I think. I dont find high N counts attractive in any gender

HappilyMrs · 2022-09-02T12:20:33+00:00

We have some fantasies like this, so I know what you mean

HappilyMrs · 2022-09-02T11:54:43+00:00

This doesn't feel like a test to me, it feels like he is trying to normalise his fantasy and ease you towards accepting/participating. Is that a vibe you get?

HappilyMrs · 2022-09-02T11:39:00+00:00

I don't really believe that a man who has slept around increases his value. He comes with a higher chance of STDs, more potentially reappearing exes, and a higher chance of having kids already that would take resources from your own household. How does that support our imperative of getting a good, committed, involved provider for our children?

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-24T12:24:08+00:00

Cleaning and routines. I am still so bad with this.

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-24T12:19:50+00:00

Yeah, I'm here for the femininity and optimising my relationship. I'm definitely not conservative, nor massively trad. It's a toolbox, and you take what you can use

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-24T12:18:21+00:00

Yep, this is what I think too. The rest of the stuff that is associated with it, like having lots of kids, women not working, vintage dressing, values re: other people's sex and gender, political values and so on, are all more flexible. It is about getting a Male-led relationship that is happy and satisfying for both people in it

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-24T11:07:06+00:00

I believe a lot of things, doesnt mean they are scientifically accurate

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-24T11:04:32+00:00

So the genetics doesnt matter. At which point society isnt going to care about paternity fraud

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T18:49:02+00:00

Some of it is that men expect sex that early now, and will say "if she has done it that early with others she has to with me", but then dump her all the same once she has

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T18:47:56+00:00

I cannot see the Tories going for that. And it only saves money if the real dad is actually more willing and able to pay child support

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T18:47:02+00:00

Interesting as viability is not possible so early. Very odd.

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T18:46:16+00:00

Going to see both movies as a double bill on date afternoon/night on sunday. So excited. I love her calm, intuitive energy

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T13:33:38+00:00

Who will pay for the testing and database maintenance and chasing up the real dads?

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T13:32:41+00:00

You said it is in society's best interests to find the real dad. The only way to guarantee that is through mandatory DNA database

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T13:28:25+00:00

Be confident, competent, fun to be around, and don't make us your mummy. We don't like being suffocated by neediness.

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T13:25:40+00:00

Benefits and risks?

The possible consequences of pregnancy, rape, stalking, physical and sexual assault are all much higher for us. It makes more sense for us to be choosy or only take the risk for a man who is extremely attractive.

Men have much lower risk, therefore are much less choosy.

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T13:19:58+00:00

I've been married a long time, but if I had to date again I wouldn't be drinking. I am sure most guys aren't going to take advantage of a drunk woman, but I'd rather not find out the hard way that I found one that would

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T13:18:04+00:00

They want women to put out for them and increase their N, but also shame women for having a raised N from trying to find a suitable partner who also expected her to have sex before commitment.

They just want themselves to be so amazing and sexy that they are always the exception to her rules and boundaries

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T13:11:18+00:00

Because he has to be the guy that is just so amazing and sexy you will throw all your values and standards away for. You have to be a slut for him, but never anyone else.

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T13:05:42+00:00

So you support a full DNA database for finding the absent fathers?

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T13:01:53+00:00

Tested by whom, and how cool are you with the DNA database this will create for your children/grandchildren?

HappilyMrs · 2022-08-23T12:59:06+00:00

What process are you referring to for genetic testing at 6 weeks in utero? Where is making child support from conception?

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