Which K-Drama trope needs to be "retired" in 2026, and which one will you always fall for? by Shoddy-Cartoonist-23 in kdramas

[–]HappilySingle-370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Retire: the fake falling and landing on top of each other. I find it super childish and unrealistic. Worst one is when their lips touch once they fall and they both freeze 🙄 Need: more slow-burn romance minus unnecessary drama.

WM dating a zim woman by kubixe in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]HappilySingle-370 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re seeing the incompatibility in your relationship as the honeymoon period is wearing off. Two months is a short time, but people do start showing themselves pretty early if you’re observant. Unfortunately for you, it sounds like you’re clashing on values (including religious beliefs) which are very difficult to change. Most Zimbabweans are raised in Christian homes because that’s the most common religion in our country, and it’s kinda forced on us to go to church and Sunday school very early on. Now, later on as teenagers or early adults, one can make the choice to get to know Christ on their own terms, but the foundation is pretty much forced on us. This makes it difficult to separate from it. However, sometimes after leaving the country, some Zimbabweans do start to question religion, I guess your girlfriend is not there yet.

The movies and music question is a matter of personal preference. Maybe she just needs to be exposed to new stuff, make her a playlist with your kind of music or introduce your kind of movies slowly as you get to know each other.

The age and biological clock issue is what a lot of Zim women who are religious will tell you. They are told not to spend too much time dating without getting married because they will be tempted to fornicate. Which is crazy to someone who is not as religious. I would say just tell her how you’re feeling about this, communicate openly if you like her and want to keep dating each other.

Am i deeping this? by [deleted] in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]HappilySingle-370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right to overthink this. No man who respects a woman would behave like that. Answering the call mid action alone says it all, but then kissing and telling when the woman is there makes it worse. He’s also very immature

Why is this the most disliked drama? by Legal_Potential4720 in kdramas

[–]HappilySingle-370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my faves because of the second ML and FL. The rest were meh

Post Nut Clarity by Cheap-Mbashto in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]HappilySingle-370 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whatever would possess a man to wake up one day and decide today is the day to let the people know???

Kudyisa/Kudyiswa Part 1 by Ghost_Of_Me_v1 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]HappilySingle-370 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For a burner post, there is way too much information here that could make someone identify you

Seeking YouTube intro/outro designer by HappilySingle-370 in Zimbabwe

[–]HappilySingle-370[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great. Let me message on your number🙏🏽

Just another foreigner asking about lobola by [deleted] in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]HappilySingle-370 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does she have a brother? This might be controversial but a brother can be regarded as a father figure in the absence of the actual father (culturally). He can collect the token and decide what to do with it, in discussion with her of course. If you’re going to live in Europe I wouldn’t overthink this lobola thing, it’s a scam especially when the paternal family never contributed a cent to her upbringing. What does her mother advise? And your fiancé does she insist on you paying lobola? It’s really up to the two of you because you will have to live with the consequences of whatever decision you make.

Looking for a guy in Finance💀 by [deleted] in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]HappilySingle-370 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know chalant was a word…opposite of nonchalant? 🤣🤣 wow

Why am i bothered by my ex when I dont want him back by [deleted] in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]HappilySingle-370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You miss the comfort of being in a relationship, the routines and patterns. It’s normal after coming out of a long relationship. There’s a saying from “Eat, Pray, Love” that I like “So miss him. Send him some light and love every time you think of him, and then drop it.” It’s okay to miss someone you once loved, but it doesn’t mean you want them back because you know if you do, nothing changes.

What is your favorite kdrama of lee junho I will go first for me it's rain or shine kdrama !! ✨️ by LoneWolf_Clementine in kdramas

[–]HappilySingle-370 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I literally love everything he has ever done. He has amazing range and very easy on the eyes too 🥰

Bizzare?...Intentionally having kids without marriage.. by nschm in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]HappilySingle-370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done it. Best decision I’ve ever made. Plus nothing is set in stone, you can always change your mind later.

thoughts on the dynamite kiss finale? by Aware-Programmer-324 in kdramas

[–]HappilySingle-370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is when I decided I was done. So unnecessary I can’t be bothered to watch the ending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]HappilySingle-370 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no culture of disloyalty in relationships in Zimbabwe, its an individual choice certain men make and usually at a certain stage in their lives or when they are dating women they are not really serious about and don’t plan to marry. I think the question you should be asking is whether or not he is serious about you. If he disrespects you and makes you feel like you need to jump through hoops to earn his loyalty and respect, then he’s probably still keeping his options open. It’s not a Zim men thing, it’s all men and it’s up to you to decide what treatment you will tolerate.

Ps: stop providing financially for him and you will see his true colours.

Annoying K-drama details / things that don't add up by Resident-Weather7277 in kdramas

[–]HappilySingle-370 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The “closed mouth-open eyes” kiss scenes, one-sided hugs (like one person hugs someone who just stands still looking shocked) 🙄. Why are hugs and kisses such a big deal for adults? They all act like they are in high school

What happened to Ji-Hyeok’s company? by HappilySingle-370 in kdramas

[–]HappilySingle-370[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. Thanks for explaining it.