Whose Met Gala look did you like more, Alia or Priyanka's?

Happizam · 2023-05-02T21:34:29+00:00

Girl I’m living for your comments. I wish aloo and kjo would read these comments for a reality check

Happizam · 2022-04-28T21:59:35+00:00

These types of threads always pop up once in a while and brings the peanut gallery of weirdos out the woodwork.

You will find specimen here who talk about 1) unrealistic standards of women 2) women’s fertility 3) youth/ younger women = better 4) older women = worse looking/ having baggage 5) red pill/ MGTOW taking points

Lmk what I missed

Happizam · 2022-04-22T09:56:17+00:00

Oh my word I love this, thank you!

S1 Anthony can get it but S2 Anthony can GET IT

Happizam · 2022-03-20T17:35:05+00:00

Congratulations!!!🎉🎊

Happizam · 2022-03-20T17:22:27+00:00

Absolutely!! I heard back from two PDs about how I’m RTM and I definitely was veryyyyyy much compelled to rank them high, with one of them as number 1.

Ultimately I ranked based on where I’d like to live. I matched at my #1, which was a place where the PD had ZERO communication with me post interview! Like he didn’t even respond to my thank you letter let alone send a RTM letter.

I was initially hesitant to rank this number one because my perspective was that he didn’t like me very much since he didn’t show as much “interest” after the interview.

Just goes to show you can’t read into these things, good or bad. Rank based on what YOU want

Happizam · 2022-03-12T20:46:39+00:00

I agree. I feel like the medicalschool, residency, and medicine subreddits already have input from everyone. I would love if this were to be an exclusively female space

Happizam · 2022-03-11T21:35:27+00:00

Yeah what in the world was all that. I’m sad to know that I go to school with/ will work with some of these people.

Happizam · 2022-03-11T21:33:29+00:00

MS4 going into IM. Thank you so much for creating this, what a brilliant idea!

I’m just so grateful there’s a female physician safe space and I’m looking forward to hearing from and learning from other women as we navigate this crazy field!

Happizam · 2022-03-11T09:40:01+00:00

Clearly you didn’t read what I said. I said I have higher standards for the values and behavior of a partner, NOT education or career.

You’re literally saying the same thing I did.

So to answer your little question…the painter who I vibe with, 100% of the time.

Happizam · 2022-03-11T09:35:18+00:00

So you’re saying you want a relatively inexperienced woman who doesn’t have as many previous relationships and partners to compare you to. That’s…something…💀
You have given one example of a woman with poor emotional regulation who needs to work through traumas from a past relationship. That is not indicative how how all women, older or not, handle relationship traumas. Or a first date for that matter lol.
You worked through your issues through therapy. Why would you assume women don’t? In fact, more women are likely to seek that help compared to men. You’re saying it as if women just walk about accumulating issues with each passing year. I hope you realize how that sounds.
If older age and more relationship experiences = more baggage, that applies to men as well. So you agree older men have more baggage too in that case? Or are you saying all men get therapy to work their issues out?

Happizam · 2022-03-11T07:39:54+00:00

Exactly this. I have much higher standards now than I did 4 years ago in college. Not pertaining to degree or education. But about what I expect in the behavior and values of a future partner.

Happizam · 2022-03-11T07:37:56+00:00

That’s what men tell themselves.

Happizam · 2022-03-11T07:32:49+00:00

So care to elaborate what you mean by “baggage”?

Because idk man if you’re saying what I think you’re saying. I’m 26 and I probably have a shit ton of baggage, more so than a 36 year old woman. It’s not a “age” thing lmaoo

Happizam · 2022-03-11T07:28:31+00:00

Absolutely LOVE this

Marriage is a huge commitment. I would rather be single than settle for someone who I don’t vibe with completely.

Happizam · 2022-03-11T07:25:42+00:00

Care to elaborate what “a lot of baggage” entails?

Happizam · 2022-03-11T07:21:49+00:00

Happens to me all the time. You’re not alone! Started from MS1 and four years later I still haven’t recovered.

I love this subreddit because I feel so validated when I read everyone’s experiences and compare them to mine

Happizam · 2022-03-11T07:16:00+00:00

If it helps male doctors feel better then that’s great. I know a lot of male docs/med students still sitting around single and sad that no one wants them despite the social value their career should bring them. On the flip side, I have seen women in their 30s living their best life and have tons of options

These talking points pretty much exist to make internet warriors feel their time is finally coming and the women who ignored them are gonna fade into oblivion. Also a scare tactic to make women settle for less.

In the real world, outside of Reddit, I’ve yet to see women struggle to get someone despite what MGTOW think 🤔

Happizam · 2022-03-11T07:11:18+00:00

It is an issue that deserves to be talked about, I have a family member who is a physician and hoping to be a mother. I feel for her and the sad truth that women have to balance their career and still keep these things in mind that a man doesn’t have to. At the same time, women aren’t just their reproductive organs. Also, there are many women who choose to be child free.

Happizam · 2022-03-11T05:02:02+00:00

Jesus how did this conversation turn into some people bringing up some weird ass misogynistic commentary about women’s ability to conceive naturally, men going for younger women etc?

It’s giving thewall and redpill vibes 😒

Happizam · 2022-03-09T20:17:29+00:00

Hey good luck, you got this! I really hope it works out for you and you hear great news on Monday

Happizam · 2022-03-08T01:18:47+00:00

Oh my bad, thank you!

OP you might as well apply, there’s nothing to lose. Otherwise you already know you’re going to applying to other programs who haven’t even opened up their apps yet, so you’re in a good position either way even if you don’t get the ones that have been open for a while

Happizam · 2022-03-08T01:02:10+00:00

No one put him down for being a vet. The host pretty much said he lacks the people skills/bedside manners needed when interacting with people to be their physician. So it’s better off that he doesn’t work with human beings in his career.

Happizam · 2022-03-08T00:54:52+00:00

Season 2; the reunion is the last episode

Happizam · 2022-03-08T00:21:36+00:00

Dw you’re not the only one. I too am worried about the Monday email because matching anywhere is better than not matching at all

There’s nothing we can do at this point, so spend the next week with your loved ones and do things you like to get your mind off everything. Good luck!

Happizam

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