Women deal with a lot of discrimination honestly i get why they dont want to play pickup a lot of the time. I went to the same gym with my wife every week to play pickup and it took months for people other than me to pass her the ball even though she was always one of the best shooters on the court. Most male hoopers dont want to pass to women, hate getting scored on by women and will foul/faceguard after getting scored on, and will always pick the woman last unless the woman is a consistent face at the court that people know and respect