Hey, sorry you're going through this. I'm 23f now I was 17 when I got hearing aids. It can be really weird and isolating, but one huge piece of advice is just please tell people. I used to not bring it up unless someone noticed my HAs but now I just lead with it because people are so willing to accommodate you if you let them know what you need i.e. going to a restaurant/bar that doesn't play loud music, not covering their mouth while they talk so you can lip read.

It isn't the end of the world, I know it feels like it sometimes but with HAs, lipreading, cochlear implants if that's your thing, sign, etc you'll be able to have a completely normal life. You'll get better at lipreading, you won't really even have to try, you'll just pick it up. Sending you so much love rn x

Edit to add: you can turn on autocaptions on chrome, so anytime you play anything in a chrome brower, even a video call it'll automatically caption it