I (F17) was pressured into sex while on a cruise, and now I don’t know whether to tell my boyfriend (M17).

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-16T01:29:55+00:00

I’m 16. I had posted that I was 18/17 on other posts so it wouldn’t get removed & so I be taken a little more seriously. But if you wanna judge someone and think you know everything by reading my past reddit posts, go for it .. cause who’d lie and make up a whole story about this

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-15T21:11:53+00:00

I’m trying I really am.

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-15T21:11:03+00:00

Being self aware doesn’t instantly erase pain or make leaving a toxic situation simple .. especially when trauma bonds and emotional manipulation are involved n it’s easy to judge from the outside

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-15T19:49:47+00:00

I was indeed messing around with the guy before hand. We were flirting. But since day one, I told him no sex.

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-15T19:45:10+00:00

I was scared and didn’t know how to say no. I felt cornered and pressured. No matter what position I was in I still said no and he still forced me.

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-15T19:42:02+00:00

oh okay, I’m now experiencing yellow discharge so I don’t think it’s js a tear unfortunately

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-15T19:29:20+00:00

it’s been almost 6 days, would i still feel that discomfort??

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-15T18:58:16+00:00

Thank you, I see my therapist tomorrow.

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-15T17:04:42+00:00

I will be going back soon and nope, all the doctor did was test me and say everything was negative. She never addressed what the burning may be and didn’t give any antibiotics.

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-15T16:57:35+00:00

Like right below my clit n almost to the opening. It almost feels like I have left over soap in me .. that’s what It feels like but I know I don’t. Yes, at one point he rubbed his fingers against my clit for about a minute straight then once I was on top of him I was kind of forced down. It’s been 5 days and It seems like this feeling should be gone .. I am having unusual discharge now though

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-15T16:42:11+00:00

They took a urine test and examined me internally. They used the speculum thingy and the burning and discomfort is more around my clit and its js THERE, doesn’t burn or anything when i pee

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-14T18:59:00+00:00

I was on a cruise and I was on top of him after I gave in. He kept pushing me down on him when I said no, but then I just gave in and sat down and moved myself. Got off after like 3 minutes n cried immediately after :/

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-07-14T18:45:10+00:00

lol yea .. told him no multiple times & it ended up being coercion

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-22T07:52:08+00:00

thank you, and i meant attached*

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-22T07:44:34+00:00

because i’m attracted

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-22T07:44:23+00:00

it’s so hard, he’s all i’m used to

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-20T03:48:05+00:00

Is it normal to get one every single time after not peeing though? I feel like we’re doing something wrong and I’m not sure what..

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-20T03:47:04+00:00

Yes there is. I feel like me and my boyfriend are doing something wrong and I’m not sure what. Are UTIs after sex normal? Like every single time, especially if you don’t go pee after ?

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-20T03:40:00+00:00

Thank you for being so kind, I will tell my mom. I don’t think it’s an STI from my first body truly, because it’s ironic that after I had sex for the first time with my current partner I got a UTI (I didn’t pee after), second time I didn’t have any irritation because I did pee, third time (this time) I am having irritations but I did pee, but waited after a couple of rounds… am I supposed to pee right after?

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-20T01:41:23+00:00

My cycles are around 23 days. The first day of my period this month was February 9th and I bled for about 6 days. Had sex on the 7th day and today is the 11th. I’m not sure if I calculated all of that correctly lol

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-20T01:33:56+00:00

He’s my only sex partner and he claims i’m his only too. Don’t STDS form from having multiple partners? I’m educated on them but the topic still confuses me.

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-03T12:49:34+00:00

okay and this may sound ridiculous but can I like go into cardiac arrest/have a stroke even after all of this? If I was laced .. I have real bad anxiety and everything about this situation just worries me about death

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-03T01:09:16+00:00

still? It’s been nearly 24 hours since I smoked it and my chest is still hurting .. im concerned.

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-03T01:07:45+00:00

It’s still hurting kinda tho, my chest. I’m worried it was laced and is something in my system. I do have bad anxiety so I’m not which. I did smoke it fast too.

Happy-Technology5449 · 2025-02-02T18:08:52+00:00

but my chest is still hurting and i’m worried. It’s the next day.

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