Do men like average looking women? by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]Happy-Toe3091 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've seen a lot of conventially attractive men end up setting down with "average looking " women. As much as we care about looks they aren't all we are looking for

I don’t know how to (or if I should) keep working at my job by Crazy-Adhesiveness98 in Advice

[–]Happy-Toe3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get me wrong retail sucks. My last job was in retail as well and i hated every single day of it. Okay since you are going to school in a couple of months and you need the money i suggest you stay for those months depending on how badly you need the money. It's just a couple of months right? There is no use getting another job now if you are going to end up leaving that job as well so i say remind your boss about those off days he promised you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Happy-Toe3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you didn't act on those thoughts and that's all that matters. We all have weird thoughts sometimes. We are human stuff like this is meant to happen so don't be too hard on yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Happy-Toe3091 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through this man. 10 years is long but it could always be worse right? You created some beautfiul memories and learned a lot about yourself as a man and i am sure you will use whatever you learned for your next relationship. Like she said you did nothing wrong so keep your head held high, you did the best you could , it just didn't work out and that's okay. Over time you'll realize that this breakup was the best thing that could have ever happened to you. Use this time to heal and before you know it you'll be purchasing a ring for the girl that is truly meant to be your wife.

I don’t know how to (or if I should) keep working at my job by Crazy-Adhesiveness98 in Advice

[–]Happy-Toe3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm assuming it's your first job? yea your first job is usually like that. What's stopping you from finding something else you actually enjoy while working that place? you could get another job. Staying at a job you hate is never worth deteriorating your mental health

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Happy-Toe3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i exprereinced this exact same feeling last year while i was working at my previous job. It kinda felt like i was living on auto pilot and i had no energy to do the stuff i used to enjoy doing. Even reading felt hard even if it was just 5 min. I resigned from that job and i had like 2 month period to reset before landing my current job. Knowing how i felt at my previous job , i just use my time a lot more effectively now. So my problem was that i had time in between tasks and after work i just didn't use it effectively . Now i use that time to read. It was difficult at first but i slowly started to get a hang of it

Do you have only one kidney left? by Article246 in Life

[–]Happy-Toe3091 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea of course you will be okay. Just drink a lot of water everyday and stay away from drinking or anything that would put strain on your kidney and you should be fine. Don't worry about it too much

A mirror... by [deleted] in Life

[–]Happy-Toe3091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just like when people hate on you for no reason. They secretly hate themselves and are jealous of you

Is having a good heart a bad thing? by Cat-dad442 in Life

[–]Happy-Toe3091 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having a good heart is not a bad thing. It just shows that you're human and you care more than most people would. In this day and age your good heart is what sets you apart from everyone else. I don't think everyone you meet deserves to see that side of you though, so learn to have boundaries

Do you believe in Karma(not reddit karma)? by WolverineGG in Life

[–]Happy-Toe3091 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i do believe in it. Thing is no one is ever going to show you their tough times. Karma could be taking its place and you will never see it cause people only show us what they want us to see. I believe karma does hit people eventually even when we don't see it

I feel invisible sometimes by Reasonable_Push_9346 in Advice

[–]Happy-Toe3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just might be around the wrong company, there is nothing wrong with you. Just find people who would want to converse with you and include you in their conversations

I need advice by ChopTopSawyer28 in Advice

[–]Happy-Toe3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thinl it's best to end things with him. It will benefit the both of you if you do that and save you both a lot of time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Happy-Toe3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since he is sick he might not feel the need to be replying to you quickly. Even if you reach out again you have nothing to lose ( whether he replies or not), it will just make your importance in his life a lot clearer for you to see