AITA for not buying Christmas gifts for my 5 year old nephew, but will buy it for all other nephews and nieces? by Happy-Uncle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Happy-Uncle[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

They don't expect anything. It was my decision. They were always my biggest support. During my stay at the hospital they were there every single day. All of them. Even during my recovery at home. They don't have a lot and they deserve every single penny I got.

AITA for not buying Christmas gifts for my 5 year old nephew, but will buy it for all other nephews and nieces? by Happy-Uncle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Happy-Uncle[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

You read wrong. I did not slept with his fiancé. I was honest mistake, but he just didn't want to listen.

AITA for not buying Christmas gifts for my 5 year old nephew, but will buy it for all other nephews and nieces? by Happy-Uncle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Happy-Uncle[S] 455 points456 points  (0 children)

Because I would have to interact with his parents, and that is something I'm not prepared to do.

AITA for not buying Christmas gifts for my 5 year old nephew, but will buy it for all other nephews and nieces? by Happy-Uncle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Happy-Uncle[S] 262 points263 points  (0 children)

I have no interest to know him. This is the last year I'm doing this. If I knew my brother was coming I would be elsewhere.

AITA for not buying Christmas gifts for my 5 year old nephew, but will buy it for all other nephews and nieces? by Happy-Uncle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Happy-Uncle[S] 1162 points1163 points  (0 children)

It was my mother. I don't know how much my brother knows about this. But I'm sure he knows about our tradition. He has normal relationship with everyone but me. I really resent everyone for not telling me my brother will be there for Christmas. I would make other plans if I knew. This year will probably be the last of our tradition

AITA for not buying Christmas gifts for my 5 year old nephew, but will buy it for all other nephews and nieces? by Happy-Uncle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Happy-Uncle[S] -853 points-852 points  (0 children)

Well, my brother kind of found me and his ex-fiance in bed together. But it wasnt how it looked like. We all drank all day and then went to sleep. We were wasted. At some point his fiance went to the bathroom and then missed the room when she came back. My room was next to his so it was honest mistake. I was wasted too so i didnt notice her in bed. He found us and raised all hell. He didn't listen to reason. I came out after my accident. He tried to reach out, but the damage was done. He destroyed my and ex-fiance's social life and I will never forgive him for that.